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writes: I have been in a relationship for 20 months. We are planning to move to a new city to start our new life together in a couple of months. But he just doesn't seem bothered in starting our new life together. He said he is bothered but doesn't make any effort to house hunt, get things moving etc. Am I expecting too much from him? Doesn't action speak louder than words? Reply to this Question
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (20 July 2006):
 what i would do is leave him to make most of the arrangements..allow him look for the flats and all the other arrangements at his own time except he wants u involved and asks for your help. Let him know this is what u would do. Since he has assured u that he is indeed bothered then give him the chance to show u.
I am not sure really what the problem is. it can be anything. Some people are slow planners and like to wait at last minute but note that i am not approving of this or concluding this is the sore purpose. YOu will find out soon enough once u let him do the planning.
Take care dear and goodluck.
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