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writes: i just got an amazing cruise ship job as a lead singer and im going away for 6 months. me and my boy have been together for 8 months. he just broke up with me because of our 10 year difference and how i cant stimulate him mentally. my heart feels like its burning with pain. i love him so much. please help. its hurts so bad!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2006): Both of those are just excuses to get out. He doesn't deserve your love. I'm pretty sure he knew your age difference from the beginning right? If he was really not cool with that he wouldn't have started in the first place. He's not worth your tears and pain, save your tears for happy moments with the right guy. Every ending theres a new beginning (u've probably heard that) Anyways congratulations on your job! sounds like a very exciting job, i'd love to hear you sing sometime ^_^
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2006): Go away, enjoy your job and have fun!! He must know when your back so see what happens then. Dont miss out on any fun because of this guy as you will end up regretting it.
Good luck and enjoy your job.
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reader, LUSTY +, writes (5 December 2006):
i don't know how old you are so i will speak generally. God does things for a reason and remember that "EVERY DISAPPOINTMENT IS A BLESSING!" don't focus so much on what was lost but what is now gained. Now you have time to focus on your singing and your life. If he doesn't want you anymore, move on. i know it's easy said than done but believe me, with time, you WILL get pass this. One day you'll ask yourself, "what did i really see in this person? I deserve better than this.. someone who will not waste my time and make me feel this way."
Good luck to you sweety.
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reader, David Lewis  +, writes (5 December 2006):
 If this is how he feels, then the only thing you can do is move on. That was a very selfish comment he made and shows much disrespect.
My advice would be to concentrate on your new job and let time take its course.
You will have such a good time at sea and you will forget about him soon enough. Start enjoying your life more and you will realise you are so much happier without him.
Best of luck
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2006): My boyfriend who i loved for 8 months then together for 8 months broke up with me about a month ago. i may not have much to give you but leave him if love is true he will come back. bothering him and asking too many questions will only push him away further.If not, talk to him about him as friendz your a lead singer this can take you places, always know that you deserve the best.
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