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Archived questions from: 16 October, 2012 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Is my boyfriend possibly controlling and abusive? Is he playful or hurtful?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

16 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have a very playful relationship but sometimes he can take things too far. The other night we were playing around he hit my chest really hard so I backed if and that made him upset. So I pulled him outside to talk. And he was ...

Is my boyfriend a sex pest?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

16 October 2012 (F) - Is my boyfriend a sex pest or am I just uninterested? I am a 42 year old divorced mother of two kids. I've been told I look young for my age and I think I do too. I waited two years before I "let down my walls" and just jumped head first into a r...

Had a messy break up with my ex and he won't talk to me. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

16 October 2012 (F) - Hello, I'm hoping someone could please provide me with some advice. I was recently in a relationship with my boyfriend for seven years - we got together when we were 15. The first couple of years were amazing, and we were very much in love. Mo...

He's not interested in providing for me if he passes away. Is he being selfish?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

16 October 2012 (F) - Hi I remarried in May this year, we both have grown up kids,I have 4 he has 2, He owns our house,and is buying another house to rent out, we have no life insurance, and Im worried that if he dies before me, I will have nothing,he always said his...

We've been fighting and he's texting someone late at night. Plus he says we're "on a break'. Should we stay together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

16 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I are on a break. However we are still living together, it's awkward. We have been fighting a lot, especially in the last few months, and we have only been together for 8 months, living together for 6. Tensions were high and I ...

And I being selfish wishing to back out of being a bridesmaid? The bride's expectations are too high.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

16 October 2012 (F) - A very rich close friend of mine is getting married in February and has asked me to be one of her bridesmaids. Of course I said yes as I've known her for years but here's the problem, she expects that I will pay for the following: My dress £210, Sh...

How do I proceed with a lady who has panic attacks?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

16 October 2012 (M) - I was in a long distance relationship with a young lady who I had met online. This lady(let's call her Julia) had been raped and confined for 18 hours so she had issues. I visited her in July for the first time and things went quite well but u...

Long distance and little effort

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

16 October 2012 (M) - I have been seeing this girl for 3 months. Now we are long distance. I suddenly had a job meeting in her city so I took a flight and got suddenly there. Upon leaving I told her I was coming. She said she was busy but she ll try to see me that night, ...

I finally left him but he is begging for me to go back, did I make the right choice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4425 days ago

16 October 2012 (F) - hello, am glad i met you guys.coz i have something in my heart i just want to get off my chest. i have known my boyfriend for 2 years now.he has a history of being a drunk but when i met him he had just broke up with his ex becoz he ignores her...

I want to be with my boyfriend, but at the same time I need a partner who can support himself!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

16 October 2012 (F) - Hi everyone. Just wondering if someone can give me their perspective on my situation. I've come across similar situations, yet none quite like mine. Here it goes,... I've been with the same guy for almost 10 years (I was 20, him 21). We've de...

I don't know if I'm strong enough to split up with my girlfriend, please help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

16 October 2012 (M) - i think i should split up with my girlfriend. i wont go into details but shes been treating me bad and the relationship is really getting me down. the problem is i've never done the splitting up before. i've always been the one whose been dumpe...

Does she really have to use everyone she knows, just to be with her girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4426 days ago

16 October 2012 (M) - I think being bisexual was just a phase for me. Now I just feel empty and im not sure if its relief or want? Plus this whole ordeal about my sister being bisexual and her being hooked on her girlfriend like thats the only thing that matters....

Two teens madly in love. Do I stay or go? Or should I move on and try again when he grows up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

16 October 2012 (F) - So my boyfriend and I had been together for a year before suggesting that we take a break from the frustration of not seeing each other and fighting about it all the time. I was upset but found out that he just wanted me to be happy with someone....

Is it possible to get back the person I love? How do I show I have changed? I promised to change in the past and I failed to do so.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

16 October 2012 (F) - I am still in love with my ex boyfriend and I really want us back together. we been together for almost two years and we broke up three weeks ago. He is suddenly so distant with me and ignores me. I know the reason is because we always argue ab...

My wife has secrets. Do I sit on this? Or tell her I know everything?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

16 October 2012 (M) - Hello everyone im back!!!! My wife and i have been together for thirteen years. I was her first for everything. The problem with my wife is she has regrets for things she missed out on. I know cause when ever she makes comments like ho...

Is my Gf into a new guy? I'm not a jealous guy, but something is not right. Any suggestions to resolve this please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

16 October 2012 (M) - I know this may sound bad but I think that my girlfriend is into some other guy. They always seem to be laughing and having the time of their lives (which I do not mind) but it seems like there is something else between them. She has recently been ...

Is it twisted that I have a boyfriend yet I have feelings for two of my cousins as well?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4422 days ago

16 October 2012 (F) - I am 22 years old. I am in love with two of my cousins from my fathers side. The first one we will call "Charles". Until recently in December of last year, I confessed to him over the phone that I have found him attractive, he told me he has had ...

I have major Trust issues due to past experiences. Can you give me advice to cope better at trusting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

16 October 2012 (F) - It involves my ex bf. We broke up because I was a bit closed off, guarded even. I have a hard time trusting people and I've seen friends get cheated on so many times, that I have had an issue with trusting men I date. So, we broke up and I take ful...

I'm genuine and not shallow. But his performance recently? What could be the problem? Nerves? Or problems in the future?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

16 October 2012 (F) - Hi there, new here but I've lurked around for a while so I'll just jump in. I had sex with my new boyfriend for the first time Saturday night. Foreplay was amazing best I've ever had actually, but when he wemt to put on the condom I noticed he wasn'...

I get Soooo nervous around him. So how do I behave near my Crush? What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4425 days ago

16 October 2012 (F) - Hi everyone, I am a very shy 19 year old girl. There is this particular guy I have recently developed a bit of a crush on. I noticed that when we are talking in person, there are a few moments of awkward silences, which make me pretty nervous. He ...

Is it wrong to stay with a woman, even if you do not see long term potential?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

16 October 2012 (M) - Basically, my GF of 2 years cheated on me with a stranger. She denied cheating and lied to my face until I confronted her with circumstantial evidence that eventually made her confess. Although she denies having sexual intercourse, she...