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writes: i am 30+ and i have 3 boys 15,10,3 and my husband want sex all the time. i hate sex please help me.. at one time in my life i liked it but now i just dont want it and i will find anything to avoid it. and my husband gets very mad ... please please help me. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2006): You have a serious problem! Get over it or lose him!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2006): You two either have to communicate through why you don't like sex, and what you two can do about it - compromise is key here. If you still have some sort of problem, then as Malyce below had suggested, a counsellor is the way to go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2006): All anyone on this site can do is offer you some advice. True help is what trained professionals can do for you.Go see a counsellor for your personal needs and see a marriage counsellor together. A marriage counsellor will bring to light all issues and then help you how to deal with them and "fix" them.You are not alone; my Foster Mother used to tell me time and again about her feelings. I knew then that it was her struggle with self esteem, self worth, self image, her marraige- I remember her saying how insensitve my Dad was for wanting to take, take, take and not give her time, give her a hug, give her space. Please seek out some professional help to better sort out your feelings and thoughts about yourself and towards your husband and marriage.*hugs*From a Mother of Four.
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