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writes: I'm a college student who hasn’t lived at home for 2 years and i’m back for the summer. I was on the phone with my boyfriend late at night that I recently went and visited and apparently my dad heard out entire conversation about sex and even heard him talking. I don’t know what to do when he confronts me about hearing our conversation. I need help wondering what I should say when he questions me about it? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2009): its none of his business, your in collage now you can do what you want.
Tell him that
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (25 July 2006):
 How do you know your dad heard it if he hasnt confronted you about it ? If he heard it and then said I heard your conversation and that was it then hes not going to be saying anymore, but if you heard it from someone else that your dad heard that conversation then he may well confront you about it, but it was a private conversation so I dont see what business of his it was, how would he like it if you did the same to him. Dont be brash about it, but if he did overhear, probably more likely he heard snippets actually and more over is just summasing, i would just call his bluff ask him what he thought he heard... and just say that he may have heard something sexual but he is very much mistaken.. dont stress over it, im sure he would have spoken to you before now if he was that mad about it. Relax a little and if he approaches you, just ask what he why he was prying and why was he listening.
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reader, snowbird  +, writes (25 July 2006):
 I agree with Martini on this one. I'm wondering if your dad has mentioned it yet? He must be really embarrassed by it, does he know that you know? Also, has he any cause for concern about your boyfriend? Perhaps it would help if he knew him, or does he already? Does he (the boyfriend) have a reputation; or did you meet him on-line? Maybe it was just fatherly concern - that does not excuse the fact that he listened to the whole lot, though - especially as you have been living away from home for 2 years! Embarrassing, yes, but one day you may laugh about it!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2006): If your dad confronts you, then u tell your dad that it was a conversation between u and your bf and no one else, and also tell him u find it disturbing that he would listen to the entire thing. If your dad doesn't confront u, just act as u normally do anyway.
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