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writes: I like this guy who had recently broken up with his gf. We began to become friendly. Now out of no where they are going out again. She has cheated on him 3 times. I know it is much easier for him to go out with her since he knows her but he knows she is going to cheat on him again. I don't know if I should wait for him or to move on. I wanted to make more of this relationship but he is in one now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2006): I really agree with KellyO on this one. Hun, it really sounds like you have fallen for a guy who is very needy and dependant on a woman who treats him like garbage. No one can say why he keeps going back to his gf who cheats on him..but many broken, weak people go back to what is familiar. I have to ask you...do you really want to try to have a healthy, loving relationship with a mixed up fellow like this? Why him? Go find someone who has his life and his emotions together and give you the best of him.. Going out with this guy who is so much in love with his gf who treats him horridly, will cause you to get overly involved in his and her drama. And this will be ongoing for some time. Why give yourself those kind of headaches..life is too short to waste trying to understand two dysfunctional people, who probably deserve each other. Why don't you date a nice guy who can come into your life with no baggage and no ex gf haunting you both forever. Pick someone who is a lot less complicated. I wish you the besat of luck dear..and take care of yourself and your wants first.
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reader, xMiiSS-CALDERx  +, writes (6 December 2006):
 If you and him have began to get friendly i strongly sugest that you just be there for him as a friend. If yet again his girlfriend cheats on him. I have been through a similar promblem personlally myslef and in the end it all worked out just be there for him. If he is a genuenily nice guy he will soon see that being with his girlfriend is really not i very wise decision. He's probably more confused by what he's doing back with her but some people just cant let go. My advice about moving on is you should still date other guys place your mind in diffrent directions away from thinking about him. just go out with other guys flirt and just put yourself out. Soon they most likley will break-up and you should just be there for him. he will soon notice your true friendship and he will se how much you care for him when he needs a friend the most (the next time he's hurt) he'll realise you've been there all along. your relationship can still go further with him just not in the way you want right now.
Take Care. x
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reader, kellyO +, writes (5 December 2006):
 I think it is best to move on. If he can forgive her now after she has cheated on him 3 times what will stop him from forgiving her over and over again. It isnt worth you trying to understand their affairs. Do go out and enjoy yourself, give someone else a chance.
Take care dear
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