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writes: Dear Cupid,I am having a hard time trusting my boyfriend.In the beginning of the relationship he was in a long-term relationship that was not fulfilling, so after 3 months of seeing him, he broke it off with his ex to have a proper relationship with me.He was very honest about the mistake he made and it left me feeling betrayed, hurt and I found it hard to trust my boyfriend.He loves me very much and tells me everyday that he had chosen me because he had fallen deeply in love with me. The problem is that he had a habit of checking his phone in the past to text his girlfriend.To this day, I am very weary when he checks his phone or starts texting as I feel he is texting her or doing things he shouldnt be.He swears that he is not cheating. I also get very jealous when he texts his ex, even though she has a boyfriend and a baby on the way.How can I stop these jealous feelings and learn to trust my man again?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2006): It sounds to me you need a little bit of counsling ,you wonder how you would ever move on with some one who you say you truly love if you can't let the past go to move on to the future,if he still wants to be friends with her thats fine tell him how bout on the steets for a quick hi and bye , think about it if you truly love somebody you do every thing in your power to make them happy , and not hurt them in any way ,so if he see's this as bothering you and swears there nothing going on and keeps on doing it,then its not love and its time to leave . Cause loveing someone is not hurting them!
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