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writes: i have recently been dating this guy who's 20 (i'm 16). we really like each other but i have lied to him, i told him i was 17 turning 18 in May. i know i need to tell him the truth but i dnt want him to leave me because of it. Is there a way around it? how can i tell him? do i have to tell him? Reply to this Question
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reader, rachael123  +, writes (6 December 2006):
 uck jsut tell him! if he dumps you because of one year of a diference he wasnt worth it anyway!tell him your really sorry and it was becasue you liked him so much you thought you had to lie just for the chance to go out with him! big ego boos for a man!!!!!!! lol, it will work out fine. hope this helps rachael! xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2006): You got yourself in this sticky mess and YOU have to be the one to get yourself out. You have three choices:
*Tell him yourself. He might respect you for being strong enough to admit you lied. Laugh it off, make it like it was a big joke.
*Don't tell him. Wait for him to find out; hot would you like that? He's going to find out in the end and I think I'd definately find out by someone owning up to me rather than finding out like that; it;s quite cheap.
*Get a mate to tell him for you. That wouldn't gain you much respect from him either.
It's your choice!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2006): Tell him - I bet he'll be fine - you're old enough, there's nothing illegal - and I bet he kinda knows anyway! If he likes you as much as you think he does then this little white lie will soon be forgotton - but remember, no more porkies - you always get found out in the end! Good luck x
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