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writes: Hello Cupids,I have been seeing a guy for 2 months and everything was going great and we get on very well, sex is very passionate and we find it very easy to talk to one another.However recently he seems to have become a bit distant. I don't really want to nag him about it as it is early days.One minute he was talking like we were an item, the next he is talking as if we are not.Should I give him space to let him sort out what he wants?Thank u.x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2006): Its frustrating when some guys blow hot and cold. One minute they're all over you, the next, they retreat in to their shells. Sometimes it makes you feel as though you've done something wrong, when really they haven't got a clue how to talk to us girls. Well in my opinion I think it's the old commitment issue, when guy's start to get feelings for a girl they tend to back off a bit to think about the situation. He maybe thinking as a lot of them do, well if I get serious with her I won't be able to play the field. So what you have got to do girl is play it cool. Men like to chase us girls and if they think they've got us easily, then they tend to get bored. It's damn annoying but that's how they are. So give him loads of space, don't pick up his call every time he phones you, don't text him back straight away. Let him sweat and then hopefully he'll come running back for more.
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