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writes: At our school homecoming dance I danced with Adi a guy friend of Paul an aquataince of mine. Adi doesn't go to my school and I had never met him before, but he asked me to dance so why not. My close, friend Natalia is also friends with Paul and right after our dance was over Natalia came over to me and said "don't tell me you like him." She didn't give me a chance to even get that far. Then the next day at school she told me that Adi is "in love with Sara." They have never even gone out and Sara likes someone else so idk what to do. I don't know how to even comprihand this. I might like him but is it just rebeling? Reply to this Question
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (4 November 2006):
 Hey,
well first off - not to point out the bad in this, but there is a TINY chance your friend could have been jealous. However, now we;ve got that lil detail outta the way, let's think about your problem for a second. He asked You to dance, He could have ignored You, it's not very believeable that he's in love with another girl (sara) whom I'm assuming goes to your school when he probably knows her just as well as you because he doesn't got o your school so therefore MUST have met her at the dance.
I'd say just check it out for yourself. Leave things to play out for a little while and see how you really feel about him. When you're 100% sure and ONLY then, try and meet up with him and tell him how you feel. It's hard, I know, I've been in exactly the same position as you before. You feel lost, unsure, and a tiny bit weird, right? Yeah. So just relax for a while and see how you feel.
Hope this helped,
Phoebe xxXxx
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