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writes: I have been with my girlfriend for 12 months. Previous to that we had been good frinds for years and new we would be together at some point. I also have a daughter from a previous relationship. My girlfriend cant excpept my daughter in my life and this has led to alot of problems and arguemnet. My girlfriend split with me 2 weeks ago an started seeing someone else. She says she loves me still and needs time to think. I still love her more than anything in the world. Do I chase after her or just leave her alone and try and move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2006): She does not love you they way you need as she would be with you working on the relationship and building on the communication and trust that is necessary in all relationships instead of seeing another man.When did she know you had a daughter from a previous relationship? Is that the true concern or is it her inability to come to terms with your reality of having a child?I think telling her that you don't understand how your child could be the real issue in the breakdown of the relationship as she was aware of it from the beginning and ask her why she chose to date you if she was not prepared to accept that fact?She made her decision. Her willingness to be involved with another man shows her lack of respect for you and your feelings and reality.She has moved on and so should you.Any indecisiveness will only prolong your pain and sorrow over her leaving.Why would you want to be with someone who can turn to another man for 'answers'? That isn't healthy.Best of wishes and hang in there.
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reader, Angelicc  +, writes (20 July 2006):
 I can understand you girlfriend being upset about you daugther but she needs to understand that she's second best to your daugther. I think if this woman can move on so easily then she isn't worth you time. If she really loved you she would of tried to work at your relationship and try to have a relationship with your daugther.
Let her be and try to move on.
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reader, Tray-c +, writes (20 July 2006):
 At this momemt I would give her some space, give her time to miss you!! If you haven't heard anything in a month or so send her a hello. It could be good for yee let her get everything straight in her head and for now you can spend your extra free time with your daughter
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