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Am I too rough? Will she still bleed?

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Question - (20 July 2006) 1 Answers - (Newest, 20 July 2006)
A male , *ully11 writes:

Me and my girlfriend recently started having sex, I am of average size (6 inches) and she does get very wet. We had sex for the first time and she bled, but a few days after, I was fooling around and I fingered her with more than I usually do, and a bit faster as well. I didn't notice but she started bleeding, she didn't notice either. After we had finished she said she thinks I may have cut her because it sort of still hurt. Is there a possibility that I stretched her to the point of bleeding or maybe I cut her with my finger, and when we have sex for our second time, will she bleed again?

(both times she bled she was very well lubricated and I warmed up from one finger to three)

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A female reader, Bev Conolly Australia +, writes (20 July 2006):

Bev Conolly agony auntCheck your fingernails, is my suggestion. If you've already had proper sex then the chances of her bleeding from breakage of her hymen are almost nil. However, it's very easy to have a rough fingernail that can scratch the wall of her vagina, particularly if you're going fast or inserting a few fingers.

In answer to your question, she probably won't bleed again when you have sex because your penis (thankfully!) doesn't have sharp edges. If there is some residual bloodstaining, she might want to speak to her GP about it, and be sure that all's well with her vagina. Meantime, go *gently*! You don't have to hammer away at her for her to enjoy it!

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