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Archived questions from: 22 October, 2012 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

After a month of pursuing me he suddenly just disappears?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - Hey if anyone could just give a bit of insight that would be great. Sorry this is probably gonna be long but bare with :) I met this guy very casual he saw me where i worked, never talked just looks this went on for about three month he even...

Has my Boyfriend cheated on me with his ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - Dear all, I am so hurt and miss my boyfriend after breaking up with him. I will try to keep this short, i meet him last Feb. we hit it off. Initially we started off fine, met him saturday nights with my friend and his, it was difficult to get o...

It's annoying me that I've never had a Bf. What should I do to remedy the situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - I have just turned 24 and its annoying me that i have never had a boyfriend i get told nice things about my looks and people are shocked i dont have a boyfriend, i just dont get it. I am shy but i thought if a guy liked you he would make a point...

I know I get jealous but is it normal for a man to keep so many online pictures of women he has known or knows?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - So my fiance of 10 months now is wonderful. My only concern is that he has a thing for having girl friends on his xbox and facebook. I know I should trust him and I do its just I dont know if this is normal. He doesn't flirt with them really b...

Relationship falling apart but I can`t let him go

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - Hello Agonies. My boyfriend and I have been together on and off for 3 years and 8 months. I can admit to me not knowing who i wanted at the beginning of our relationship but i've learned from that and haven't made that mistake again. During our ...

Online dating: how can we forgive each other and move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - So here it goes: I ended up hurting this guy (by lying to him online about my identity, etc)....and in turn, I felt awful (just awful) and I wanted to make things right. However, what I did was virtual, it was just online. I finally confesse...

How do I talk to her and not run away? I've already hurt her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

22 October 2012 (M) - This if very hard. Admitting I have relationship issues. I just recently ended a relationship that has left me feeling empty and hurt. All because of a few things that may or may not be an issue. I've had security issues in the past and really ...

Our daughter has admitted she's marrying for money and we are very upset!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

22 October 2012 (M) - I have issues with my daughter marrying. Not her partner, but her motivations for marrying him. Our daughter's 19, and her boyfriend's 22, she told us she's fairly wealthy - we had no idea when we met him, in fact he lives in a fairly normal...

He 'likes' so many sexy girls on FB. What should be my plan of action tl deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - Hi there. I have a bit of an issue and was wondering what you guys and girls think. My boyfriend of less than a year has started "liking" pages on fb that feature bikini-clad/naked girls that post daily pictures. He liked one today and it really h...

How do you people handle loved ones with OCD?? It's driving me nuts!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been in a live in relationship for the past 2 years. He is a kind,loving man but I have major issues with his OCD and its driving me nuts. 1)We are not allowed to have house parties because he doesn't want the place to get...

I cry every day. It's getting me down. What can I do to deal with my problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - I have quite a few things troubling me however i'm the sort of person who keeps things to myself, and bottles it up. I don't like telling people as i feel like they will think i am seeking attention, or they won't be interested. It's got to the ...

Can I stay close to my BF's family if we finish our affair? Life with my husband is not good. And My BF now has a new GF.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - I am married without children and i have a lover. we have been seeing each other for 4 years now and for the the first year we were only friends. I am not happy with my husband but i dont want to leave him as he is a handsome guy and it ends ther...

After I asked him to used a condom he lost interest. He's drifting away from me. What can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - things has changed he used to text me every hour, checking up on how im doing and made time to see me everynight after work... ever since i told him that we should use a condom we never had sex at all i will tell him that i want him but he doesnt s...

I try my hardest to be both mum and dad for my son but I'm finding it so hard, and I feel so guilty that his dad isn't there for him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - Hi everyone I need some advice regarding my son. He is 6 and he's very bright. His dad has never been present in his life, he's never met him. He decided when I was pregnant that he had no interest and has remained the same, despite all m...

I haven't felt this sad or hurt in ages and I just don't know what to do. He was so nice and now he just seems to have run away!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - I'm 49 and I can't believe I've allowed myself to be put in this position. I've been seeing a guy and it's been like fireworks. Thrilling every time. Now, after telling me he loves getting my messages and texts (some quite racy)...he hasn't replied ...

Why can't my ex leave the past behind? I did, why can't he?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - I have been in a relationship with this guy for many years after 04 we split for good I was dating him since 1983. Common-Law marriage I would say I finally built up enough courage to finally leave him. i made it out with his two children. N...

But which one? The guy who drinks a lot and is cheating on me versus the nice good looking guy? And why do I still feel so much for the first guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - I am confused, i am in a good relationship with a great guy, who loves me and the sex is great. however he's in a relationship with the mother of his daughter.(they stay in the same house, she doesn't have anywhere else to go, plus he loves th...

How to stop Boyfriend taking advantage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - Lately, i've been feeling like my boyfriend is taking advantage. He never seems to give me any notice for anything - always assumes i am free and just demands it instead of asking. If he wants to stay over mine on a friday night (he doesn't alwa...

How do I get my boyfriend to clean up after himself?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years. I live by myself and he still lives with his mom. He comes and stays from Fri-Sun/Mon. Before he comes over, i usually give the house a bit of a clean if it is messy. WHen he leaves, it is like a bomb that ...

We've been fighting every day for months. Is it any wonder I have trust issues over her sexting etc

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years now and we've been fighting nearly everyday for the past few months. We have sat down and talked about this and the arguments stopped for about a week. Now it's the same old arguments. Heres the tricky p...

B/f accuses me of cheating on him but I didnt do anything wrong!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend a year and a half. We live together and have never been apart more than a day. He is constantly accusing me of cheating on him and doesn't trust me at all. (He is 40 and I'm 27 by the way) Every single girl he has ever ...