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writes: I have found myself very much attracted to someone a couple of years younger than me for quite a while and I have always felt there has been some chemistry between us. I have been very patient with him and tried not to make my feelings clear, but I have had the impression from his signals that he liked me too. He has never had a relationship and is very inexperienced in these matters. I tried to tell him how I felt face to face, but couldnt do it. Eventually I sent him an SMS explaining in a very light hearted manner how I felt. His response was that his track record in these matters is not very good and he loves the single life. I still get the impression he likes me, as even his friends think so. I know I should probably forget about this but I can't. I am usually a very rational person- what do I do? I am not sure I even want a realtionship either.Becki24 Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, monkeybuzz +, writes (21 July 2006):
hm, he maybe available , but he doesn't sound emotionally available. Maybe he is scared, and doesn't really know how to handle it. He may be flirting, but probably doesn't seem like his ready for a relationship at the moment. However if you want to know for certain, you can ask him out, and if he refuses, I suppose you will know for sure.
Try to enjoy his company and not take it too serious, eventually he maybe brave enough to take things further.
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