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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I cant make a decision about our relationship!

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21 March 2011 (F) - Ok, i will keep this short and sweet(ish). I am a 24 year old girl and I have been in a stressful relationship for three years. I love this man very much, I know him inside out and he knows me just as well. However, we break up. A lot. And i...

Bf not sexually atracted. blames his mom disease.

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21 March 2011 (F) - hello guys! I have been with my man for a year and a half. best relationship ever!. Six months ago he got an scholarship and went to study abroad. in spite of the distance we were in contact all the time and were caring and loving as always. ...

Thoughts of him cheating..how do I stop these fears?

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21 March 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, I've been feeling really down and depressed lately as I'm bored during the day and I have nothing to do with my days at all so now I'm worrying about every little thing :( I've been with my boyfriend for a year and three months now...

My Bf's Mom has never liked me. yes I was sassy to her. Should I apologize?

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21 March 2011 (F) - my question is........ ive been dating my man for 4 yrs and i have never gotten along with his mother, she always had something to say about me, negative, even disrespecting me, when she be having a bad day and i say hi to her she will ignore me. i ...

How do I stop my relationship with my Mom, with whom I used to be so close, from deteriorating?

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21 March 2011 (F) - Hey, I really hope you guys can give me advice! My relationship with my mom, as a daughter, is going from bad to horrible. When I was a child, we did everything together from shopping to swimming. I miss that. I've become so, so horrible in terms of ...

I don't think I can fulfill what my girlfriend wants from me!

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21 March 2011 (M) - My girlfriend said that I am selfish and a heartless person, because I don’t think about her first. She began to list all things that caused her to be upset. 1. Week 1: Saturday to Friday - I go to work full time from 8 to 5pm and take one class o...

Should I cut my losses? He's always oggling skinny young girls.

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21 March 2011 (F) - I have been with my man for over a year now and we live together. He says I am beautiful but is always commenting how beautiful other women on TV are. He has even commented how beautiful his ex is. He knows this all hurts me because I have low self ...

Boyfriend wants son to move into our problem relationship.

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21 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend I have lived with for the past 5 years now wants his almost 17 year old son to come and live with us.The Mother has made no effort in allowing contact between them and had only called once to ask for him to sign the boys birth ...

Why does my Mom turn a blind eye to all the nastiness at home? It's getting worse.

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21 March 2011 (F) - Hi, ive asked a question on this topic before but i dont feel i covered everything. My parents split up when i was 7 my mum and i lived on our own for two years then when i was 9 she met somone else who moved in with us. They argued when he firs...

I don't understand why my ex-gf acts like she does towards me. Can someone explain??

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21 March 2011 (M) - Hey Dear Cupid people Sorry this is long, but it's a story with many twists! I've never been able to understand girls but my ex girlfriend has gotta be the most confusing. We were together about a year...proper in love she said things li...

Why does this girl I like keep texting me and then later ignoring me?

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21 March 2011 (M) - Hi, I know this girl for last 3 years.I loved her very much but she was not ready to commit.Then a year later i came to know she is in relationship already which she kept secret to me.I stepped back but as i already made a very soft-corner for ...

Girlfriend breaks up with me after I visit her in her country...and then she is warm and affectionate for the rest of my trip! What is going on with her??

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21 March 2011 (M) - Hey everyone! This is kind of a follow up question to my previous question. If you need more information please read through that question. So just one week ago while visiting my long distance girlfriend she broke up with me. Considering I ...

I don't care so much anymore about my room mates but I do want to clear the air

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21 March 2011 (F) - My two best friends and I had a massive fall out back in September and haven't spoken since. It has been massively awkward because we all live together and can't get out of our lease until May. Basically, I came out as a lesbian last Jun...

He doesn't know how to break off with his 19 year old g/f to be with me!

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21 March 2011 (F) - First,let me start with my mistake. I started an affair before I decided for sure to leave my husband of 9 years. Husband is a good man, but we married at 19 and my feelings have changed. I love him, but no longer in love or desire him. We have a 6 ...

When boyfriend gets too stressed he asks for a break!

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21 March 2011 (F) - Whenever my boyfriend gets stressed, be it work, home, or anything else related, he takes it out on me. When he reaches the point at which everything has built up, and he can't handle it, he asks me to give him some space to think things through. ...

9 happy years together, then suddenly says she don't want to be with me

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21 March 2011 (M) - ive been with my gf for 9 years.. i finally asked her to marry me, this was 2 years ago. we have been looking at venues to get married now on the net, pricing things and that. then we went to look at a venue, it was rubish, so we stopped at another ...

Do they have a double personality and think they are innocent?

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21 March 2011 (M) - say your partner who swears they love you was to do something again and again,knowing its a deal breaker and will end the relationship when caught,then wont own up,or start making you out to be paranoid or calling you emotionaly abusive when its ...

He's done so much for me but I get moody!

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21 March 2011 (F) - Hello there, I've decided to come to you guys for some advice. Me and this guy have been going out for almost 4 months now and most of the time i've been really happy with him and we both really love each other (although sometimes i think he's mor...

Boyfriend's ex text him at 3am - should I let this go and if so, how do I do it?

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21 March 2011 (F) - I checked my boyfriend’s phone about a month ago and there was an indication that he had received a text from an old f**k buddy at 3am. We have been going through a difficult time recently and I had been feeling very insecure in the relationship ...

Is this romantic? Will she appreciate it?

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21 March 2011 (M) - We were engaged and together for 4,5 years. bad break up as she left me because she loves me but feels cold she said. 2 months since we broke up and next month is her birthday. Will travel 3000 miles to give her flowers and tell her i love her ...

He is unsure about me because of my diabetes, should I wait for him to make his mind up or consider this as the end of our relationship?

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21 March 2011 (F) - Hi, I met this wonderful person 6 months back. He was really after my look initially from what I interpret now. I told him at this time that I am type 1 diabetic and he said he didnt mind it. I asked him to ask his mom as I knew his parents migh...

I cant get hold of him to find out if it is over or not! Should I email his baby's mother to find out? Or shall I just wait and hope that there is still a chance? Or simply move on?

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21 March 2011 (F) - hey, this might be a bit long so sorry in advnce. my life is a mess at it all started when i met "my boyfriend" everything was ok for the first 3 months and then everything started to become confussing. it first was his ex girl friend sti...

He makes me feel like I'm not worth his attention!

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21 March 2011 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for a few weeks, it is a long distance thing and so quite hard to judge what is going on. When we first met he was texting me everyday around 5 times a day, he made a big effort on the first date and would text to say how ...

Do you think the man I am having an affair with is seeing someone else?

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21 March 2011 (F) - Please don't judge me... I am married and am having an affair with a recently separated man. (We hooked up when he was married last year). To give a brief hx, I knew him from the past yet never hooked up. Well we did last year and had sex. I never...

My boyfriend has gone abroad with his ex! What should I do?

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21 March 2011 (F) - my boyfriend left me for his studies abroad, just for me to find out that he went with his ex, just 5 days he called to propose to me, please what will i do ?...

My husband talks to his ex behind my back, what should I do?

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21 March 2011 (F) - Of late my husband has been in constant communication with his ex girlfriend he calls her up to 5 times in a day and each call last for more than five minites if i ask him he says they are just good friends thats all and he tells me they will stop ...

I don't want to be pushy about us getting back together officially, but I don't want him to think I'm not serious and meet someone else either!

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21 March 2011 (F) - I want to get back together with my exboyfriend we've been together for about 2 years but have been on and off since October. It's been a rough few months with terrible fights and names but somehow we still end up together. Were together now but ...

He has asked me to change so many things for him, but he cant give up smoking and drinking for me! What should I do?

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21 March 2011 (F) - please help.. Im into a relationship for almost an year.. things started in a good sign in the initial phase, but later after few months there were lots of fights and misunderstanding between us and it was me who always give up 1st and compromi...

I really f***ed up and backstabbed my girlfriend....

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21 March 2011 (M) - I really f*cked things up with my girlfriend. Last weekend, she moved into a guys house. This guy happens to "used to" like her. She told me her reasons for wanting to, and I said whatever. (Ofcourse this pushed me towards the edge of emotiona...

I fancy my boyfriend's brother!

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21 March 2011 (F) - i think im falling for my boyfriends brother! we went out at the weekend and my boyfriend went home poorly so i stayed with his brother, he walked me back to my house to check on my boyfriend but we ended up going back out, as we got into town we ...

I cant make my mind up on which of these guys I want to be with.....

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21 March 2011 (F) - Hiya... 5 weeks ago i told my bf that we should go on a break... as he lives so far away and we dont see each other.. but the promblem is that i have been seeing this guy (jim) (not real name).. , who makes me feel special and is always there fo...

I want to re-ignite that spark and try again, but what do you think is going through her head?

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21 March 2011 (M) - My ex-girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me 2 weeks ago saying I was the perfect boyfriend, but doesn't love me the same way anymore. She tells me to move on and that she has already moved on and that she doesn't think, love, or miss me anymore....

How can I tell him I fake my orgasms without hurting his feelings?

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21 March 2011 (F) - i always lie to my partner that i reach orgasm because i didnt want to hurt his feelings or to get me the wrong way, you no how guys are like,how can i tell him without hurting his feelings...

I have tried so hard to make this work, now enough is enough but I still cant bring myself to break up with him!

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21 March 2011 (F) - hey all.. I have a problem.. Help! I have known my boyfriend for a round 7 years and had some history of more than friendship when we were younger, i moved abroad and when i decided to come back he had a girlfriend who was pregnent with his kid. 2 ...

I trust him but I don't trust his ex, and from his text messages it seems he met up with her at 3am last night! I cant talk to him about this so what should I do?

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21 March 2011 (F) - Hi, i need some serious advice.i'm not the kind of person who would normally do this as whenever i have a conflict, i believe i am mature enough to handle it myself. but this is something that is really messing me up.me and my boyfriend have almost ...

How can I get over my jealousy issues when he is around other girls? And how can I be more confident in the bedroom?

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21 March 2011 (F) - Okay, my boyfriend and I have been dating almost two years now. We also have a son together. The thing is I can't seem to get over my jealousy issue and my insecurities of my self. He has alot of girls as friends and it irrates me when he touches ...

Should I suggest he propose before I agree to another year of LDR?

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21 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I will soon have been dating for 2 years. He’s got a job he loves (with a modest salary) in one city, and I am a grad student with a decent assistantship in another city 1.5 hours away. As time goes by, distance gets harder, ...

So much passion, but not enough commitment...

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21 March 2011 (F) - I have a something that is driving me crazy... I recently met back up online with my first love from high school online and we havent seen each other in 15 years atleast, but we have talked a while now online and then started visiting one another... ...

I tried to talk to him about our problems but now he is ignoring me, how should I handle this?

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21 March 2011 (F) - Last week me and my boyfriend of over a year had plans to hang out, just like we usually do but he ended up going out with his friends instead and didn’t contact me to let me know, which is understandable I guess because he doesn’t have a phone. ...

He told me to leave him alone but I still want him! What should I do now?

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21 March 2011 (F) - Hi there is this guy who i really like and the problem is that I'm in love with him and i haven't seen him in almost 2 months and he told me 2 leave him alone and i cant..... ...

He has been in jail, yet I am studying criminal justice.....my family don't approve and it will affect my career, but I cant help the way I feel about him!

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21 March 2011 (F) - I dont really know what the purpose of this question is, or even if it is a question, i suppose i just need some advice. Growing up I always had issues trusting people, throughout school i never had a boyfriend as i would not let anyone get close...

My boyfriend is cheating on me again. But I love him so much and he said he loves me too!

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21 March 2011 (F) - okay here is the situation, my boyfriend and i are almost 3 weeks now. and of course, i don't have a full trust on him. so i created a fake account on some social network site and started messaging him. using this fake account, i told him if he is ...

Under what circumstances is cheating forgiveable?

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21 March 2011 (F) - Just wondering when, if under any circumstances, cheating can be forgiven? If you broke up with your boyfriend of 2 years, and a year later were considering getting back together, and then found out that he had cheated on you early into the ...

My ex wife and I want to give it another go, but I have just found out she is working as an escort! What should I do?

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21 March 2011 (M) - my wife and i broke up for just over 12 months after a 2 year marriage,seperation was mutual and we both met new partners,she moved some 200 miles away to be with her new man but relationship failed,as did mine with new woman as i stil love my ...

Do guys worry as much as I am worried about this argument?

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21 March 2011 (F) - I'm seventeen and have been with my boyfriend for over a year now, we had a small argument last night and he is now avoiding/ignoring me. It's all I think about and I can't help think that it's my fault and that if I hadnt said anything ever...