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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My depression ruins all my relationships

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29 March 2011 (F) - Hi ,I've had anxiety and depression ,my entire life... Every relationship I've ever been in ,I've pushed the guy away with my worrying, flip outs and not feeling good enough... And right now the best guy I was ever with just broke up with me ...

Is it normal for a man to go a week or longer without sex?

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29 March 2011 (F) - I'm a 32 yr old female and have a 41 yr old boyfriend. He can go a week or two weeks without sex. Is that crazy? His work schedule is 5am til 9:30pm 3 nights a week. Sad part we stay across the street from 1 another....

I said I wanted children someday and this guy freaked out, but now wants to date again. How do I go about this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - Okay - will try and keep this short - but are affairs of the heart ever short though... So - met a great great guy at a house party about 4 weeks ago. We talked and laughed and just got on really well. As he is a lecturer where I work - he plucke...

Facebook guy trying to make me do stuff!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

29 March 2011 (M) - my name is matthew and im having trouuble online on facebook with this boy he's trying to make to do stuff on cam and he is asking me to have sex with him and im not gay and i dont know what to do if anyone can help me it would be appriciated ...

On off on off on off relationship: I need to break free!

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29 March 2011 (M) - hey all.. i have a bit of i problem i would like to solve. i feel terrible admitting it but i have little to no will power when it comes to dealing with my ex. she has pretty much made my life hell the past year and i don't know how to make this...

I don't want to stay with her, but I'm afraid what will happen if I divorce her. Please help!

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29 March 2011 (M) - I am 32 years old and I've been married for almost 6 years now. While my wife is a wonderful person, a great friend and I do love her dearly in a "family" type of way, I feel absolutely no passion or physical chemistry in our relationship. She is an ...

I haven't heard from him in a while and I am very worried. He's in the Army.

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29 March 2011 (F) - Hi. On November 1st, 2010 I met a man who is currently in Iraq in the Army. We met because I am a volunteer through a website (send care packages, cards, etc to soldiers who don't normally get anything). He was requesting books so I wrote to find ...

He thinks he's gay. Is there any hope for this relationship?

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29 March 2011 (F) - I've been with a guy for 8 years and have a child together. Recently he came to me and said that his confused and thinks he's gay. I told him to find out if he is or not. The other day he came to me and said that he gave a guy a bj, he said he liked ...

In a LDR.. Feels like I am the only making the effort for contact.. Should I give up and let go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - I have been on a long distance relationship for three months now. I am out of the country and as time goes by things get harder. Right before I left I asked him to break up and stay in touch and if we were both available to check in upon my return. ...

Does this sound like my LDR BF has fallen out of love with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I live in separate countries, we've been together for 5 months and everything was great at first. But he'd have his days where he's all nice and lovely. Then the next he barely says two words. But lately I feel like the gap between ...

What does 'lets take a break' mean?

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29 March 2011 (F) - MEN what is a man really trying to tell us women when he says lets take a break?...

I love my best cousin's wife and she loves me too. Please advise!

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29 March 2011 (M) - Hi, I'm having a problem. I'm 18 years old. Me and my family traveled away to see my cousins that i haven't seen in a long time, My best cousin just got married with a girl. I was really excited about it, and happy for them, but when i saw her i fe...

He wants space. Will I be able to heal if I have to move on?

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29 March 2011 (F) - How do I get over him? I was with my fiance for almost three years. In that time we had a lot of ups and downs, mostly due to my mental illness. I cheated on him whilst I was ill and then tried to kill myself when we broke up, and then again a few...

I need money. Is gay porn the answer? I don't want to cheat on my GF.

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29 March 2011 (M) - hello, i am in serious dept, i haven't got a job and have £103 every 2 weeks. with my balance being so high I cant make the next step with my girl friend. i watched a program on MTV about porn stars lives, there was a guy on there whom who was ...

Was I just a sex friend that he threw away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - Ok i have been talking to this boy for a couple of months and the first two were good and then his ex came down from out of town. we were not together so it did not bother me that much then. we stopped talking for three weeks so in Jan we started ...

My boyfriend accuses of cheating and calls me a slut!

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29 March 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years now, but I dont feel loved. we have been bestfriends for many years prior to our relationship and I think he cant cope with my past relationship. I was with this guy for many years back, and I gave talked to ...

This LDR makes me feel terrible about myself, but I can't quit it. Why?

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29 March 2011 (F) - Hi This is continuation of question "LDR boyfriend says its ok for him to have sex with call girls since its just "meaningless sex"" I begged my bf not to choose a call girl over me and my love, which he refused. I feel really disgusted...

I love him, but we argue. Should I let him go and see if he comes back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - .."if you love something let it go..if it comes back that's when you know it's meant to be". I'm in love with my ex BF deeply and he does love me but things aren't working out as we argue to much atm because we both have other things on our mi...

He says he is coming, How do I handle his response?

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29 March 2011 (F) - Dear cupid! Sorry if this is extremely long . I met this guy online some time ago and whenever we were chatting it wasn't for long, just regular small talk. I wasn't even paying attention, but generally I considered him to be a nice ...

He won't make the first move. Should I?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - I like this guy so much. Sadly, he has no girl friend. A friend of mine likes him a lot though. I had heard so much about him, like he almost courted someone last year but then sadly he was rejected and the girl became the girlfriend of another guy. ...

He told her I was his friend, not his girlfriend. I don't know what to think.

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29 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have gone back together after four months of separation. He broke up with me because he found it so hard to manage his life after being so financially struggled and he just had so much arguments at that time. He also had another ...

LDR GF does not reciprocate my feelings, but there is this close friend who...

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29 March 2011 (M) - Hi. I've been in a LDR for about a year now. i love my gf and she loves me the same. recently i have found myself doing quite more "sweet and romantic" things more than her. its bothered me for a while and now i cant take it any more. i thought i ...

Is it wrong not to trust him because of one mistake?

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29 March 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, My bf and i were together for 3 months and then he dumped me, he told me it was because he was afraid I was gonna dump him. We were broken up for 5 days and in those 5 days he had another girlfriend so now I don't trust him as much ...

Confused by my girlfriend's behaviour.....what should I do?

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29 March 2011 (M) - she was my best friend in school...met her after 6 yrs..now we are in a relation for about 5 months. we like each other a lot. she clearly loves me, but doesnt say so [very rarely she tells]. she justifies if she says "i love you" she has to keep ...

Should I stay with a great guy in a LDR or look closer to home?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - I met a great guy while working in another city for 3 months and we started a relationship which we continued long distance for the past 6 months. He's wonderful, nothing wrong with him, and I love him but I feel I don't want to be in a LDR. I ...

My best friend is dating the girl I have liked for over a year!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4992 days ago

29 March 2011 (M) - theres this girl that has been my best friend for pratically a year, iv had a secret crush on her for pratically a year. we took a break for about a week (because we spent almost every day together) and when i come back shes dateing my guy best ...

Pregnant with 2nd baby - partner can't find work - worried to lose the relationship over this?

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29 March 2011 (F) - Pregnant with 2nd baby - baby 1 will be 1.5 yrs old when this baby comes out and this 2nd baby was unplanned - pill failed and condom broke. My bf currently can't find work in my country. He now thinks he should go back to the US and work in a ...

The constant emotional abuse from my parents has led me to project their negativity against my B/f into my relationship, which I'v now almost ruined. How can I repair the damage?

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29 March 2011 (F) - Hi all, I've been with my boyfriend for nine years now and over that time, I've become increasingly frustrated with the fact we haven't moved in together in all these years. I'm in my mid-late twenties and still live at home with my parents....

So here I am now, nearly four months after, still feeling hurt and rejected at being forced into ending something that could have been so good....

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

29 March 2011 (M) - Hi all... I was dating a woman (40) from July to Dec last year. It was so incredibly intense at 46 years of age I can honestly say I have never experienced anything like it in my life. She was everything to me - I loved everything about her and my...

My G/f has fallen for a much younger man,lies to me about meeting him and she has an alcohol problem. I don't know how much more of this I can take....

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29 March 2011 (?) - I have been living with my girlfriend for 6 years now. I love her very much and she says she loves me too. She has a bit of an alcohol problem, not an alcoholic, she just gets pretty weird after a few glasses of wine, bit mad really. Times have bee...

Should I stick it out with my B/f and see if things change? Or go back to my ex?

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29 March 2011 (F) - Dear cupids, please help!. I have posted a couple of posts on here about my 'boyfriend'. Ive said I dont see him enough even though we live soooo close to each other. He adds girls on facebook everynight, although I do know he not meeting them. He ...

My boyfriend looks at other women, and it makes me feel insecure and jealous.

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29 March 2011 (F) - Can any ladies help me get over this problem. My boyfriend looks at other women, and it makes me feel insecure and jealous. I feel that he prefers them to me. I watched him looking at women for example we were sitting at red light traffic, a ...

I don't know what more I can do about our kids, should I shut their dad out of their lives completely?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4993 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - i tried so hard for my kids to have a dad but all he wants is going out drinking even when we break up i tried getting him to spend time with them he makes everything hard. why cant i just drop them off for a night and come back the next day. he...

Should I take the blame for this going wrong, even when it is her that has become distant with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4992 days ago

29 March 2011 (M) - I have posted a few times here, but now I can truly say I am nearly a broken man. I have been trying to get to know a friend of mine, she is 4 years older than me and has had 2 relationships, 1 for 9 years, the other for 1 year, both failed. Init...

We argue all the time for no real reason! How do I deal with this so we don't end up breaking up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4992 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - Im in a relationship with this guy I absolutely love. He is amazing but sometimes our relationship is just full of arguments and im not even sure why they all start. We both love each other so much but its beginning to look like it can come to a...

Was my long distance girl using me? Or is it something more?

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29 March 2011 (M) - hey this is in regards to long distance realtiolnsihp/ romance. any help or expect advice in this area would be appreciative I posted a while ago about how i maintained my distance from my long distance lover (girl) because of fear of heartb...

Should I move on with things? Or do I wait for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - The man that I have been seeing for the past 3 months left to travel around South America for the next 6 months about 2 weeks ago. We were very much "together" before he went away and spent as much time together in those 3 months as possible. I had ...

Does this make me or him the selfish one here?

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29 March 2011 (F) - Does this make me or him the selfish one here? So im in a LDR and we talk everyday, miss one day and we kinda miss each other and 2 days is just hell. Anyways...I talked to him for a little while on saturday and on sunday he was a no show...did...

We have crushes on each other, but she has a boyfriend! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

29 March 2011 (M) - So I'm in class with this girl. I've always thought her to be cute and a crush started to grow. She has a boyfriend so I never thought much into it. We exchanged numbers and started casually txting but as time passed the messages became flirtatious ...

I don't want to overeact and ruin this relationship, but I am having a hard time trusting him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship. The last time I slept with my boyfriend he gave me a yeast infection and now I am finding my self getting tested for all std's. I am finding so many inscurities rising to the surface as I think he also has given ...

I like to dress to show off my body, but my girlfriend insists I dress conservatively! Who is right?

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29 March 2011 (F) - Im a gay 23 yr. old girl, my gf is insisting that i dress very conservatively as she's afraid i will attract other girls. but i like to dress to show off my body. who's right?...

His experience makes me insecure...

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29 March 2011 (F) - ok so theres this guy that i like and he is...well extremely experienced. his total last yr for hooking up is my complete total. but i dont really care about that. my thing is he has a ton of girls to compare me to!! so my question is any tips on ...

Why did he make me wait 3 whole minutes before having sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - The other night I wanted to have sex. So I asked my boyfriend and he said "can we wait till tomorrow morning?" so I said okay fine then I got up to go to the bathroom came back and he was naked I asked him then, why are you naked? Then he said ...

I know I need to break up with him, but how do I do this when I have my son to think about?

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29 March 2011 (F) - so here is the situation. im 20 yrs and my boyfriend is 28 yrs old. he has a son with his ex and i have a son with my ex. we have been dating for 9 months and now im in the position where its too difficult. he blames me for a lot of the finances ...

We have a baby, but I'm worried about our future...

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29 March 2011 (F) - Hi there. I have an issue about me and my fiance. First off, we have been together for almost two years. We also have a one year old son. I became pregnant really early after we started going out and although it was a surprise for both of us, ...

Why hasn't he said the "L" word?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for six months now. He told me once that he's never felt this way about anybody before and it scares him sometimes how much he likes me. We've both met each others parents and went on holiday together, and I ...

How do I get him to ditch his ex once and for all and date me properly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4991 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - i meet a guy and while we sarted haveing casual dates he came back with his ex ( open relationship, her idea he only agreed to return because of the memories), i was hurt but i liked him so much i agreed to go out with him after the sweetest dates ...

I'm witholding sex from him to show him how angry I am about our sex life and him watching porn!

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29 March 2011 (F) - Hello Well, I'm going to admit this on DC because I don't think I can say it out loud. I have been with my boyfriend for two years. He looks at porn pretty much every time I leave the house. I know because the history on his computer is alwa...

What is going on? How do I confront him?

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29 March 2011 (F) - I am 23 and he is 25. We have been dating for 5 months casually. We live an hour apart and I always drive to him, he never drives to me. I know all his friends. He knows no one in my life. During the first part of us seeing each other it was agr...

Has he lost interest in me?

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29 March 2011 (F) - I am falling in love with this man, and he used to feel the same, but I think he may have gotten over me. I think this is my fault. I tried to tell myself I didn't love him, so I began to ignore his flirting, glances, and just him in general. Now he ...

I wanted to make her first time special but I couldnt keep it up! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

29 March 2011 (M) - Hi, I'm 19 m and in the most perfect relationship I've ever been in, it's been 6 months now and I am madly inlove with her. But- I was molested about 3 weeks ago.. and since then alot seems different, i have anxiety and can't really leave the...

What do I do about my boyfriend's female best friend?

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29 March 2011 (F) - Ok here is the deal- My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year. His best friend (we will call her Stacy) Stacy and him were best friends in middle school lost touch from high school to college and have now in their late twent...

He "wants space" - do I just move on?

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29 March 2011 (F) - Backstory: Moved to university last September with my ex, we split a few weeks later. Not long after met Q (obviously not his real name) and we started flirting but then I found out that he was sorta seeing one of my best friends. He told her he d...

3am text after a week of not talking.. I have not replied...confused

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29 March 2011 (F) - This guy and I had it really good lasted little bit more than a month than it started goin downhill when he called me on valentines day and I was angry with his bad news..we never dated or went out. But I told him I had to go and he kinda giggled ...

My boyfriend cant please me in bed!

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29 March 2011 (F) - Ok here's the deal.... Me and my man has a great relationship together except when it comes to being in the bedroom....we have sex about 5 times a week (trying for a baby) but the thing is we never have sex at night in fact he never even comes to...

My boyfriend doesn't seem to be in to what I do

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29 March 2011 (F) - Hi DearCupid Forum, I'm a 21 year old musician/singer/college student currently in a relationship that hosts average ups and downs. Lately, there is one thing that is really upsetting me.. Music is the one thing I am truly passionate for i...

Why cant I just get a straight answer.

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29 March 2011 (F) - Okay to me this makes no sense. Like im sure there is a good reason but im not getting it and it bothers me. Theres this guy that I worked with and we kind of hit it off had been working together for 3 months or so only talked at work then he got...

Boyfriend needs a break because he has alot on his plate

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29 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for quite a while. (4 years) We've had our ups and downs like any other relationship however I feel like we rarely do anything anymore. He never takes me out. He never makes plans for us to go out or do ...