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writes: me and my partner both have children from privious relationships. we have got together through a family member but im struggling to trust him as his ex always wants him when she cant have him. i know i cant stop him from seeing his kids but its so hard to trust him as i have been hurt before through cheating. how do i get over this feeling of insecurity?
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (5 December 2006):
 You can deal with your insecurities by telling yourself that no matter how much u worry if your partner still wants to cheat they will. worries or insecurities wont solve anything.Even if u recommend that he doesnt see his kid that cant gaurantee anything.it is just going to make him sad that you dont want his kids to be part of his life.
You just have to learn to trust your partner. Forget about your past and focus on your future with him. try not let your insecurities come between two of you. What is meant to be will always be just have a little faith.
Goodluck.
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