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writes: im 16 years old. im with this really fantastic guy but i dont think i love him any more. we're arguing over stupid things, and i just cant seem to conect to him like i used to be able to. i think the fairest thing on him to do is to break with him but i really don't want to hurt him. i do still care i just dont love him anymore.please help merogue Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2006): Dear Rouge,
From reading your letter u sound like a really caring person. Try to be honest with urself aswell would you be actually hurting him more if he found out you only stayed with him so he wouldnt get hurt. You must be sick of people saying your still young but you are there are more fish in the sea. Im 26 and i think ive just found the man for me. Relationships come and go but when u meet mister right u will know. Try not to stay with somebody because u think u will hurt them. Tell him how u feel. good luck xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2006): You have to tell him exactly how you feel. He must know the truth. If you carry on like this you will become ill. You need to get it out in the open and let him know. If you do split then he will get over it. It is tough at first but wounds do heal.
Take care
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (5 December 2006):
 Hi Rogue,
Tell him about how u feel. That u have noticed that the arguments are getting too much. Dont make him feel it is his fault. Tell him that both of u dont connect as much as u used too just as u said here and it isnt making u happy.Make him realise that u still care about him alot, but it will be fair for both of u to have a break. It is better to end things like that since u said u didnt love him. Of course he would be hurt but wont be very hurt if u consider his feelings and say it in a nice enough and caring way. If u dont break it up now i am afraid u are possibly going to hurt him more in the long run since u dont love him anymore.
Goodluck dear.
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