Too call or not to call a man after 3 dates?
Q. I met a guy out, and he got my card. He emailed a few days later and asked me out. Our first date went well (touching of the knee, arm, etc). He asked for my phone number but he didn't call until 5 days later. When he did call, he asked me out ...
A. 25 March 2012: OP: The "4-date scheme" is a sure-fire way for a guy to get a girl to put out for him....... Officially, it works like this:
1. Guy goes on date with girl.... takes her home.. walks her to her door, gives her a hug.... maybe a peck on the chee... (read in full...)
Are his lies that bad? Is it better to end things now, or try and keep going?
Q. I am feeling so terrible right now and need some advice. I really don't know what to do.... I just broke up with my boyfriend. I didn't necessarily mean to. I found out he lied to me, and I was so hurt that I sent him a text saying exactly, ...
A. 23 March 2012: Looks to me like you're prepared to give him lots of justification for his past lying. Are you prepared to do the same thing - in the future - if and as the lies get more complicated, more complex, and you cannot separate yourself for the effects ... (read in full...)
Single, old and broke -- what to do?
Q. Hi, I am starting to feel like a bad person. Basically I am 31 and broke. I have no money. I work and have a job, but I have only been in it 2 months. I earn an ok salary, not great. mid £20's a year, which in London at my age is not great, but a...
A. 23 March 2012: IF you were age 70 or older and lived here in Florida, I would have said to you, "....get in line with the rest of us...." BUT, you're YOUNG... and have DECADES to make a life and a future. WHAT THE HECK ARE YOU WAITING FOR??????? ... (read in full...)
How does a woman stay happy regardless of whether she's in a relationship or not?
Q. People always say as a woman, you should not need a man to make you happy. I agree with that, and I think its important to learn to stand on your own two feet and be happy with your own company. But sooner or later, you will meet a guy. And if th...
A. 23 March 2012: Here's the KEY phrase in your entire submittal: "....because you are suddenly dependant on a man again.."
WHEN you figure out that THAT is no way for a woman to live, THEN you will have figured out how to be a happy, well-adjusted woman who can ... (read in full...)
People give me nasty looks, so when they get one back they don't like it! Why is this?
Q. I dont get it, People are rude to me give me nasty looks but then when i do it to them they dont like it. Well what do you expect? What you put out you will get back? If your nice people will be nice back. Why are people like that if they dont ...
A. 23 March 2012: You're spending too much time assessing how it is that people are looking at you........ (read in full...)
He dumped his ex after having sex with her, so I'm scared to lose my virginity to him in case he does the same to me!
Q. i have been dating this guy for the last one year,he is wonderful,we get along very well.We have never been intimate.My problem is,he has seen and done a lot of sex before.He dumped his ex after having sex with her..Am afraid to loose my virginity ...
A. 23 March 2012: This isn't quite like the PSATs..... so you can't take the test twice!!!!!
Simply consider this: Most guys are out for one thing... s*x with girls....
IF you put out for a guy in short order after meeting him.... then you will be a strong cand... (read in full...)
Why do I hate seeing my ex's having a good time and getting on with their lives?
Q. Hi guys, I was wondering why do I feel pissed whenever I see my exes having a good time and getting on with their lives while I'm stuck here dwelling on pasts reminiscing, I hate this because I'm the guy, I'm supposed to be having fun whenever ...
A. 23 March 2012: "Sounds" to me like the karma is such that you're forever doomed to have a dour, sad, remorseful life....
If'n I WERE you.... I'd wake up and say: "What the F**k am I doing letting my ex(s?) determine if/when I have a good time in life????... (read in full...)
Too call or not to call a man after 3 dates?
Q. I met a guy out, and he got my card. He emailed a few days later and asked me out. Our first date went well (touching of the knee, arm, etc). He asked for my phone number but he didn't call until 5 days later. When he did call, he asked me out ...
A. 23 March 2012: This guy is running the "4 date scheme" to a "tee"........ (read in full...)
My wife's brother's ex wife wants to "date" me if possible
Q. My wifes brother recently got divorced a few months back and I am in the process of a divorce as I speak. The thing now is my wifes brothers now ex-wife is starting to talk to me more and more. We had been friends in the past but never anything ...
A. 23 March 2012: I'd suggest that you and your former sister-in-law remain friends.... and at "arm's length"..... for no less than 6 months, before you and she decide if you (two) want to have a real, official "date."
Right now, you both have plenty of turmoil ... (read in full...)
Will I look needy if I give him a call?
Q. We agreed to be casual friends without sex. one night, we were drunk, and we slept together. The sex was bad on my fault. He didn’t call after that. 5 days later, I sent him a text message asking to hang out and watch a movie. He applied that he is ...
A. 23 March 2012: If you and he had s*x, then you need to bring that subject to the fore and come to grips with it.... You may start that conversation with a call to him....
Remember, for many/most guys, once we've bedded a girl we lose interest in her.... That may... (read in full...)
Guys: would you date a girl if you knew she had done nude modelling?
Q. I have been modeling for an online lingerie site. I was approached by a porn site for nude modeling... The money they offered was amazing! I told them I would NEVER do photos with a man or another woman... Guys: Would you date a girl if you knew...
A. 23 March 2012: I'm interpreting your submittal to actually be TWO questions.... one, about nude (fashion) modelling; and one about porn....
My "answer" is that the former is noble, rewarding, and makes no difference to me or any other guy..... Whilest the latt... (read in full...)
Should I go to her baby shower?
Q. So my brothers ex girlfiend is pregnant. Me and her have been friends since high school we stopped talking for a while when I went to college but when I came back we just picked up where we left off. Now ive lost a best friend because of her b/c she ...
A. 23 March 2012: I think your submittal all comes down to this (your words):
"......but my question all comes dwn to this should I let this friendship go and NOT GO to the babyshower????...."
BOTH questions have the same answer.... and ONLY YOU can make that an... (read in full...)
Does he want to be more than my sex buddy? How do I make this official?
Q. I really like my sex buddy , we always drink and go out usual , he doesn't like me talking to anyone else like he gets jeleous of other guys when I'm around them , he always picks me up to go over or just hangout , we watch movies I help him with ...
A. 22 March 2012: What do you do????? Sounds to me like you've already got it figured out. To wit: Kiss off your morals, lay back, spread your legs and enjoy the ride!!!!!!
Good luck....... (read in full...)
My girlfriend says she is in love with me but is not physically attracted to me!
Q. Hello everyone I'm not sure how common is this question but can you be in love with someone and yet have no physical attraction to your partner? I ask this because that's what my girlfriend says about me. I know I'm not the greatest looking guy...
A. 22 March 2012: Why waste your time with this girl who cares so little about you that she will carry on as you describe??????
Dump her and look around for a REAL "girlfriend..." You can do MUCH better....... (read in full...)
He hurts me so much but he is like a drug I cant live without! Help!
Q. Dear cupid My bf of 2 years constantly avoids me, often humiliates me and when i ask he says he was joking, joking or not joking, his words affect me. I told him not to do that, he never listens. I dont want his words to affect me so much, but it ...
A. 22 March 2012: This is key (your words): "...I hate myself for doing this to me. Please help me."
STOP doing what you're doing.... get away from this RAT.... and, miraculously, you will find that you will LIKE yourself!!!! How much easier could this all be??... (read in full...)
Dating a guy who's never had a girlfriend
Q. Ok, so let me ask this to the ladies. If you've gone out with a guy a few times and you're really starting to like him quite a bit, and THEN you ask about his previous relationships and he's honest with you and tells you he's never had a girlfriend ...
A. 22 March 2012: The key to this entire submittal is the answer to THESE two questions:
1. Does he live with his Mother?, and,
2. Does she iron his underwear?
Please provide the answers to those questions, and then we (Aunts and Uncles) can give you som... (read in full...)
Can you strictly take care of physical needs and not harm the friendship?
Q. hey,, i have a friend,, but she's just a friend , we are both singles, and we do not love /crush each other. is it right for us to have sex, just for our physical needs, will it hamper our relationship, if we dont get mentally involved. plzzzz rply...
A. 21 March 2012: You and she can choose to start a "FWB" arrangement.... but... be forewarned that those (FWB) commonly fall apart because/when one of the participants wants/expects more than the other....
Which one will you be?????
Good luck....... (read in full...)
Father of my baby will not give up pot and I don't want him around my baby!
Q. Hi, im a 20yr expectant mother in college. I have a problem. The baby's father doesn't do anything to help me. He's addicted to smoking marijuana and drinking cold medicines mixed with soda. Yes, you can get addicted to marijuana and HE NEEDS HELP. ...
A. 21 March 2012: YOU don't "Owe" him any help..... After all... you've gotten more than you bargained for from this creep - i.e. you got some sperm from him.....
NOW.... grow up and kick him to the curb so that he may live out his childish/addicted life as he wi... (read in full...)
He went to the movies with a girl and lied to me about it...
Q. First, I'm in love with my best friend. We have been close for about 2 years now, we're always together. But we also have sex together, although we aren't actually in a relationship. He knows that I have feelings though and we have had ...
A. 21 March 2012: Please, cut right to the chase and define the REAL situation here..... To wit:
YOU are putting out for him.... HE is not serious about you... YOU are not insisting upon ANY sort of obligation from him as a condition of YOU continuing to PUT OUT ... (read in full...)
Does sucking make the breast bigger?
Q. does sucking increase the size of breast ...
A. 21 March 2012: It wouldn't hurt for you to let your boyfriend fool around with "the girls" and see if you get any increase in size...
One thing's for sure.... you'll get a lot more from your B/F because of his fooling with your breasts!!!!
Good luck...... (read in full...)
Why wont the guy I'm dating add me to facebook?
Q. The guy im seeing wont add me on facebook. We've been dating 4 months and after our 3rd or 4th date I added him but he didnt accept. I got angry one night and took it up with him and he told me the reason he didnt accept is because it still said he ...
A. 21 March 2012: Sounds to me like he's "playing" you like a cheap, imitation Stradevareus....
WHEN you wake up... be sure to START ignoring this guy.. who has NO INTEREST in you....
Good luck...... (read in full...)
I want my ex to know the relationship is over!
Q. My ex and I have dated for a little over two years. I sort of ended our relationship the last week of February by email. We had broken up twice before than and had always reconciled, which the best idea. But, I was in love for the first time, in m...
A. 21 March 2012: WHY???? .....spend even a minute thinking about this cad, or fretting over how YOU should tell HIM that it's over????
YOU owe him NOTHING!!!! Hence, you may now ignore him for the rest of history... AND, you may get on with your life....... (read in full...)
How do I tell him I am still a virgin?
Q. I'm 20, I've been together with my boyfriend who is 21 for 2 months now and we have done pretty much everything in bed except full sex. He told me at the beginning that he has only had sex with one person (his ex girlfriend who he was with for 3 and ...
A. 21 March 2012: WHY do you need to tell him?????... (read in full...)
Me and my boyfriend don't know which day our anniversary would be!
Q. Please help us settle this debate. My boyfriend and I in a disagreement about when our official anniversary should be celebrated. Option 1: September 8th. This is the day we first slept together. We had been dating for two months before this dat...
A. 21 March 2012: One of the nice things about living in a free society is that you don't have to look to anyone else in order to make decisions such as you have sought in this submittal.
It's my opinion that the two of you ought to celebrate AS MANY DIFFEREN... (read in full...)
I think I should end it, but I don't want to hurt her.....
Q. I recently posted a question about me dating a woman 28 years older than me. We've been together for 6 weeks and at first we were all cuddly and mad about each other but now it seems like she's gone off me and just wants me for my money. ...
A. 21 March 2012: Being a cub can be a pain in the a*s if your cougar is not very cognizant of your needs....... (read in full...)
Do men stop using porn when they have a girlfriend?
Q. Hi everyone, us women need hope is there any men here who stop using porn/looking at it when they have a girlfriend? ...
A. 21 March 2012: "Sounds" like you and the female who submitted just after you feel the need to be the "woman-police." Any chance you'd be content to let OTHER WOMEN think for themselves?... (read in full...)
How can women watch porn with their partners?
Q. One thing that bugs me is how can women watch porn with their boyfriends/husbands? Aren't you bothered he's getting turned on by another woman, who he possibly thinks is hotter? The thought is horrible....
A. 21 March 2012: It's a personal matter. Consider this:
Change your word "porn" to "NASCAR" or "college basketball" or "chick-flicks"..... and it will be obvious..... (read in full...)
I don't know why he did this, and why I let myself be treated like trash. Was it all my fault? Or is he partly to blame?
Q. I added a guy i vaguely knew from school on Facebook and he accepted. (this was in 2008) We started chatting online, reminiscing and what not and eventually we arranged to meet up after he got back from travelling. I barely knew him from school (we ...
A. 21 March 2012: You and he can split the blame 50/50.
HE gets his 1/2 because he persisted and got you to put out even though he probably had reason to believe you were reluctant or weren't in to being intimate.....
YOU get your 1/2 because you weren't stro... (read in full...)
Can a girl get pregnant from being fingered with sperm on the fingers?
Q. so my girlfriend and i were having sex... i pulled out and came on her stomach... i got some on my hand which we wiped off with a towel and wiped off her stomach then about 2 minutes later i started to finger her again and fingered her for a while.. ...
A. 21 March 2012: If I were to post a "reply" to this submittal, it would be considered "piling on".... on those replies that pointed out just how naive was this question....... (read in full...)
My boyfriend does not study and it bugs me, what can I do to motivate him?
Q. hey so, my bf and I go to school together and we have 2 classes together. It really bugs me because I'm really serious about school like I'm always studyingand trying to get really good grades, but my bf on the other hand would rather play video ...
A. 21 March 2012: The key phrase in your submittal is this one: "...but it's his education not mine."
IF he chooses to NOT study... and IF that results in his failure at those studies... then SCREW HIM!!!! He's NOT "your problem"......... (read in full...)
We were going out, now she changed her Facebook status, what does this mean?
Q. Ok I met this girl a couple weeks ago.I'm 25 and she's 26. We have been a multiple dates and she says she is interested in me and we have lots of fun together. She doesn't have a job and can't drive cause she doesn't have her licence. So i have to ...
A. 21 March 2012: "Sounds" to me like she's taking YOU for a ride. Do you have your seat belt fastened??????... (read in full...)
What do you think of our relationship? Is this a pipedream for me?
Q. Ok so in need of some good advice.. I have been with my fella for 8 months..he always tells me he loves me, we have a really good connection and I really love him. I have my own house (rent it) and a good job, good family and friends and a go...
A. 21 March 2012: He's giving you that lukewarm treatment that "tells" you that he's perfectly content to enjoy you se*ually, but has no intention of being any more than a s*x pal....
If/when you finally wake up to this, you'll see, also, that you can only make a l... (read in full...)
I feel insecure about my 34C breasts!
Q. Hi this is gonna seem a really cliché question. I've always been really small like a size 6/8 and 5 2" so this is going to seem inevitable but I am really self conscious about the size of my boobs. On paper they should be fine ( 34C) but they look ...
A. 21 March 2012: How many times can we guys repeat to you girls: THERE'S NOTHING WRONG with your breasts???????
STOP obsessing over them... WE AREN'T (obsessing over them).....
Can you understand that???????... (read in full...)
At what age do you think should people think of getting married and having children?
Q. What age do you think is people should start having a family? I have a 25 year old daughter, who is very accomplished, smart, beatifull, full of life....and doesn't want even to think of getting married and have children just yet. She is still s...
A. 21 March 2012: To the OP herein: I think you can readily see that the preponderence of opinion is that YOU - and only you - have some sort of "problem" with the life your daughter is living.....
I hope you are taking in our responses and deciding to back off... (read in full...)
FWB with you ex boyfriend...good idea or bad?
Q. friends with benefits?? good or bad idea with your ex boyfriend?...
A. 20 March 2012: It's a GREAT idea for him.... and a CRAPPY idea for you....... (read in full...)
I feel guilty about my break-up but I couldnt deal with my girlfriend's behavior anymore
Q. Hey guys, I just broke it off with my gf of 2 years and for the past couple of days been feeling lots of emotions but the most I feel is guilt. My reasons for ending it were was her drinking issue, extreme neediness, insecuritys, controlling...
A. 20 March 2012: If you and she haven't figured out your compatibilities after two years (and assuming that you and she HAVE adequate compatibilities!).... then it's time to move on and get a NEW girl friend who meshes better with you....
You'll BOTH be better o... (read in full...)
For 20 years he has tried to take over all my friendships and family
Q. My husband tries to take over all my friendships with friends and family he acts overly nice and feel like he is rally fake when he is doing this he has done this to me all the time we have been together 20 yrs. what is wrong with him he doesn't ...
A. 20 March 2012: It took you 20 years to figure this out?????... (read in full...)
How could he not know my name?!
Q. So a few weeks ago I decided to go on criagslist personals. I came across an ad for a guy and decided to reply. We exchanged pictures, and hit it off instantly. We began emailing eachother back and forth every day for about a week and then he asked ...
A. 20 March 2012: Please keep in mind that those of us guys who are "hot" have hoards of girls seeking out attention.... and it's sometimes very difficult to delineate one (girl) from another..... AND, if we're not fastidious with our bookkeeping we might misplace ... (read in full...)
He's just not that into me!
Q. I have been dating this guy for a few months and his interest level dropped for some reason a little. He still asked me out but it wasn't the same. I picked up the book "He's just not that into you" and I read parts of it everyday. I am believing ...
A. 20 March 2012: The key piece of information that you didn't provide is this: Did you put out for him?
If "yes," then his interest predictably waned once he had had you....
If "no," then he gave up after "a few months" of seeing you and not getting any........ (read in full...)
No mum, dad and the kids for this guy, he wants the single life and sex with me on the side!
Q. Why didn't he commit to me and kids? My ex and I have 2 young children together.we.recently broke up in January. We had only just began living together as a family as he had lived with his mum prior to this, she passed away and left him her home. He ...
A. 20 March 2012: The only one who needs to be convinced that it's over is YOU!!! HE, obviously, doesn't give a hoot about you and/or the two kids that you and he spawned.....
Give up on him and get on with your life....... (read in full...)
At what age do you think should people think of getting married and having children?
Q. What age do you think is people should start having a family? I have a 25 year old daughter, who is very accomplished, smart, beatifull, full of life....and doesn't want even to think of getting married and have children just yet. She is still s...
A. 20 March 2012: I like this phrase in your submittal: "...I don't know may be I m over worried,"
Let me help you validate yourself. YES, you ARE "overworried".... because there's absolutely no reason why you should give any more than a random, stray thought ... (read in full...)
How can people compare porn to a romance novel?
Q. How can people compare porn to a romance novel? A romance novel is harmless words on a page, porn is a picture of a real person with no clothes on who exists who can easily be compared. Same with a vibrator it's a piece of plastic....
A. 19 March 2012: As far as I'm concerned, they're EXACTLY the same thing....... (read in full...)
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