New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

245057 questions, 1084625 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in October, 2012, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day in this category)

1 (11), 2 (12), 3 (20), 4 (12), 5 (17), 6 (17), 7 (16), 8 (14), 9 (19), 10 (13),
11 (16), 12 (17), 13 (8), 14 (20), 15 (26), 16 (21), 17 (15), 18 (15), 19 (10), 20 (9),
21 (19), 22 (21), 23 (11), 24 (15), 25 (20), 26 (15), 27 (15), 28 (11), 29 (10), 30 (18),
31 (15),

Archived questions from: October, 2012 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Is my girlfriend getting on line and chatting because she is at home and bored?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

31 October 2012 (M) - While I am out at work my girlfriend does nothing all day except chat to guys and flirt on the internet. I have found out about this now for the fourth time in a year. We almost broke up for good, and now I find she is doing it yet again. It is hard ...

Why is it so hard to find someone who will give you unconditional love?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - Why is it so hard to find someone who will give you unconditional love? How come some people have it and most dont? Id like to have it but my husbands love is conditional. Why is it so hard to love someone no matter what happens? Why cant love be ...

Boyfriend reflecting his guilt on me, can this all change?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - I've already posted on here a few times due to relationship problems but I'm really miserable with it now, I'm constantly thinking and worrying, and as a result I'm on edge. I can't enjoy work, university or time with friends, because I'm so bogged ...

My bf of 2 years never has time for me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid I don't know whether I'm making big deal out of it or not. My bf of 2 years never has time for me. Whenever I call or send message he never responds. If he is busy can't he just send me a simple text so I wont call or wait for his call...

Is this how disagreements should pan out? When I argue with her I feel completely emasculated

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

31 October 2012 (M) - Hi there So me and my girlfriend were supposed to go away this weekend leaving on Friday. Now I had a sports game on the Friday afternoon and I needed to sort out the times of the game before I could confirm with her if I would play or if I wou...

Break up or stay with her? She's warned me that she may want to sleep with another guy, just randomly, in the future.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

31 October 2012 (M) - My girlfriend has told me that she thinks there will come a time when she wants to sleep with another guy just randomly. She said she doesn't know when. She said that she now considered us to be only slightly more than friends but wants to stil...

How can I get out of this confused mess that's happened since I split up with my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - im in a right mess split up with my ex. A few months back we occasionally slept together i recently found out he was dating this girl. I felt really hurt as he had slept with me two days before i found out. I went mad and messaged her to tell her ...

His family are polygamist. That's why my parents are against me seeing my Bf. How can I get my parents to accept my Bf?,

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4410 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - I am 18 yrs old and in my first year of college. I have been seeing this amazing guy (Matt) since early september. He is sweet,funny, fun and just an all around nice guy. He is very focused on school and works a part time job. My parents met him ...

Should there be a spark at the start of a relationship? Or does it grow with time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

31 October 2012 (M) - Hi Aunts and Uncles My questiom is simple Should there be a spark at the start of a relationship? Five months in now and im just not feeling it... She tells me she loves me a lot which makes me think lots there for her.... Should i end this ...

How can I get my boyfriend back? My lies caused the break up. I lied because I knew he would not like the truth.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for over 3 years now, on and off. He has always complained about my lying but the thing is then I did it to protect him since I knew he wouldn't like the truth. I know now it was stupid of me. Everyt...

Should I let her remarks undermine my trust in him? She claims I was second best, that he chose me because her friend didn't want him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - Hi I found out my boyfriend cheated on me a few years ago Anyways we got back on track solved all the problems in our relationship, and everything was going great. We have a child our own home and I am madly in love with him. My problem is a ...

Could my hunch be right? Could he turn into a stuffy old man who doesn't know how to love life and enjoy life

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - I have a new boyfriend and I feel really comfortable with him. But something bothers me. He does not seem to have many friends. Perhaps no close friends at all. He talk about work colleagues. It's as if he arrived in this world and never made ...

He acts like every little problem is doomsday. Is this relationship viable? For a long term future together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - I am losing feelings for my boyfriend. I am 44, he is 47. We have been dating for almost 2 years. He works too much and we hardly ever see each other. I keep telling myself that I'm getting used to it...but I'm not. I feel sorry for myself...

Is this the sort of person I should date? He lied and now says I'm making a bid deal out of things

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - I have been going out with my bf for a year. I won't call myself psychic but let us just say I have a very strong 6th sense that is never wrong: normally they come in the form of dreams which will be recurring. (Keep an open mind here please, don't ...

Am I too old school or he has boundary issues?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - Hello, I am having some issues in my relationship, and I don’t know if its due to boundaries issues or me being old school. I grew up with a lot of guys, I get along with guys better than girls, but I have female friends ...

Is my boyfriend stealing from me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - I dont mean to accuse my boyfriend, but when I was out with him the other week when i did NOT spend a penny, and I went out with 10 pound, I came back with no money at all, not even for the bus. I thought nothing of it until the other day where I ...

My partner is too close to his sister and confides in her about our relationship. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4410 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Started dating some time ago. Brief history of family. I am widowed. Happily married for thirty years. Have one son, daughter in law and three grandchildren. Relationship is good. Have good relationship with my two brothers and their wives. My Boy...

Girlfriend is pregnant and wants an abortion but I don't want her to.. How can I deal with this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

30 October 2012 (M) - Hi, I have been dating my girlfriend for a year we just found out she is pregnant - at first she said she was getting an abortion then she changed her mind and was talking to our baby, now she says she is going to get rid of it. I am a very honest ...

Boyfriend won't do the things I need to make me climax. What should I do?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - The only way I can cum is with penetration and breast stimulation at the same time. Time and time I've asked him to touch me and to suck on me, but my boyfriend of 9 years won't do it for more than ten seconds. He gets to cum, but I never can be...

Does anyone else have this problem where you're really good friends with someone one day, and the next day you wish you weren't?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Like, I will be the first to admit that I love making online friends. It's so much easier to communicate, and there's no judgement in between. It's fun, right? But there's one guy I'm friends with. I've been online friends with him for about... 7 ...

I don't know what's wrong with him. He's being a jerk out of nowhere. PLEASE, I need advice.

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Sorry if this is a bit lengthy, but it's well worth the read. So, my boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months. We broke up in August because I had an attitude problem, but it was my birth control that made me have an "attitude problem"...

Why is it that he only really talks to me when he's horny?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Hey guys so my boyfriend and I and I have been going out for a little over 2 months. Something that I noticed in our relationship is that he only really talks to me when he's horny. I try to make conversation with him but he always runs that...

Too many arguments. Where is our relationship going? Whats the best way to handle this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and i have had a few arguments recently. Each time, it comes back to 'where is this going' (our relationship). We have been together for 3+ years but on a few things we can't agree on, so each time, he always brings it back to where is...

What is the reason? I texted him for the first time, said my name in the text, and he has not replied?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - To keep it short, im 80% sure that my crush actually likes me back. So a week ago my friend Nick helped me ask for his number, he seemed to be a little bit happy about this and he knew i was the one who wanted his number. And he acutally said 'rem...

Why does he need to date one last girl before he can commit to me? Should I wait while he does this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Help me please ? I am devastated by the fact that the guy I am dating told me he needs meet one girl to be sure he really loves? The guy I date said he thinks he loves me and we have been seeing each other for 3 months now. We were making pla...

Husband is away. I'm feeling horny. Should I give in and be unfaithful while my husband is away?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Am a girl of 26 married with two kids. My husband traveled out of the country a year and 5 months now I don't know when he will be coming back. The problem is that am feeling lonely and horny, many guys do comes around to have sex with me, wh...

Do my husband and I give in to my MIL's demands? What can I do about this pressure? Should I call my MIL?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Hi. I need your help. My mother in law complains that i dont call her enough. But i dont feel compelled to call her often because when i call she wll be finding fault with me all the time. Either i have not done this or that corectly. Recent...

Your perfect match is out there, waiting to meet you. Never give up hope.

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

30 October 2012 (F) - When you are dating, or in a long term relationship, or married, i wouild like to say how to keep it going. Every relationship takes a lot of work and it takes two to tango, and a lot of balance and patence and love. So take your time and dont rus...

My Gf will not give up on me and yet her loyalties are divided. She's cheating again. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - My gf is torn between two. She left me in the past for this women and she is currently is doing it again. So I broke it off but we still live together and she sits and lies to my face about the situation but when I cough up everything she w...

Is this normal that my persistent 45 year old Ex is chasing after me after a month of silence?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4397 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Dear all. Your thoughts please! In brief, My bf and i have had a rather hard work relationship. We were together for 16 months. Things got worse,and he kept ignoring me for up to 3 wks at a time. In the end he said it was ok. I was like,ok. Th...

Why does his Dad hate me so much? How should I deal with this, considering my Bf is in the middle of all this disagreement about me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - My bf and I have just recently celebrated our one year anniversary. We get along great, hes my best friend. We've had some hardships, however. I have a daughter from a previous relationship. The father isnt in the picture, hasnt been since before s...

My husband's parents refuse to accept the fact that my son is gay, they want us to send him for therapy to have him fixed and have gone as far as tell us that it must be our fault!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - My 18 year old son reciently came out as gay. I was initially shocked but my husband and i are trying to be supportive because at the end of the day we love him regardless, the problem is trying to get his grandparents (my husbands folks) to see it ...

My girlfriend and I are at a cross-roads and unsure where to do and both of us seem unwilling to budge.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

30 October 2012 (M) - My GF and I have been together for nearly 4 years. She lives in her own place (with a mortgage) and i live at home (due to other reasons but i can now afford to move out etc which i am looking to do so). I've talked with my GF about this and the ...

WHere did I go wrong with my bf for him to diss me like this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - this is long.. but i really just want to know WHAT HAPPENED!!??!! I know i need to move on, and forgive myself.. but i just dont get WHY this person wont just admit what he did. I was with this guy for 4 years.. on and off. Off is when he would be...

How to fall out of love with best friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - Long story short; two years ago, I made the classic mistake of falling for a guy who I was in a "friends-with-benefits" situation with. I was a completely innocent, naive sixteen year old, and he was eighteen and pretty experienced. I'd love to ...

My boyfriend ABANDONED ME far from home today!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4399 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - THIS IS A LONG ONE BUT PLEASE READ ALL OF IT AND LET ME KNOW WHAT YOU THINK: First of all, we have been together for 3 years. We're both 22 years old. We just moved in together a few months ago. We're both going to the same college full time. ...

Could use a bit of advice... this girl sucks but I can't quit her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

29 October 2012 (M) - So I basically just need to tell someone this story and get some potential advice on what I should do. This is kind of a follow up to an existing post I have here: http://www.dearcupid.o...

This is a very bad situation, but who do I choose ? And how do I solve this problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

29 October 2012 (M) - ok, worst situation ever. the type that makes a man not feel like a man. ill try to keep this extra short.. this all started 2 and a half years ago. at the time i had been with my girlfriend for seven years. we fought all the time. arguing. s...

Is my Bf involved sexually with an older lover? He says no. His text to her implies yes. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - Am I over reacting or what? My boyfriend has an older lady friend who stays at our house quite frequently, helps us out a lot. They've been friends longer than I've been around and she's like 20 years older than him so I never thought twice ab...

Am I over reacting? Can I forgive him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I had a rough start to our relationship. We started out rocky...but we did dated and we've been together for 2 months (6 months prior online). I wasnt really honest with him, I was a virgin and we both had sex (he was a virgin...

FWB problems. Do I keep waiting for him or just stop seeing him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - So I'm currently talking to this guy as fwb but he treats me as if we were more than that. We had sex last week and I texted him today and asked him to come over, clearly this ^^^^e want a piece of ^^^ but that was what I wanted tonight. He asked ...

He's a great guy, but modestly uptight...should I give him a chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4413 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - Hey Cupid, I need some advice. I struck up a conversation with this guy over the summer and we hit it off pretty well. Since our second date, we've established contact on the phone and he's a nice guy to talk to. Personally I feel as thou...

My girlfriend's told me she's not willing to be with me if I follow the career path I think I want?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

29 October 2012 (M) - To give you guys a little bit of background, I'm a student at uni deciding on my career options. I'm in a long distance relationship and have been throughout my time at uni. We met at high school, fell in love and have been with each other ever ...

Will a time ever come where I can accept what happened and move on with my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - Hi all, Ever since I aborted my unplanned pregnancy, I have felt such a great deal of guilt and sadness. I know this is to be expected but the feeling of resent and anger is becoming too much to handle. My boyfriend hurt me so much during...

He is confusing me with his actions, what does this mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - Me and my ex split nearly 2 years ago. He had to move to another state hence the split. After the split i found out i was pregnant and had our baby. 4 months after this he got engaged to someone else. He was always in our babys life...

How can I encourage a girl to love me again? Because she hates me now

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

28 October 2012 (M) - there was a girl she loved me but i broke her heart. She told me her secrets and i told only my best friend. He told her. i love her so much and she hates me now i tried to talk to her but she dont want to talk to me now i said sorry to her and...

My friend/partner took advantage of us while they were housesitting!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - My husband, son and I went on holiday last month for 2 weeks to a family wedding abroad. Usually when we go away my mum has a spare set of keys and comes to check on the house etc... However this time she was coming with us so my friend and her ...

My husband sides with his sister not me. How do I end this argurment and not feel aggrieved?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - I really need some help here as I am going round in circles. I have had a massive falling out with my sister in law and we have had nothing to do with each other for about 18 months. My husband sided with her in the argument so naturally things h...

Is telling the truth one option? How do I get out of this tangled web of lies that I created? My Imaginary Gay Boyfriend is causing problems with my ex and I

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

28 October 2012 (M) - Oh what a tangled web we weave, when first we practice to deceive. Firstly let me just say that I am a really honest guy, who doesn't normally lie (truth) (Hard to believe when you hear my story). But one lie I told recently has snowballed into ...

She thinks I'm telling lies. So many misunderstandings. How do I convince her that I am the one telling the truth?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - i posted a question a couple weeks back and got some good feedback. i wanted to see if i couldn't get a few more opinions and elaborate on the most recent happenings. about six weeks ago, my girlfriend had asked to use my phone to look something u...