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writes:hey...sorry i didnt finish my problemok ive been with him 6 times and we kept it a secret once and it worked out fine. it was only when i over reacted about something really really small that it fell apart (well we agreed friendship was better for the moment) anyway, he was gonna ask me out again but my friend has waltzed in and said stuff and now he doesnt want me anymore. im so upset. i dont know if were friends or not. but i love him and thats why i keep going back to him. if i wasnt in love with him then why am i feeling so bad. so yes, help needed xx Reply to this Question
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reader, stina  +, writes (2 November 2006):
 Hi SF,
Have you tried talking to him about what was said? Was it lies that your friend told or was it the truth.
If it was lies, then you really need to talk to your friend and get this whole mess straightened out. Talk to her first and find out what her deal is and why she said what she did. Then maybe talk to the both of them at the same time.
If it was the truth, though, then you need to respect what he wants. If whatever your friend told him is not what he wants in a partner, then you really can't do much about that. I suppose you could try speaking with him, then it *might* help - but if I were you I would back off so he wouldn't get more annoyed/angry/etc with me. If he really wants to get together with you, then he'll be the one to make the moves. I suspect he already knows how you feel about him. So basically the ball is in his court.
Take care.
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