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41-50,
*crib12
writes:I feel so confused and lost about my marriage. I separated/cleverly ran away from hubby 6months ago, went back to my country, and i never told him the real reasons for my leaving. He knows i'm in my country to manage a skin condition and i should see my dematologist until december. This does not make sense to him and now he wants me to go back asap, since my residence visa needs to be renewed. I posted the actual reasons as to why i left here, and to sum them up, he was very self centred, controlling and had extreme egocentric traits- towards narcissisim/sociopath. I got scared for my life and decided a way out(the skin issue). I was very unhappy and depressed over the period we lived together. Do you think i should tell him my worries and the real reason i left? He however is aware that we have issues to sort but i'm sure he isn't aware of the magnitude. We lived together for 5months. He is 36 years older. I'm 31 and we have a 1.4yrs old daughter who is with me. I feel so lost. What should i do? I also rely on him 100% for my finances.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (28 September 2012):
 Give him as much of the "answer" as you think he deserves... then tell him that you found he was an as**ole and that you needed to get away from him... AND that you are not coming back..... EVER.... Then, get on with your life....
Good luck..
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reader, fishdish +, writes (28 September 2012):
 I would start looking for a job to support my daughter. you don't owe him any explanation and it seems like any he gives you will just be another chance to manipulate you.
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