| A
female
,
anonymous
writes: I lost my virginity last night and everything was as i had expected (pain/blood etc). The thing is, what happens about your 2nd/3rd/4th time having sex? Is it normal to still bleed and does the pain ease up slowly or is it just the first time that hurts? I actually had sex twice with about 4 hours separating them. The second time i also bled, but not as much as the first time. Is it possible that the hymen wasn't broken properly the first time around or is this bleeding totally normal? It was also painful, but i'm not sure if that's because i was new to the experience or because we were going solidly for a good hour or so. Sorry, I know this post is really graphic and makes it out to have been a horrible experience, but it wasn't! It was amazing and it was with a guy who i'm completely and utterly in love with so i still enjoyed it even though it hurt.
View related questions:
hymen, lost my virginity Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, smkcrc4ever  +, writes (3 August 2009):
well if u get ur bf to get u to relax and u urself relax it isnt as bad me and my baby gurl have only had sex 2 times but it didnt hurt as bad for her either time because it wasnt planned and i had her relaxed b4 i did anything with her if u cannot relax with ur boyfriend then u r not ready or ur doing it with the wrong person take it from us we know we were meant for each other.sincerely samantha and rick
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2006): hi i am 16 and lost my virginity to my boyfriend.it really did hurt!but wha ti want to know is does it hurt the second time-becuase we are thinking of doing it again.i CANT go through that pain AGAIN!!hellllllp!
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2006): When you have concerns about your body it is best to consult professional help, in this case a doctor.
They need to do an exam now that you are sexually active.
Start taking your health seriously now and have your yearly exams done such as paps, breast exams, ect.
You just happen to be one of the women who do in fact bleed and for you; it can be "normal". I wouldn't worry overly but still see your family doctor.
...............................
A
female
reader, Angelicc  +, writes (20 July 2006):
 The first the three times are known to be quite painful. Afterwards it just pleasure and fun...and be careful going at for hours it makes you sore and you vagina will tighten up.
...............................
|
