Is there medicine for wetness?
Q. is there any medication one can take to reduce the wetness during sex?...
A. 24 September 2011: AT my local pharmacy you can get plastic sheets to put under your regular sheets. That should take care of your "problem"..... Good luck...... (read in full...)
How do I interest her? Should I cut my loses or just be blunt and tell her I want to date her?
Q. There is this girl who I have been interested in dating for a while. We go to school together and we are pretty close. The only problem is she had a boyfriend for the longest time. Now she is finally single again. I never have been great at dating/ ...
A. 24 September 2011: I suggest you keep your mouth shut.... be an attentive and listening "date" for the meal.... and let her see what an attentive and listening guy you are..... and try your best to figure out how she's doing with ".... this new boy that I've hung out ... (read in full...)
Trying to get together with her but I don't want her to think I'm hitting on her!
Q. On starting university a girl who is something of an acquaintance has come up to my hometown. I wouldn't say that I was overly interested in her at present (I don't know her well enough to make that judgement) what I would say is that we think and ...
A. 24 September 2011: Ah,,.... that age-old dilemma that we guys face: HOW can I hit on her without her REALIZING that I'm hitting on her?
The short answer: You can't....
Good luck........ (read in full...)
Emails and texts with sexual innuendo, should I be upset or is it harmless?
Q. My fiancee lives with me. He sometimes sends emails to his ex girlfriends with sexual inuendos. Should I be upset about this or is it harmless flirting/banter. He doesn't tell me about the messages and I have asked that he does. I have also see...
A. 24 September 2011: To put your query in perspective, I've taken a quote from it....
... I wouldn't do this out of respect for him." I guess he doesn't feel the same way, or have much respect for YOU!!! Doesn't sound like a sound basis for a "relatio... (read in full...)
Am I taking this too personally?
Q. My boyfriend and I are pretty solitary. We go out and do things, but generally just the two of us. One of our mutual friends was talking about Halloween parties and he really wanted to go, but he did not seem to even think of taking me with him ...
A. 23 September 2011: Yours' (you and your B/F) is a peculiar arrangement when you (both) are in earshot of an invitation to a party, and your "B/F" believes that it is intended for him, only.... AND then has the gumption to say to you that HE's going .... and you ... (read in full...)
If we form a living arrangement he says he will only help with the food bill. Is this fair?
Q. Im a 46 years old woman just divorced my husband. I have got my own house and a part time job but earning just enough to support myself. I've met this man 16 years my senior and we gets on well and we've been together for 3 years. He has a good job ...
A. 23 September 2011: Are the two of you living (together) in YOUR house???? If "yes," then check the local newspaper and learn what is the value of renting an equal-sized home or apartment, and tell him that he "owes" you at least 1/2 of that, each month..... IN AD... (read in full...)
Confused about fwb's feelings for me.
Q. Hi everyone my fwb who I met 6 months ago gets jealous if he sees me talking to another man or if anyone whistles at me but he is always saying he doesn't want to be with me what can that mean I would really like to be with him properly and he knows ...
A. 23 September 2011: He's struggling with two concepts.... One, is that he's gotten you to put out for him... so his "primative" brain is being satisfied.... He's getting sex!!! (This primative brain is NOT "that little, lower brain" that your girls often mention... (read in full...)
I like to watch her masturbate, is this normal?
Q. [note: please do not write questions in all caps] I like to watch my wife masturbate and she likes to watch me. I'm very small in size, maybe 6 inches hard. She tells me it doesn't matter. It bothers me and I just hope she's truthful. I perf...
A. 23 September 2011: Yes.... it's borderline normal....... (read in full...)
Separated 3 years, do I need to grieve?
Q. i have been seperated for three years and deep in side i have always believed that my wife and i would reconcile to the point we went to church and counseling. it now appears grimmer than it ever has ,, someone said to me or i read some where ...
A. 23 September 2011: You need to grieve only for as long as YOU feel that you must.....
After YOUR appropriate time period of grieving, put the matter behind you and get on with your life....
P.S. Are you and the missus divorced? If not, then taking that step... (read in full...)
My girlfriend superior sports knowledge gets me jealous, what should I do to get rid of this tendency ?
Q. I am a sports freak, I play field hockey and soccer and great fan of other sports. I always wanted to have girlfriend having same passion for sports. To my good luck, I got one early 2010 and immediately we hit off well. She was a field hock...
A. 23 September 2011: If this submittal is the first time that you've revealed this jealousy to ANYONE.... then I would keep quiet for the rest of my life about this.... AND would smile sweetly and love life in the shadows of this wonderful-sounding girl when discussions ... (read in full...)
Our constant fighting has killed the romance in our relationship!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for three and a half months, after just over a year of friendship. In that time, I have always tried to be a respectful, honest, and deeply caring partner. And, for the first part of our relationship (our ...
A. 23 September 2011: I think the substance of your submittal is found in this phrase: "...The problem is, I love him. "
IF constant bickering/fighting is within your standards of two people "loving" one-another, then this is the relationship for you.... Tough it... (read in full...)
Should I get back with my ex for FWB till he is ready to get serious again
Q. A few days after my ex fiancee and I started talking about breaking up, he starting persuing another woman. Because of this I ended it totally with him. They got very serious quickly but she broke up with him a couple of months later. My ex was ...
A. 23 September 2011: Isn't this too obvious? He asked you to compromise all your principles so that he can have a sex partner without ANY committment or obligations on his part. What guy hasn't DREAMED of that kind of arrangement????
... and you're seriousl... (read in full...)
I broke up b/f of 5 years and he hasn't contacted me since then!
Q. I broke up with my bf of five years because of the lack of sex. I broke up with him on Sunday, and then I left his home, but he still hasn't contacted me. He has not asked for me back, he has not called or text or anything. Did I not mean anything ...
A. 23 September 2011: You initiated a break-up with him.... and he's behaving appropriately and predictably.
IF your "break-up" was an attempt to test his loyalty (as this submittal implies) then it was a colossal failure. Think twice before doing it in the future..... (read in full...)
G/f complained about my penis. Is she cheating?
Q. my girlfriend recently started complaining of my penis size. Could this be the sign she is cheating on me? ...
A. 23 September 2011: It depends....
If she complained that it's too darned tiny, then perhaps she is..
If she complained that it's so enormous that she's considering not putting out for you any more, then she probably isn't....
Either way.... you're in seriou... (read in full...)
This other guy won't take no for an answer from my g/f
Q. I need your help. Me and my girlfriend have been together for a while and today she told me that when she was hanging out with her friends. That one of her guy friends hugged her from behind. She brushed the guy off numerous times and told him to ...
A. 22 September 2011: You could go punch this other guy in the nose and say, "keep your cotton-pickin' fingers off my girlfriend." BUT, I'm not allowed to recommend violence on this site.... so do something else besides what I suggested..... Good luck...... (read in full...)
Are these normal games or is he unsure?
Q. Hello to all who take the chance to read this. I met a man through a dating website about a week and a half ago. I had a good time,and he seemed to as well. There was a lot of atraction,and he was a very sweet guy. I got a little concerned when he ...
A. 22 September 2011: I suggest that you don't make yourself too available to this guy... OR, put in effort 'way out of proportion to the effort that HE is making. THAT "looks like" panic and chasing.... and, if you do that, he gets to take advantage of you without ... (read in full...)
How do I make things official and does he really like me?
Q. dear cupid ive been with this guy nothing serious although i like him alot.. Everytime i bring up the serious dating thing he simply says we should let things happen naturally.. He has stoped talking to me and always waits for me to talk to him and ...
A. 22 September 2011: Please help this old guy understand what makes things "Official"........ (read in full...)
How is it that she's been able to cut me and my family out of her life so completely? I'm numb and she's going out and having dinner with friends!
Q. 6 weeks ago my girlfriend left to have a break and then come back because she said she missed me and didn't want to cry anymore two weeks later she has moved out completely again. we spoke a bit via txt and she said she never meant to hurt me and ...
A. 22 September 2011: Steel yourself for repeats of this "yo-yoing" if you choose to keep hanging around with this girl....
Alternatively, you might want to get a handle on your life and let her go her own way for at least a year..... and then - and only then - if she... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my married boss!
Q. I'm madly in love with my boss. He's the company president and I'm his executive assistant. He's very good-looking and smart. I can't stop myself from faliing for him. He's living alone now but he's married and have kids in california which is very ...
A. 22 September 2011: "Sounds" to me like you've already convinced yourself that you have to throw yourself at this man... Go ahead, have at it....
We will wait for your next submittal, sometime before too long.... when you ask "What happened?"...
Good luck....... (read in full...)
Soldier on or scrap two years of work?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly the past two and a half years. I have had a lot of happy memories with him, we've attended multiple music festivals, camped, ridden horses, laughed, and cried together. He even accompanied me on a recent ...
A. 22 September 2011: Here are two sincere comments from an old codger who has been around.
1. Women date and marry men in hopes that they can change them. (They can't!)..... Men date and marry women in hopes that they won't change. (They DO!)....
2. Wom... (read in full...)
Was it reasonable to be so annoyed with him?
Q. Lately I can't stand my boyfriend attitude, we been arguing once or twice a week and when we argue it gets really huge but finally today I just had it. It started during the night when he slept over my dorm, I had been having a terrible cold and I ...
A. 22 September 2011: Yes, it was reasonable to be annoyed with HIM....
BUT, it would also be reasonable for you to be annoyed with YOURSELF for knowing that you felt lousy and didn't say to him, "Listen, let's stay in our separate rooms tonight... I'm feeling ... (read in full...)
Any tips how to talk to this kind of guy and make them more open to me?
Q. Shy and geeky guys, please help I met this very nice guy through online dating. We had two dates and it seems that he is very shy and geeky. He kept talking about work and his coworkers. Most topics I brought up he can eventually brought back to ...
A. 22 September 2011: Some guys have a very myopic view of life... In the case of your geeky friend, it's predictable that he is SO in to his tech- and electronic world that he has not looked much, if at all, at the "outside" world... so, when you and he talk, he is ... (read in full...)
Does he actually like me?
Q. ok, so i have been seeing this guy for two months. the first week i met him, we saw each other three or four times and spent many hours together. our first date was planned at 8pm, and included dinner, and then we stayed out all night for drinks. ...
A. 22 September 2011: Yes... he's interested in you... AS THE GIRL HE CAN HAVE SEX WITH!!!.... and who he can avoid, otherwise....
That's a dream arrangement for most guys..... But it's often difficult to find a woman - such as you - who will put up with it....
... (read in full...)
Will marrying someone who cares about me help me forget my 31 year old married lover ?
Q. well i am in love with a man whose 31 years old while i am early 20s, sadly hes married and has a child.so i want to get rid of him but cant.so i am thinking of getting married to someone.at least i will have a husband and a home with whom i ll sha...
A. 22 September 2011: Let's bring up a couple of phrases from your submittal: "...at least i will have a husband and a home..." and, "...and soon the realtionship would end.and i would be back to him." Two thoughts: 1. When you write "...at least"... i... (read in full...)
Am I right to feel upset about this? Or should I accept it?
Q. My bf of 14 months and i have been looking at buying a business together for several months now. We've been looking at cafe's to run together. We've both been scouring the businesses for sale ads and i found a little lock up shop in a terrific...
A. 22 September 2011: WHOA, Nellie!!!!!!
Listen closely to all the bells, whistles and klagons that are now producing a cacaphony for you!!!!!
Then, count your blessings that you learned about this guy before you signed any obligations....
Then, spend jus... (read in full...)
Re-united how can I be certain he will be faithful this time? I am determined to be faithful.
Q. I met my ex 6 years ago. We dated for 2 years. It was a pretty bad relationship since there was no trust nor respect and we were very immature (early 20's). I slept with his best friend before even knowing my ex. I also slept with someone he knows ...
A. 21 September 2011:
Nope.
Good luck....... (read in full...)
I'm insecure about my looks, Does he lie to me to make me feel better, because I don't look like a porn star?
Q. I know, I know, another porn question. I need advice especially from females who "get it". I guess I have quite a degree of insecurity. The thing is, I know my boyfriend loves me. I know he lies to make me feel better, because he swears and insists ...
A. 21 September 2011: It's easy to understand why women cringe at their B/Fs watching and reacting to porn. Who wouldn't???? The issue here is 'way less your's than it is his.... Why? YOU, can put an end to this matter any time you wish.. simply by walking away fr... (read in full...)
He contacted me. Now he's ignoring me. Is he having second thoughts because he's married? Or jealous that another guy is interested in me?
Q. An old high school flame contacted me on facebook after 10 years. We were in love and we had to break up due to his move to another high school. He met a woman nothing but a year after we broke up and he is married to her now with a child. I am...
A. 21 September 2011: We guys never miss the chance to bed one of those cute girls that we "let get away".....
Good luck...... (read in full...)
I always make fun of girlfriend's class and stuffs...How should I get rid of this habit?
Q. Dear Cupid, I always make fun of my girlfriend’s class and her middle class dressing and stuffs . Actually she is from middle class and I am from extremely rich family and we are in a relationship for the last four years and will make it off...
A. 21 September 2011: It's well-to-do people like you who make people of lesser means cringe. From your description of the situation, I sense that you would like your boorish behaviour to be validated.... IF that's what you'd like, then find a boorish contempo... (read in full...)
Do people look badly upon me if I tell people that I think they are attractive?
Q. Just looking for some opinions on my behaviour and how it would make you feel and to be honest how it makes me look. When I find someone attractive I tell them. I am not interested in being with any of them but always tell them if they are sexy or...
A. 21 September 2011: Since it's particularly forward.... in a world which is becoming increasingly introverted.... I'm not surprised that you are finding people put off by what you do....
There are appropriate times and places for compliments... and out-of-t... (read in full...)
How can this man hurt me with his lies and act like he's done nothing wrong?
Q. I have been with this guy for 3yrs and i thought everything was going well. He was involved in a horrible motorcycle accident were he became dependent on me for 4months. i had just met this man one week before, i decided to help him and quickly ...
A. 20 September 2011: I think this is the critical sentence in your submittal"
"How can a man be so cruel and still have the heart and face to tell the person he "LOVES" he has done nothing wrong".... The short answer is that he is MISSING a heart!!! THAT is why you ... (read in full...)
Don't think I can take all the lies much longer. Help?
Q. Hello :( My boyfriend keeps lying about silly little things and it's making me lose trust in him, I'll list some examples. He is very close to his ex(I have no problem with it) and I saw his emails to her last month where she was complaining abou...
A. 20 September 2011: Let's put some light on a few of your phrases....
1. "Maybe some of you guys will know why he does this?
He does it because YOU LET HIM GET AWAY WITH IT!!!!!
2. "I see no reason for all this hurt he's causing me..."
Neither ... (read in full...)
He finds a way to let me know that the way I do things is incorrect, and his family's way is the correct way!
Q. I am 32 years old married for two years as of December 2011. I have been dealing with a situation where I have been basically going back and forth with my husband for the last two months everytime he brings up a topic that his aunt or mother has ...
A. 20 September 2011: It's too bad that your husband didn't develop a spine when he was younger..... 'Cuz there really isn't any medical way to get one "after the fact"..... He'll have to develop his own....
Good luck....... (read in full...)
Sould I inititiate a 'friends with benefits' situation?
Q. Hi all, So I have this guy friend that I have known for three years. We met in school, get along really well. We often would hang out in groups for the first year we knew each other. After that I started dating a person and we kinda grew apart. H...
A. 20 September 2011: You're the only one who CAN initiate a "FWB" arrangement. That's because we guys think that EVERY arrangement with a woman is "FWB".... including marriage!!!!!!... (read in full...)
On/Off/On/Off - What is her problem?
Q. i was with my girlfriend for two years, lived together for one. i loved her so much. well she started cheating on me and left me for another guy a few months back, and it crushed me. i eventually moved on and started seeing another girl. well ...
A. 20 September 2011: I don't think "her problem" makes any difference. Your focus needs to be on YOUR problem.... which is, that this girl has you wrapped around her little finger.... and she hasn't yet gotten to the behavious that is sufficiently egregious that you ... (read in full...)
How can I get the intimacy back in our relationship?
Q. Me and my fiancée used to have a very close, fun, sexual, intimate relationship. 5 months ago she got pregnant and since then its like everything has come to a hault. She never wants to be intimate, we aren't very talkitive anymore, the sex almost ...
A. 20 September 2011: I guess it's difficult for us men, 'cuz we plant the seed, then expect that all will be just the same for the next nine months....
Pity the poor recipient of that seed..... Her body now takes off on its journey to spawn a new life. Her chemical... (read in full...)
Am I obliged to tell his wife the details about the sex we had?
Q. A few months back I slept with my married boss twice. We got on great in work and in general, one thing led to another and we ended up sleeping together. Things were awkward and a mishap in communication led to a second 'mistake'. We agreed it would ...
A. 20 September 2011: There's one critical piece of advice that I would give you....
Do NOT hang up on her when she calls!!!!! Instead, take the opportunity to start talking to her... and THEN, hang up on YOURSELF!!!!! That has to be the most frustrating thing th... (read in full...)
I can't stop the porn and masturbating habits! Help!
Q. I am addicted to porn and masturbating and I can't stop, I've tried many things but i just can't do it help please!...
A. 20 September 2011: You're in good company. .... so don't give it a second thought........ (read in full...)
Financial crisis! Do you think things will get better?
Q. I have been in a relationship for about 9 years and newly married 1 year. No children. My husband is 27 Recently, I have been questioning my marriage due to financial concerns. My husband currently does not have a job (he quit the last one in July). ...
A. 20 September 2011: I predict that things WILL get better.... WHEN YOU DUMP this freeloader and get on with your life....
Good luck....... (read in full...)
Had my teeth fixed and I'm worried my boyfriend will hate it!
Q. I've always had a fairly big gap in my front teeth and my boyfriend said he likes it, it's cute, etc... But I've wanted to get it fixed since I was little, so I finally did. It's really, really, really different looking. My whole face looks totally ...
A. 20 September 2011: IF he hates it.... and therefore dumps you..... you will then be rid of the shallowest guy you will ever meet... and your life will be better off because of it.....
Good luck........ (read in full...)
Boyfriend taking body building products. Could it be affecting his personality?
Q. Please can you help me,I have been with my boyfriend for 2 amazing years and lived together for over 1 year. In the last couple of weeks my boyfriend has become very down and has mood swings, he seems to have lost interest in everything including ...
A. 19 September 2011: It's quite possible that, if he is consuming a peculiar diet that doesn't contain enough of the right variety of components, that this (diet) will affect his mood......
The best you can do is remind him that you think that he's hot, has a great bo... (read in full...)
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