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writes: i have been best m8s with this lad for 2 years the problem is i think i love him and dont know wheter to tell him. i get the feeling he does feel the same but font want to risk are friendship as i would be lost without him can you help?? Reply to this Question
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reader, geqo  +, writes (13 November 2006):
 I also say you should go for it, but this doesn't mean this is the RIGHT answer, just a suggested answer. You'll have to weigh up the pros and cons yourself, and eventually decide for yourself.
Try approaching the subject with him carefully: see how he feels about homosexuality, about friends starting to date, about people staying friends after dating, etc. All this will help you decide whether to tell him or not.
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reader, HONEST JULIE +, writes (13 November 2006):
 I WOULD SAY THAT YOUR FRIENSHIP IS A STRONG AS YOU SAY IT IS, AND YOU WANT TO MOVE THINGS UP THEN TELL HIM, AND WAIT TO SEE IF HE FEEL'S THE SAME WAY
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reader, Juls +, writes (12 November 2006):
Go for it. If you don't, you're not being honnest, and the friendship is already lost.
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