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Archived questions from: 3 October, 2012 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My LDR has just told me he has met someone new and intends to marry her. Why am I so emotional over this change?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - My long distance boy friend has confirmed to me today that he has a new woman in his life and he may marry her. Why am I so sad and crying? Please help me. I am an adult and should know better than getting emotional. he wants me to write to h...

I don't want to lose her, but we have some trust issues. But could it be that I don't satisfy her sexually?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

3 October 2012 (M) - I'm 45 shes 31 - dating a month. On every other level we have a blast - we click, but when it comes to sex lately I think there are some trust issues that arise. I'm use to doing the pleasing but I'm not seeing that in her, its more shes trying t...

He's my ex and now he's married. So is he just looking for a booty call with me? Based on his actions?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - My ex dumped me a few years back. We were together a long time. It got really bad at the end. He ended up getting a restraining order against me because i would follow him, (not proud of that). Anyway, we bumped into each other last year. It was n...

Should I have just said nothing at all? Her erratic behaviour on the vacation was too much for me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - should i just not say anything at all I went on a vacation with one of my husbands former co worker. Its not like she was my friend or anything like that. I just knew her and because we saw each other very seldom, she seemed ok for me to travel...

He broke it off. But he still hangs around us a lot. I know he get depressed. But could he be having second thoughts about the break-up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4438 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - Hi things came to a sudden end in august we were together for 6 years we have children and he sees them regular, we have slept with eachother a few times, he seems to be hanging round a lot one min and not as much the next he says hes not interested ...

I was ill and worried and acting kind of crazy with him. Did I ruin things?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - I've been dating a guy from work for the past 2.5 months. Things had been great up until 3 weeks ago. He started to become distant and I started to chase him. It took me about a week to realize that was what was happening and so I tried to back off. ...

Why does he act like he cares and then he acts like he doesn't?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4392 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - I am Asian and in my culture it is quite common to get married to your cousins. I understand that this is not something everyone agrees with but its very common where my family are from. My parents are first cousins too and I love there relationship ...

Just started dating but very little sex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

3 October 2012 (M) - I have started seeing this girl (28 I am 34) a 2 months ago. We liked each other right away and after a few times we made love. We where both traveling the first month so we only got together briefly 3 times and made love. She then came to my city ...

We are supposed to be moving in together soon but I'm worried that I may be setting myself up for a big fall!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

3 October 2012 (M) - Hey All Ive been with my partner for 4 years now, its been a LDR and tough because neither of us were willing to give up good jobs in todays jobs market. I finally managed to get a contract change (different hours), allowing us both to move...

How do I deal with this? My Bf is constantly implying how much better things would be when we go all the way

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - hello everybody. i'm in a great relationship for about eight months now - thing is, i'm a virgin, and my boyfriend, who is older and more experienced is not exactly sensitive about it. i mean, he doesn't do anything i'm uncomfortable with, but he's...

We broke up and I said things I didn't mean but why did he treat me the way that he did?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - Hello, I have broken up with my boyfriend for just over 2 months now. He was 47 and lived with his mother and the relationship was on and off for about 8 months. All together we got back together 4 times, but on this occassion he does not want to ...

How do I tell this man that is bi-polar that I don't want a relationship with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - The guy I am seeing has bi-polar stage 6 and has Schizophrenia. He claims he is in a mexican gang as well, but he is as white as can be. He calls me his wife and is trying to get me pg. how do I tell him that I don't want a relationship with him? ...

What is right? My wife is saying she has no problem if one of our unmarried daughters chooses to have sex in our home with a Bf. The thought bothers me.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

3 October 2012 (M) - I have kids. In particular, I have daughters. And in particular I have a daughter who is 19. She took a year off after high school and travelled the world. Now she's back home and is trying her hand at university. OK, so she's "of age", so if ...

How long do I wait? He had an affair. Now he's returned to me, his wife of 40 years. But claims he no longer has any sex drive.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - My husband has had an affair with a woman at his work for the last 8 months. I found out throught his text messages. He confessed everything(almost). He won't give me the details.)he thinks they will only hurt me more). He has ended it but he ...

Any tips on how to restore some calm into this fractured family? A very dominating sister in law causes me the most pain.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - Hey all. Just wanted an outlet I suppose. Bit of background... My husband and I have been together 10 years and have 2 children. We are having dramas with his sister. She's very domaninating - does whatever she pleases. We've had co...

My Boss is a farewell next week. We don't click socially and I am not part of her clique. Should I attend or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - My boss is leaving for 1 year next week.I dont work with her much but see her at shift change at times. We are similiar in age, but are VERY differerent, shes outgoing AND popular, esp amongst the 20 somethings at work. Im a quieter person, w...

This guy calls me a lesbian. He says he does it for a joke. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - I have this friend who likes to joke around and call me a lesbian. I have asked a numbers of times not to call me a lesbian and he keeps saying, "oh lighten up i am only Joking". I have told him please stop it. he always says "I am Joking". Ye...

I am truly doubting my decision to break up. Despite his failings, did I make a mistake to break up with him? Help!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend last Friday and I'm starting to doubt my decision. Did I make a mistake? We had been together for a little over two years and we had been in a LDR for six months (I was the one who had to move due to my dad's job). I...

I am so in love with her. But my friend's actions with her, prior to us being a couple, make me feel bad. How do I learn from this? Stay? Or breakup?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

3 October 2012 (M) - I'm in my first relationship with a girl i am madly in love with and have been dating her for nearly a year. she was the first and only person i've kissed or done anything with physically and are relationship is really really good and we have been...

I get very wound up. But he ends up making me feel guilty. Am I over-reacting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years and we're both in our early twenties. We've never had a proper argument, never had a shouting match, never stormed out on the other. What we do have is probably more of a problem on my part, but his ...