I am dating an older woman,what issues could come up due to the age gap?
Q. I'm 25 and my girlfriend is 37. Why is it that I get criticism over the age gap from people who I see? I was in a local pizza takeaway joint when the guy behind the counter said "here's the pizza for you and your mum!" I've also had criticism...
A. 26 August 2011: About the only thing I can think of is this: When she begins to collect Social Security (soon!) make sure that she has the amount direct-deposited to her bank account. There are SO MANY stories of elderly people who receive there S/S by mail ... (read in full...)
Nothing happened but my g/f doesn't trust me!
Q. I was single 6 months before going to college and decided I wasn't going to date anyone because it would be a waste of my time and I wasn't interested in anyone...then I met this girl who said she was probably going to the same college I was (the ...
A. 26 August 2011: Please re-consider if you and your G/F haven't imposed unnecessary and unwise restrictions upon one-another... which rules are actually stifling your lives..... College is exactly the time to meet and speak with and - yes, even dance - with other ... (read in full...)
A really nice guy likes me, but I like someone else
Q. Okay, so about a week ago, my roommate and her boyfriend decided to try and set me up with one of his roommates (let's call him John). That part of the plan is going swimmingly. He likes me but he wants to get to know me better before asking me on a ...
A. 26 August 2011: Ir's not up to you to "let him down easily".... it's up to HIM to understand that you aren't interested in him in the same manner that he's interested in you....
From your writing, it sounds to me like you've made your position perfectly clear. ... (read in full...)
He asked me out but he really wants a FWB relationship. I don't!
Q. So the guy i liked, happens to like me back. So after like two weeks of flirting and talking. We kissed. Later on that day i asked him, where we were heading? So he asked me out...and i asked him if thats what he wanted? He didn't really answer me. ...
A. 25 August 2011: LIsten to bunnyblueeyes.... She is telling you the truth...... (read in full...)
How can I find out if my BF really is cheating me with this other girl?
Q. Not really not sure how to start, I have my boyfriend of 8 months, well, recently I started suspicious that he might be having an online relationship. Hos did this happenn? well, a few months ago, he mentioned in front of everybody that this ...
A. 25 August 2011: You can't ".. tell him not to talk to her any more.." any more than you can tell the wind not to blow, or the sun not to shine....
What you CAN do is tell him that you have been made aware that he has ANOTHER "G/F"... and that you have no inten... (read in full...)
I think he likes me but I think he's wanting a FWB situation
Q. Hola. Okay, so I've liked this guy for a while now, and he finally started texting me a few weeks ago. At first his texts were really sweet and funny, and blah blah blah, and after we'd texted for a week or so he said that he would go out with me. ...
A. 25 August 2011: Listen to your instincts. He's planning to use you... and you'll have to sell your soul to provide yourself to him. Is it worth it????
Good luck...... (read in full...)
We love eachother but it's to soon what should I be doing in the mean time ?
Q. Hi I'm 15 and have a slight problem, my problem is I have a girl bestfriend, we've been close for a long period of time but now we are unseprable (As my other friends say) recently there's been a lot of confusion with her because everyones telling ...
A. 25 August 2011: You're a young guy. Don't rush things.....
Good luck...... (read in full...)
I don't like my daughter calling her dad's girlfriend "mom"
Q. I am going through a divorce and should be finalize this month. My ex has been living with his girlfriend and her two kids for a year now. We have joint custody of our 7 year old little girl. My question is this. My daughter told me that when she...
A. 25 August 2011: The only issue is if your DAUGHTER initiated calling your ex's G/F "Mom". IF she did... then accept it and don't make much of an issue of it. IF she DIDN'T.... and, especially, if she would prefer NOT TO DO SO... then tell ex-hubby that it is to ... (read in full...)
Is she interested? Have Amnesia? or just wasting my time?
Q. Girl is all over me at lounge then forgets me? Ok so I had to go to a few parties amd meet up with friends saturday night. I go to this one lounge and get eye contact from this girl. all the while her friend is whisppering in her ear probably tal...
A. 25 August 2011: I'd curl up with a good book and not give this girl another thought.....
Good luck...... (read in full...)
This could be the last chance I have to tell her how I feel. Should I?
Q. Although I'm only young, I know I have strong feelings for someone I've become very close to over the past few months. Unfortunately for me, they're a girl and, ignoring the fact I myself haven't 'come out' yet, I'm not sure whether shes bi or gay - ...
A. 25 August 2011: The smartest thing you could do is say: "... I like you, (her name).... and will miss you.... and hope that we stay in touch...."
Why feel that you have to reach some sort of cresendo in a "relationship" that you don't even know if it exists..... (read in full...)
Could this mean anything other than the fact that my GF and this other guy slept together?? What else could "I got up after you left" mean?
Q. A question, tho I think I know the answer. Girl I have been seeing for a few months told me on Monday night she was going to visit an old friend (a guy). I was very suspicious. It was eating at me. We have not been dating so long and I dont know the...
A. 25 August 2011: You are correct. You KNOW the "answer".... why spend even a few minutes thinking about it?????
Good luck....... (read in full...)
I cant get back with her because I know she will keep lying, so how so I move on?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years and 2 months and in the first year and a half it was great then some lying from her part started coming and a lot of lies and big ones. Nothing with her exs just stupid lies and i talked to her about it and ...
A. 25 August 2011: Try this: Wipe your brow with a soft towel and say to yourself: "Whew. I just avoided spending time with a lying B**ch who almost-certainly was going to make my life miserable"....
Then, go out and find a nice girlfriend....
Good luck...... (read in full...)
Huge jealousy problem
Q. ok so i was in a realtionship for so long and we both had trust problems and a lot a lot a lot a lot of jealousy to an extreme point. Thats how i am and thats how she is. I got used to being jealous. Now the realtionship has ended. But everytime i ...
A. 25 August 2011: Make a copy of this question.... then put it away for 24 months (that's TWO years!!!)....
After those 24 months open up your copy of this question and see if it still makes any sense.... (I expect it won't!!!....)
Good luck....... (read in full...)
How do I get over it and not keep telling myself how foolish I was?
Q. I am in the process of ending my 2 year relationship. The main issues were alcohol abuse and money. The soon to be ex boyfriend still owes me money. When he phoned last week he cut short the call because his son (previous marriage) had called him. ...
A. 25 August 2011: WHEN you "loan" money to someone as close as a boyfriend/girlfriend or family member.... then don't EVER consider it a "loan" until/unless it is freely repaid....
In every such instance, be prepared that there will be NO repayment......
Good lu... (read in full...)
He wont say how he feels because he is afraid of me kicking him out! Plus I'm fed up of feeling like his mom!
Q. hello everyone, im having a problem with my boyfriend whom lives with me. we have been together for years and years since and we are our very early twenty's. and this is the first place we have both lived other than home... we live in my moms rental ...
A. 25 August 2011: Why don't you print a copy of this question? Then, you and your "B/F" go your separate ways for a year.....
IN August of 2012, take out this letter and see if you've grown up any. IF the answer is "yes," and IF this guy will consent to see you ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend never initiates contact or asks me out
Q. Hi, I'm in my late 20s and my boyfriend in his early 30s.. I've been seeing him for 3 months now. He is such an affectionate, loving.. but one problem is, he rarely initiates contact, and NEVER asks me out. I always contact him, and always ask him ...
A. 25 August 2011: WHY should he bother to initiate contact and/or ask you out????? He's got you trained to do it for him...
I'd guess he has to make sure his wife isn't around when he speaks to you... and that also limits how much time he can spend with you.... ... (read in full...)
Why is my dad so negative about everything I do? What can I do to change this?
Q. I don't know what to do about my family. They constantly compare me to my sister and to other people not even related to us. I'm fine with being compared to people, that really doesn't bother me. However I've noticed my dad seems to like my sister's ...
A. 25 August 2011: Sounds to me like your Dad loves your Sister more than you. You need a new Dad....... (read in full...)
My uncle relies on me to go out drinking with him
Q. I know this problem might sound a bit stupid, but i dont like how my uncle relies on me to go out drinking with him. My uncle is unemployed,doesnt have many friends, is single and he's pretty lonely. He's also my godfather. My parents made him my ...
A. 25 August 2011: Stand in front of a mirror and practice saying this: "I really love you Uncle... but there's a generation difference between us... and I would prefer to hang with my generation and not spend so much time with you." That should do it......... (read in full...)
My ex recently broke up with his rebound, yet doesn't seem to want us to be back together again. Do I still stand a chance?
Q. Please jump to the last paragraph if my background story is too wordy :') I am 17-year old and gay. I was best friend with this guy i just met this year, from Feb all the way to beginning of July. We were best friends and would call each other ...
A. 25 August 2011: Sure you still stand a chance. HOWEVER, your former BF is in a confused state... so you can't get close to him for the time being. Take a calendar and mark November 19th on it. On that date, give him a call and ask, "Hey... long time, no see.... ... (read in full...)
I'm worried my ex's will live a more fulfilled life than my own and it's getting me down. How do I stop feeling this way?
Q. I'm worried that I'm not living my life to the fullest and unfortunately the main reason for this is because I tend to compare my life to the lives of my ex girlfriends. Let me explain... I don't know why, but I'm really stuck on the idea that my...
A. 25 August 2011: She's you EX... for Heaven's sake!!! Forget about her!!!... (read in full...)
We only see each other once a week, but she calls me clingy. I buy her everything, but she says I never take care of her. Is she using me?
Q. so me and my girlfriend have been fighting for the past two weeks. She keeps telling me im clingy, and she needs space, and i only see her once a week, so i dont understand how im being clingy. another thing iv noticed is i pay for everything. i pay ...
A. 25 August 2011: Not only are you NOT being "clingy"... but she is taking quite some advantage of you. Your description is not of a young guy who is enjoying time with a young lady friend... but is that of a naive guy who is being taken advantage of. How far ... (read in full...)
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