Was it reasonable to be so annoyed with him?

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Lately I can't stand my boyfriend attitude, we been arguing once or twice a week and when we argue it gets really huge but finally today I just had it. It started during the night when he slept over my dorm, I had been having a terrible cold and I was having a persistent cough, I was comfortable laying in the spooning position with him when he started complaining why can I hold him for tonight but I told him no because I keep coughing and I don't want to cough in his face but he was all sad and kept saying I don't care that I submitted and slept facing him. When he woke me up to go class in the morning, I told him wait and don't panic I know when to get ready and fell back asleep . two minutes later he was shaking me and swearing saying wake up we miss class, I look at the clock and got irritated that he didn't look at the time correctly and it was still too early to get up for school so I gave him an attitude before I went back sleep. The final time he wake me up to get ready ,I did and when I was ready to leave he was sleeping so I kept calling him up and he pretend to sleep deeply I knew he pretend because he heard me and his eyes were slightly open but he wouldn't wake up and we had 20 mins before class starts. I got irritated at the moment and told him why its okay when he sleep in but when I do he gets mad if we got late to class. So I started to open the alarm when he smack my hand and swear saying i'm annoying and his awake. while taking his sweet time getting ready, he kept swearing in low volumes and I didn't understand why. I tried to comfort him after because I didn't want to fight but he started saying leave him alone and swear at me in loud volumes outside telling me to leave him alone and left the opposite direction. I was trying to be nice again because I felt like crying and I didn't want to do it in public but he just walk away and says his not going class. When I was sitting in class , he came by me and sat down without saying a word and looking annoyed by me. by the end of class he got up and just left. I wasn't hurt anymore , I was really mad for once. Somehow our continuous fight , he started to think he is always right and that I am always to blame. I text him saying I don't ever want to see his face again because he treated me bad far too long. He wrote back say wow you worst than I am with a smiley face and I decided not to reply for once .Now he text me a sad face and I know he thinks he can have me back whenever he wants. Do you think I did the right thing or was it a mistake and I should have not let him go ?

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