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Archived questions from: 4 October, 2012 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My girlfriend is not clear about what she wants and I don't know how to fix the mess that's been created

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

4 October 2012 (M) - so me and my girlfriend broke up about a month ago, mostly her decision to leave. She said she felt unhappy and that the spark was gone but she still loved me and could see us having kids and getting married. She finished moving about about 3 ...

Does he miss me but not want to get into things because of the distance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4437 days ago

4 October 2012 (F) - Long story short - I went on vacation summer break 2011 to a friend's beach house, she wanted me to meet a friend of his and I did. We liked each other, got drunk one night and ended up making out, after that we started having a thing during the ...

Boyfriend does what he wants without considering my feelings

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4430 days ago

4 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have had a rocky relationship to say the least. The first year of our relationship he had an emotional affair with an old girlfriend. He even kissed her once and even though he told me about it, I have never fully trusted him ...

Is this cheating? My boyfriend went out with his friends and he had a private nude lap dance provided for his enjoyment.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3801 days ago

4 October 2012 (F) - I've never posted on anything like this before but I'm really not sure what to do. A few weeks my boyfriend went out with his friends just for a night on the town with the boys. At beginning of the night he and his friends went to a strip club ...

What should I do? I want to talk to her on Facebook, but I'm afraid it's too late and I've lost my chance

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4431 days ago

4 October 2012 (F) - Ok, so, this summer I met this amazing girl, who, as it turned out, was a lesbian. She developed a crush on me - everyone knew about it even though nothing was ever said. She would stop and stare at me as I walked past, get incredibly nervous ...

Married to a Serial Cheater. Our baby will be born in January. And your advice about what to do about this situation would be?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

4 October 2012 (F) - I am married to what I think is a serial cheater. We have been together 7 years married for 4 years. Once caught him on sex dating websites, with hidden email accounts and we put an end to it and communicated on what and why he did it and some of h...

How do I move forward? and where to? I'm in a confused state over my sexual identity. I think dressing up as a woman is exciting. ButI identify as heterosexual. This isn't out of denial or fear of being gay or bisexual

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

4 October 2012 (M) - I'm in a pretty confusing place in terms of my sexual identity, so I thought I'd ask for some advice. In everyday life I identify as heterosexual, and to pre-empt the confusing aspects of me, this isn't out of denial or fear of being gay or bis...

I am SO in love with this girl who is my Ex Gf. But what do you guys think? She says she can't say how she feels.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

4 October 2012 (M) - Hello again, my name is E.and there is this amazing girl. She is my ex Gf. Her personality is amazing we got together the day after my birthday and we stayed together for 6 months and she was 100 percent with me. she didnt lie, she didnt cheat ...

I love my sister but I don't know if I can live with her because of the way she is

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

4 October 2012 (F) - My sister and I aren't particularly close. I'm the oldest by one year, but we are so very different. She's sociable and i like my alone time. I have two very close friends, that i trust with my life, when she has a multitude of friends and ...

I am financially supporting my boyfriend and it's getting to be too much. What should I do or try to resolve this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

4 October 2012 (F) - I've been a relationship with this guy for almost a year and, he does not have a job. When we first met, he was working at his dad's company but, he quit because, he wanted to branch out on his own. Well, since then he has not been actively loo...

My serious LDR of two years is sinking. What would be a good classy way to break it off ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

4 October 2012 (F) - Hello everyone. My serious LDR of two years is sinking. What happened is that he suddenly changed his FB password after adding a girl he used to have a crush on... And lately we just been extremely distant so I went through my Facebook and dele...

HOT as fire to ICE cold. Might this work if we resolve things? I am making life changes with him, but now I'm scared.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

4 October 2012 (F) - I have a problem. I do not easily let people in, because I know if I ever truly give my heart completely to someone, and they break it, it will be the last time. I know myself. I ended up getting very close to someone I knew for six years, but who ...