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writes:okayy, peeps--this question is gonna be short, sweet, and to the point. i'm mainly looking for male opinions here, but females...feel free to put your two cents in as well. ")what is the best way for a girl to tell a guy that she likes him? should she find a cute, sweet, creative little way to do it, or should she kind of just blurt it out. and is it better to tell him in a text, on the phone, or in person?any help is greatly appreciated!!! ")
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reader, Xearo  +, writes (27 September 2012):
You'd be surprised but being bold, upfront and straight forward is the most surprising and effective way to tell a guy. Most guy's answers will revolve around this general idea, and quite frankly we DO know what we are talking about lol. Good luck
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reader, lmao1989  +, writes (26 September 2012):
 Definitely tell him in person make sure you get him alone and just ask him if he'd like to hang out sometime perhaps going to the cinema or grab something to eat.
Asking him to hangout or go out somewhere should give him a pretty good idea you're into him if not just tell him straight out.
You just say when you're alone (persons name) I want you to know i like you or i have feelings for you which ever you prefer to say it.
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reader, doublejack +, writes (26 September 2012):
This depends on how well you know this guy, and what kind of relationship you have with him. I mean relationship in the sens of is he a friend, acquaintance, or just someone you see at a particular place?I think the *only* scenario where you need to verbalize that you like someone is when that person is your friend, and you know them well. In this scenario the two of you probably hang out together a lot, maybe even alone. In that case you need to say how you feel, in person and in private, since if you asked him to do something he wouldn't think anything of it, since you hang out already.In all other cases, the way to express interest is to ask for a date. No verbal statement is necessary, and in fact it is probably counterproductive because things are so early. You ask the guy out and see if he accepts.Best of luck!
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (26 September 2012):
 Avoid cute "hints" or suggestions. If you can't just be upfront then forget it. We guys don't get hints and don't like "cute"
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (26 September 2012):
 I suggest that you get him in private, say to him "I've got something to tell you...", then, look him straight in the eye and say, "(his name, here), I want to bear your children. What say you?"
That should make your interest perfectly clear to him....
Good luck...
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (26 September 2012):
Tell him in person. Don't just blurt it out, but do make it obvious - best to effectively just say you'd like to do on a date with him and see what he says.
I think if you try anything else, you risk confusing him.
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