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Archived questions from: 25 October, 2012 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Can you guide me towards better choices? Why does he not bother with me at all anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I (together for 2 and half years) are going through a really bad phase of our relationship and it doesn't seem to be letting up any time soon. Our relationship has hit rock bottom and I'm driving my self mad trying to figure...

Why can't I ever orgasm? I have to fake it every time, even though I want to orgasm.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4415 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - So, I don't know much about other women's experiences, but everyone knows that guys sometimes (out of nervousness or shyness etc) can't get it up, if you know what I mean. I know that women don't have 'ahem's' ...but can they get the same sort of ...

Twelve years together. But now his porn addiction has taken a nasty turn for the worse. Should I dump him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4415 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - My man friend (been together 12 years) has a porn addiction. In the last 6 months..he's given out his phone number so these nasty ladies can contact him by text. He say's it's just a game. The other day I looked at his history and discover...

How do I learn to trust him? And how many second chances should I be giving out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4416 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - First off the last year and a bit I've been on and off with this guy (j). More off than on to be honest. We started seeing each other in September and it finished early November. But in that time I fell in love with him, and I've been through ...

Attracted to another man who is married. Problem is I'm married too!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4415 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - It has taken me guts to get my ideas in writing here as this is the first time I openly admit what I am feeling. I have recently struggled through a lot of issues with my husband. On the one hand, he is a good father, loyal, sensitive and devoted. ...

How do I heal the relationship? Do I love too deeply?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4384 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - I have been with my bf for 21 months - nearly two years. We have a beautiful 1 year old son together. I have two kids at home with me so two toddlers. Last night though, out of nowhere he turned around and told me he fell out of love with me ove...

Do I choose to love the one I'm with? Or the exLDR who loves me but doesn't want an LDR again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - Hello everyone. Any answers at all are so appreciated! I have been in an LDR for 2 years now. It's working fine. Before my current boyfriend I had a different LDR but with a guy who I had never met. I broke up with this guy before we got to mee...

Is my friend enabling her son? Should she talk to a professional?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4415 days ago

25 October 2012 (M) - I have a friend whose adult son is having a lot of issues. Basically he is living on the streets and has troubles with his family, etc. My friend is sending her son money to help him out. I think it sounds like she's enabling his bad behavior, so...

Should I Trust My Husband? Am I Wrong For FeelingThis Way?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - My husband and I have been married for almost 28 years. I have always trusted him because and have never suspected him cheating on me. Lately he has upset me because of some of the things he has done. One example occurred several years ago when s...

How do I get my confidence back after all these years of harsh treatment from others?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - Where to start...I'm 24-years-old, and have no friends. The reason is being I'm not confident enough in myself to talk to anyone other than basic small talk. My background: I was bullied very badly in high school. It started sophomore year (9 ye...

It's beyond me. What kind of help does my wife need about her fetish? She seems to want to get sick. I'm at a loss. Does she need help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

25 October 2012 (M) - I'm 31, my wife's 28, and recently she's developed a new fetish. She's become hooked on getting a stomach-ache having read webforums and sites about 'stomachache fetishes', and eats a lot of rich food in order to get it. She keeps going on a...

I'm at my wits end. Help! what should I do. The Laptop gets more attention than me in this relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - Hi everybody, well my problem is this.... For the last two years since ive been with my bf he has been constantly working on his laptop to make a computer game (not so much in the first few months) It's his dream to make it big and i support hi...

Bad attirtude. Poor communication What should I do about him? Is he worth it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4416 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - Heya, Actually the guy studies in my college...but different faculties... we found some mutual friends on fb... I knew little about him...he asked for my number... I gave him my numner because I thought we'll be friends ...he's really a nic...

I doubt myself. I never feel like I'm good enough What do I need to make things feel better for me?

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25 October 2012 (F) - I just recently got in to a relationship, at first I had a massive crush on him and he did too. We met at a party a few weeks ago. He was ever so sweet and adorable, but we didn't really "click" if that makes sense. At the end of the night we did...

Help! I'm scared. This girl in our group already took over one girl's Bf. Now what can I do? Because I think she's after my Bf.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - Hello:) Thanks in advance for your time:) I'm in a relationship, which is going well, and we are both in the same friendship group. All his guy mates, and all my girl mates are all mates! haha, but there is one problem. One of my girl mates...

He blocks me out. Yet I do everything for him and his children. Is it time to stop being so giving? or break up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - I met him about 4 years ago. 2 years ago we finally got together after both being in love with each other for about a year. He is about 10 years older than me and has a few kids. At the start things were perfect. He was so in love with...

Which woman understands me best? I feel more love for this second woman. What should I do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

25 October 2012 (M) - i have a baby with someone and i stay with her, but the problem is i have beendating someone else, for more than a year now. The other woman and I love one another so so much. It is like my first relationship ever ,we talk ,we laugh and we understan...

I'm scared for my best friend. How can I stop her boy friend from pressuring her to have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - My best friend is being convinced by her boyfriend to have sex. I have cried every day trying to convince her the consequences. Her boyfriend says he knows what he is doing but he is only 13. I really need help to try to convince her boyfriend no...

Do I need to step back? Her new attitude worries me since she started getting counselling

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

25 October 2012 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for a while now. She has never been in a healthy relationship until we got together. She has had to take counselling to help her deal with these past relationships. On top of all this she's dealing with the ...

Do I need professional help? I STILL can't get my ex brother-in-law out of my mind!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4417 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - Can't get ex brother-in-law out of my mind! I'm going to try and make a long story short! I'm still attracted to and in love with my ex brother in law and I can't get him out of my mind! It's driving me crazy! We has sex one time, and use ...