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writes: i recently kissed another girl on two separate nights while out drinking.my gf found out.she was so angry and hurt and called it off.i really want to be with her, and she still has feelings for me, we meet up and she lets me try and make it up to her. but she still says that she s not sure if she s strong enough to start the relationship up again.she s still so insecure and jealous and obviously untrusting.i just want to have fun and i am truely sorry.how can i get her back onside and make it up to her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2006): I agree with tonsta. You don't seem genuingly remorseful to me, you say you are truely sorry but I don't think you have really appreciated just how bad you have made her feel. You say she is insecure; you're the one who is insecure. Someone who is secure would never be unfaithful, especially when they are drunk.
You say you just want to have fun... so the best thing you can do is to move on.
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reader, tonsta +, writes (20 July 2006):
i think the damage is done to be honest, she does not trust you and with good cause. she will probably always think that yo will cheat on her in the future if you go out and this will be a BIG issue. if you want her that bad try to show her you do love and care for her and tell her that it will never happen again try and convince her but only when you convince yourself it would never happen again even if drunk.
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