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writes:I've always had a fairly big gap in my front teeth and my boyfriend said he likes it, it's cute, etc... But I've wanted to get it fixed since I was little, so I finally did. It's really, really, really different looking. My whole face looks totally different now. I'm a little in shock, but I think I love it and am so happy with it. I can't stop smiling (after I stopped crying from the shock and permanentness of it). But I'm terrified my boyfriend will hate it or think I'm less beautiful or unique (I'm pretty unusual looking for an American).He loves the way I look as is. He doesn't like me as much in makeup, or with my hair straightened or dyed, or with any weird appearance altering anything. He just loves the way I look, exactly as is, in it's "natural" state. He even loves my stomach fat. I mean I asked him if he'd think I was less beautiful and he didn't really answer, he just said "you're already the most beautiful woman in the world. Do whatever makes you happy." Which is adorable, but doesn't answer the question!He's out of town right now for a month (but only 11 days to go til I see him again) so he hasn't seen it yet and won't for a little while. I'm so scared. He doesn't have phone or internet access either, so no previews. What if he hates it??? Reply to this Question
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (20 September 2011):
 IF he hates it.... and therefore dumps you..... you will then be rid of the shallowest guy you will ever meet... and your life will be better off because of it.....
Good luck.....
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (20 September 2011):
 "you're already the most beautiful woman in the world. Do whatever makes you happy."
He won't have a problem whatsoever.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBecause he just seemed really unenthusiastic about me getting it done.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (20 September 2011):
 Why would he hate something that makes you feel happy and good about yourself? If you're already the most beautiful girl in the whole world to him, you'd actually have to knock OUT teeth, not have them enhanced, in order to lose your attractiveness.
Why not give him the benefit of the doubt, and assume he will be happy for you and after the surprise has worn off, he'll embrace it as you have done? Think positive, you seem to be working really hard to find the negative in the situation. Why would that be?
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