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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I met my ex 6 years ago. We dated for 2 years. It was a pretty bad relationship since there was no trust nor respect and we were very immature (early 20's). I slept with his best friend before even knowing my ex. I also slept with someone he knows and hates out of revenge during the end of our relationship. We had no trust in each other. I knew he was cheating, but I thought I loved him. I found out he cheated and got a new girl pregnant. He denied it even after the baby was born. It took me about a year to get over him and a year later we spoke again. He and I were dating other people at this time. His youngest child is 4 now and we're both single. He's been trying to get back with me and I'm so afraid of going through the same lies and arguments. I am perfectly capable of being faithful, I'm just not so sure he is since He's cheated on every gf he's had. He claims to have changed ... should I give us another chance? Would you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2011): Thank you all for your advice. I can't take take backwards steps ... moving on. Thanks again.
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reader, KittieS  +, writes (21 September 2011):
 Put on your trainers and run run run
Going back to him will just open up a whole world of pain for you!
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (21 September 2011):
Nope.
Good luck....
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reader, YouWish +, writes (21 September 2011):
 What?? You going back to this guy is like a dog going back to his own vomit. If you've matured, move on!!
Both of you are culpable. Both of you have cheated multiple times. Now, he has a child, which means that woman will be a part of his life for good now.
No. Move on. The guy is a serial cheater.
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