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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2010): Listen to all the tips others have given and mostly communication (if u still have questions and words cannot answer them watch a Porno. I've only watched porn because it educates u immensely. Granted there are some weird ones but just watch and u will learn. It isn't bad if u do it it's just helping u and ur partner be better pleasures. So good luck and most of all have fun.
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reader, xtatx  +, writes (21 February 2010):
im really only a beginner but i read a tip in cosmopolitan and i used it on my boyfriend and he loves it so thought i should share :) basically, flick ur tongue on the area where the balls and the shaft connect, then lick along the thin line connecting the two balls to each other, and then the area connecting the balls to the anus. it makes him shudder and gasp, i love it ;p
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2009): everyone knows guys love to be in controlSO do what you would normally do, and take into account all of the amazing tips other people have posted. but for an added bonus ask him what he wants in a sexual deep voice it works for me, he goes crazy with power while you dont really have to think, just obay as he tells you to go harder, softer or deeper.
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reader, meganutts  +, writes (16 August 2009):
 Well this is all just making me horny, but I haven't yet read any response on anyone just saying to just ask the guy what he likes, everyone is listing their experience, but not all men are so easy to figure just by his penis. Ask your man what he likes, what he doesn't and what he hasn't experienced yet. All these are good examples of giving some really, really good head, but your guy isn't there guy, he's yours and his not used to what they do for their men, he's going to be used to what you do to him. So just ask him first because you want to please him and let him show you, then incorporate what you read here. Hope that helps. Now if you will excuse me, I'm way too horny to continue this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2009): before you start... try drinking warm water! you dont have to even drink it drink it but if you leave it in your mouth and your mouth is nice and warm they seem to like that!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2009): great advice ladies! try a cough drop and then start giving him head. my husband loves it. have him do this to you. it drives me crazy!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2009): I don't consider myself a "pro" when it comes to oral sex, but my husband is very pleased with my technique. During foreplay, I brush my breasts over the shaft and tip of his penis, which he loves. The sensation of his most sensitive part touching my nipples is exciting for him. I also find that he enjoys a gentle stroke to the perineum. It happens to be a very sensitive area for the both of us, and I'd highly recommend it being stroked during "girl on top" sex as you lean forward -- it almost feels TOO good!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2009): Most of what people are saying here is correct.
[b]Confidence is the number one important thing in giving "head" or a blowjob.[/b] If you aren't confident or are scared to do it, neither of you wille enjoy it very much.
Obviously, you have to start by getting your man "in the mood." You can do this with foreplay, kissing, playing with his "spots" if you know where they are. Or, you can go right for his prized posession and get right down to business, so to speak.
If you're going directly south, you can start out by licking up and down his shaft lightly with your tongue, taking all of his penis in your mouth.
[b]Make sure as long as his penis is near your mouth, your mouth is wet.[/b] You can keep doing this, or whatever turns him on, until he's fully erect.
Now comes the fun..
You can start out by running your tongue all over his shaft, playfully licking the tip. Lick the underside of his penis, and pay special attention to where the head and shaft connect. This little spot is supposed to be somewhat compared to a g-spot on women. [I've been known to get a guy to climax just by tapping my tongue on this little spot.] Slowly start sucking the tip of his penis, taking more and more into your mouth as you start to slide your head up and down his shaft. [u]Make sure you cover your teeth while down there. Most guys won't appreciate being bitten there.[/u]
DEEPTHROATING
When you start getting into it, you can try deepthroating. Now don't get all bent out of shape if you can't do this, a lot of people can't their first time. You have to teach yourself to be able to do it. They say the best position for deep-throating is for the giver [which would be you] to lay on a bed or table, with your head hanging off of it, kind of at a 90 degree angle. Your man should stand in front of you, at your head, and slowly slide himself into your mouth. Now, he has total control in this position, so you have to make sure you have communication. This position is supposed to open up your throat so that his penis passes right over your gag reflex. If this is uncomfortable, you can try other positions- the positions are endless! My favorite is with my guy laying down and me kneeling between his legs. Anyway, when you find your comfortable position, take a deep breath and slide his penis into your mouth as far as it will go. You'll probably hit your gag reflex, which isn't a very good feeling. Come up for air and try, try again- practice makes perfect!
So you're doing all this and he seems to be enjoying it. Now you're faced with a decision -spit or swallow? Most guys think it's amazingly hot if a girl swallows his load. If you have a queasy stomach, try keeping something to drink nearby so you can rinse it down.
INFO BY TYPE:
* Mouth Only - This is a good place to start if he isn't fully erect. Put his entire penis in your mouth while you suck and lick. Don't start moving your mouth up and down until he's at least partially erect. Another mouth technique is to repeatedly suck in his soon-to-be erect penis and then follow with a swallowing motion, allowing for his entire penis to be in your mouth. Just because it isn't fully erect yet doesn't mean it doesn't feel good.
* Mouth and Tongue - Lick the whole tip, and use your tongue to lick up and down the sides. This will help get his erection slick enough to slide into your mouth easily. Make sure you cover your teeth with your lips, and glide the head of his penis into your mouth. At this point you can use your tongue to lick the sensitive spot underneath the ridge of the head. From here you can proceed down the shaft as far as you can go. Don't worry if it isn't all the way - your mouth isn't necessarily as deep as his penis is long. Relax your jaw and neck as much as possible, and remember to breathe, through your nose if you can. This will help to minimize the possibility of gagging. When you pull your mouth back, pull it up the entire length right over the ridge of the tip, or even take it out of your mouth for a second- this is another opportunity to breathe. Then go on back for more. Try to avoid jerky, abrupt movements - and a glass of water nearby is handy. Keeping your tongue in motion is a good idea as well. You have it conveniently located, you might as well play with it. As for suction, you can suck on the head.
* Mouth and Hands - Hands can be remarkably useful - they add variety, they can play with other parts, and they can make up for whatever you can't take into your mouth. One hand at the base of the penis, with the thumb and forefinger circling the shaft can not only help keep him erect and in position, but can keep the foreskin out of your way if he happens to be uncircumcised. With the other hand make the same ring with the thumb and forefinger, but use this one against your lips to follow the movement of your mouth up and down. You can also coordinate a mouth stroke with a hand stroke as if giving him a hand job. But the hands (or mouth) need not stay there! As long as one is paying attention to his penis, feel free to use the other to explore his thighs, stomach, balls, and whatever else you can reach. Watch out though, when playing with his balls, be gentle. You can be more firm if and when he requests it. You can even take one (or if your mouth is big enough, both) of his testicles in your mouth instead of simply licking or stroking them. Your hand can be particularly useful if you find yourself about to gag - let your hand do the work and give yourself time to recover before going back down.
Just remember, this is only suggestions.
All men respond differently.
What makes one man explode in seconds, may completely turn another one off. Make sure you communicate with your man and just make sure you enjoy it. Chances are if you enjoy it, he'll enjoy it too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2009): Girls, you've given amazing advice and you all sound like verry sexualy tallented people, i take it the man idea is using hands and verry wet muth, thank you all so much guys :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2008): well ive never given head and i think you tips have been really helpful im still not really shore what to do with my hands but im shore someone can help me out with that....................... please xoxo
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2008): i am known for giving really good head...so take my advice, like arount the head really fast and flick you tunge down to the shaft and when he leastss excpects it take him in your mouth and go deep. and if you cant be sure to use ur hands!! okay ladies! good luck... (;
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2008): I agree with what everyone else is saying here, but I have a tip of my own. When I give my boy head I take a little bit of mint toothpaste, just a dot mind you, and put it on the most sensitive part of his penis. It causes a tingling sensation that just drives him wild! If you arent willing to use toothpaste, I have found that If I chew on a piece of mint gum right before giving head it has the same effect, just not as strong. And good thing for us too ladies! If your man is going down on you he can put a dab of toothpaste on the hood of your Clitorus and it will be AMAZING! The gum could be done with this as well! Have fun!
--Kay
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2008): OMG I just gave the best head ever. I took all ur tips and combined with w@ I already new... my bf was very happy. I combined hand/blow job, sucking licking every part of his shaft and balls, put my mouth around it and began moving up & down his shaft at a fast pace. Just hearing him moan and feeling him tremble was a turn on! Good luck ladies.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2008): okay ladies...the key to this stuff is all about what he can see. if he can see it the more turned on he gets. dont hide under the covers.let him see what u r doin to his penis. ur touge is good for this part expecially around the tip. dont go straight for it, u have to tease him. just act like his dick is the best thing in the world and then anything u do will set him off!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2007): I agree with some of the women here. I think using plenty of spit, and not being afraid to use your hands is great!!! I fnd men like to have you use a combination of hand job and blow job almost. I also think that sound is an added bonus, and the vibrations of your voice will also stimulate the penis even more!!!
Keep up the good work, and have fun!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2007): when i first start i am very slow at first when i just take the tip of my tongue and rotate it around the tip of his dick(also try right between his balls and his penis; they love it!) go real slowly at first..not to rough with him! ;) if you can swallow the whole thing thats great but remember that the tip is the most sensitive part...not the shaft!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2007): My boy loves it when i start of licking his balls it may sound disgusting but he seems to go crazy just knowing my tongue is there. Then i continue licking up his dick and massaging the balls at the same time, with my hand, not too hard though - its a delicate area. Then begin sucking softly on the tip of his penis to get him more excited then take the whole thing and begin a fast rhythm. :) He comes within 2-2'/2 mins everytime :):)
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reader, sexless marriage +, writes (1 November 2006):
Start off by licking up and down and all around his penis. Take your tongue and lick back and forth on the head really fast, he will love it. Also every now and then lick all the way down to his balls.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2006): Make sure you have a lot of siliva in your mouth, dont worry if it drips out guys love all that!.
move slowly at first then go faster repeat this for a while then when your ready for him to orgasm, go quite fast and keep a steady speed.
Make sure you keep your teeth tucked behind your lips, and if you really wanna blow his mind get the shaft really wet with spit and slide you hands up and down the shaft at the same time.
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