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writes: I am 16 years old and in love with a boy but don't know what his feelings are for me. He asked me to the prom in May but he didnt try to kiss me that night and since then we have been mixing in the same social group but he has made no moves towards me. We have been to a few parties where, again,he has had the opportunity to do so, but has not tried to kiss me or make a move. We do have some very flirty conversations online and also some quite deep ones but when I see him at school he hardly speaks to me. He spends more time with other girls in the common room and he has a couple who sit on his lap and he puts his arm around them. But with me he is always, at the best friendly, at the worst a bit grouchy! Can you help me please? I dont know whether I should give up on him and go out with someone else or hang on.
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reader, ginger-- +, writes (2 November 2006):
 I really think you should just give up
if he liked you he would show it and from what you typed it didnt look like he shows it.
guys are really confusingg
why dont u talk to him about it it may be awkward but then you would know
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2006): If he liked you, in the way you want him to, it would be you he speaks to you at school in the common room, not other girls. He would pursue you, and do everything he can to show what a wonderful boyfriend he could be for you.
He has not done any of that; I can only assume he isn't romantically interested in you. Perhaps it would be better for you to move on?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2006): Go out with somebody else. He doesn't own you, but if he wants to get together with you, then he's free to ask you out. Don't just wait around for him (or anybody for that matter).
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