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writes: i'm married from 3 years and have a relationship for 7 years.my husband is always an attention seeker and because I had to go somewhere else he met a girl and went to bed with her.He was sincere with me when I came back saying he didn't know if he was still in love with me,he is confused what love is and he is afraid he is in love with this other girl.We have got a child of 2 years and he is a perfect father.I told him he was free to go but he doesn't know what is real hapiness.in the meantime he misses her. what shall I doooo?I still love him, but there is no point when love is half returned or is just this period.Yesterday night we were starting a sex night and he said he misses her and in the same time he is confused.
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reader, geqo +, writes (1 November 2006):
I don't believe that people fall "out of love." They just start communicating less and less well. You need to help him renew his love for you. Tell him you love him! Tell him his child loves him! Tell him how wonderful your years have been together! Help him to rediscover the reason why he married you and had a child with you. The feeling isn't gone, its just hiding.
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