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writes: My ex and I have been spending a lot of time together lately. This past weekend he was making comments towards me like "My girlfriend" and "Your boyfriend". My question is, is this his way of saying that we're back together without exactly saying that we are or should I not read into this at all? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Anjel735 +, writes (7 December 2006):
Maybe his way of saying that is to let you know that you are in his good graces. However, who is to say he is in yours? I mean it sounds like you two broke up amicably, great for you two . . . I still haven't quite mastered that yet. If you did break up, and you are still friends don't forget the reasons you broke up for in the first place. They may still be there.
Good luck too you, If that is what you really want and deserve.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2006):
Was he saying that he is your bf? Then you are back together....
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reader, jabey +, writes (5 December 2006):
Sounds like he thinks its back on. FRom my experience they dont use boyfriend and girlfriend terms unless they see it that way. Next time he says it laugh and say so Im your girlfriend am I, does that mean we are back on ? Think its pretty clear he sees it that way.
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reader, Nikita +, writes (5 December 2006):
hello,
In answer to your question, the only real way you're going to know is if you ask him! Do it in a jovial, light hearted way not in an intense way. Next time you're together, say something like; 'Have you ever thought about getting back together?'or 'Do you think we should try again?' See what he says, you'll soon know your answer! Nikita.
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