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Archived questions from: March, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My boyfriend scares me when he drinks

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - I have been with my bf for almost 2 years, and everything is wonderful. We are both very social and every weekend we used to clubbing and drink with his friend etc. However, in the past 2-3 months when we went out he would drink the same amount and ...

How do I continue to heal from a devastating break-up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

31 March 2011 (M) - Broke up with girl 5 months ago. she dumped me. was with her 6 years. heart breaking. she contacted me every 2 weeks or so. how are you etc etc etc. ive only started to feel bit better lately. still miss her so much but I'm not in as low mood a...

He cheated on me with his psycho ex and he has dope issues...should I take him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5021 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Right so me and my boyfriend have been together for like seven months now. But before me there was another girl, and he was with her for 3 years. She fucked him over big time, like seriously messed with him emotionally and phsyically. S o a few week...

My LDR boyfriend broke up with me...When I asked him the reason, he said he didn't have one!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5020 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been inlove with this guy for 5 years. He said he loved me and he said that he meant it. We have been keeping intouch through the chat (messenger), telephone and writing (for 5 years). I do not get to spend alot of time wi...

I keep falling out of love. Is this a pattern, or just a coincidence?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - So me and my partner seem to by losing our spark, i hardly feel attracted to him anymore but i'm seeing a trend appearing. My first love i started to feel the spark had gone but found out he had cheated so we broke up. My 2nd serious relationsh...

He burned me. I've done everything I can to get over it, but it still hurts. Please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - I met a guy at work last year. We had a thing, for a few months, until I started to listen to the voice in my head about how he seemed to good to be true and yet always unavailable when I needed him. Surprise he's engaged to his gf of 8 years. I ...

I don't know if I can get past this or will be able to trust her. Please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

31 March 2011 (M) - hello everyone.. I have been dating this girl from last 8 months. We started slow and fell in love and kinda lived together for couple of months. Everything was great, but now i found out there were many thing she lied about, so i need some help to ...

GF has mood swings. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5021 days ago

31 March 2011 (M) - Okay well im 18 and me and my last gf dated 2 years and my current gf and me have been dating around 2 years...so its not my first rodeo....but to my question..my gf and me are generally very happy with each other but lately there are days were she ...

We hardly have sex anymore. How do I get the spark back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5021 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - How do i get the spark back? Me and my partner have been together a year. I am quite confident, opinionated and bossy were as he is shy, quiet and passive in arguments etc. I think i must intimidate him as we hardly have sex anymore because i never ...

She doesn't love me. Should I let go of the friendship? This hurts.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

31 March 2011 (M) - i am not sure shall i disconnect from a really good female friend of mine. We only started to know each other about a year ago even though we have been at the same school for 5 years already. Our relationship is between love and friendship since...

I still love him and can't be just friends. Did I say the right thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5021 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Why did my ex boyfriend say that? did we do the wrong thing? My ex and I broke up a month ago, he said he didn't want a relationship but later on told me it's cos he fell out of love with me and he didn't want to break my heart that is wh...

He's changed. I feel like I should take him back, but my feelings have changed

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5021 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - I am currently very confused and would like your advice.. My ex of five years which was a ROCKY relationship has come back into my life, he left wanted a break and to make a long story short he has come back being a new sweet self... Even tho...

He's got to change some things for our relationship to survive. How do I get through to him?.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months and were friends for a long time before that. He says he wants to spend the rest of his life with me, and even though i love him and he is an amazing person there are a couple of things that are ...

Does he still care for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - So I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now, he is the one for me, you may all think I'm being ridiculous because I'm only 15, but I've been through a lot and I know what I want. He is absolutely lovely and I love him to pieces and I ...

He was once married and never told me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Hi there, I met my boyfriend 2 years ago and we have been living in the same house with his parents who own a big house and we wanted to save before we move out.About a year ago in April I found out that he was married and nobody told me,neith...

Husband isn't in love with me, should I stay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - My husband came home from being gone over seas for 7 months..The first wk things were ok and then it just got worse. He told me he wasn't in love with me and that there is just no spark there no more. I felt like dying right there. Well I thought ...

He's horrible towards me but great with the kids, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Help!!! how do i get over the pain!??!!!!! my story is full on...well to me anyway. I have been broken up with my daughters dad for two years now and it would have to be the most horrible experience I have ever had....I had post natal severely....I ...

Afraid to tell him how I feel because I don't want to lose the friendship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4913 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - i have feelings for my close guy friend and i need them to stop. he has no idea how i feel, but we both have had conversations about relationships with friends and how it's too risky and how it could ruin a friendship if the relationship ends badly. ...

Husband is happy to be nothing more than a roommate. I need him as a man. Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - My husband asked me for space and time three months ago. I was in our house by myself the whole time, I was working overtime because I wanted to be busy all the time.(no kids- no family, we are both are foreign) Now he is back and he says to me th...

I slept with my ex's best friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - This is a confusing situation and I think I have to write out the whole scenario so I can get advice about what to do, but basically... I was with my ex for a long time, we were each others firsts and we had a happy healthy relationship. At thi...

He erased our relationship status and our pictures from Facebook, and his excuse was he forgot to tell me? Somehow I find that hard to believe.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - i had been dating a guy for over two years..and this may sound silly but, i just want to know from a males' perspective what the deal may be. okay, he and i were on each other's facebook pages and linked as being in a relationship...i had pictures ...

My fiancee is having a second boob job - I don't know how to feel about this?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

31 March 2011 (M) - In 2008 my fiancee had a boob job, which wasn't my idea but she paid for it herself. She is quite tall and has a great body so although she went up to a DD she did carry it off well. She attracted a lot of attention, and has done glamour modellin...

I know it's in his nature to be reserved, especially when we have had a row, but it is driving me mad!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - HELP! Can someone tell me if I’m getting foolish? ( I have this guy and we’re dating for 1 year and 3mos. Were always in dispute since then. But I could say that we both really love each other. And now we’re having a cold war… again. *sigh* I ...

Confused and a little lost on the whole situation.......I don't know what I can do anymore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5021 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Before I begin I would just like to apologize for how long this is. I'm not sure what I need to do, and I'm actually not sure what the problem is exactly, so her is my whole story. I had a crush on a boy (T) at my school since the beginning of N...

I don't feel physically attracted to my boyfriend anymore!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - I have been with my partner a year and we don't have sex anymore. see each other everyday as we live down the road, except for holidays were we return home from Uni.The no sex is down to me i try and talk about it with him and apologised for not ...

Why do women say you're a fantastic guy, the best lover they have ever met, yet leave and say they need to move on?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

31 March 2011 (M) - When my lady walked into my life, it was like a ray of sunshine, she was tall, elegant, graceful and very very beautiful with intelligence, so she should being a doctor. The second we met it was sparks, being a free spirit she didn't want a ...

Am I doing the right thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - im a 27yr old girl thats in a relationship, though i met a 37 yr old man 3yrs ago and have been falling in love with him, he was in a relationship of 15 yrs with 2 kids as do i have, 3 yrs later he has left her and wants to be with me, though he has ...

Both girls in my life are amazing! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

31 March 2011 (M) - Ok, so I've been going out with my girlfriend for 5 months and shes the perfect girlfriend but its just missing something; for instance I used to get jealous when she'd tell me about guys buying her drinks at the bar but now I really don't mind. To ...

I want to be friends with him but it is very difficult and we aruge frequently! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5021 days ago

31 March 2011 (M) - i have a friend whom i talk about current affairs, politics etc etc and most of the time he will say i'm not open minded and i'm too biased. sometimes he will stop talking about certain topics simply because he doesnt want to argue. but i want to ...

Does chemistry ever go away?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - I recently saw an ex-lover again and was overwhelmed by the wave of sheer animal desire that hit me just talking to him over lunch. We had decided not to see each other because it was torture controlling that, and being in a relationship together ...

I'm scared to leave her, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

31 March 2011 (M) - I have been dating my gf for about 2 years now. In those 2 years alot has happened to her, both of her grandmothers died, 2 friends of her friends died, her brother became an alchoholic. What I didnt realize before I started dating her and got ...

I have competion with a 65 year old woman?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Can someone please help me with this situation as I have never known one like it. Ive being going with a guy for the past 5 months. We live very close to each other, 5 mins away. He has never being committed to this relationship and I have often ...

Why is he blowing me off now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5021 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - ok Ive known this guy for almost (dylan) 4 yrs i dated his bf and he treated me like shit he controlled my whole life,and dylan would always be there when i needed some one. He was my best guy friend, well 1 night he kisses me then the next day i go ...

We recently seperated and now she only contacts me for money!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - OK ladies i need your help. me and my wife had a big argument over a month ago. we recently seperated. according to her this is just temporary and she just needs time. now the only time she contacts me is for money. It's only been four days and im ...

Why do girls hate me so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - i feel like i have no friends today i went to give a book back to my friends in free hour at school and they were just playing around. there were my "girlfriends" there girls that are friends. i asked them if and how much they liked me and they all ...

Can a man give up porn after 10 years of regular use?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I have huge issues about porn which date back many years ago which turn my stomach and I don't feel I can discuss here. I have explained all this to my boyfriend of two years and told him I cannot have porn in my life and if he wants to watc...

I sometimes feel like a slut because I have had 2 ex-boyfriends...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5022 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - I have this problem.. well the fact is that its hard for me to get an orgasm. I have had 3 partners including my boyfriend. I had my first boyfriend form the age of 15-17 and the second was a person whom I liked, but he just used me for sex a cou...

Girlfriend doesn't want me to go on holiday...but I don't want to lose her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - Hi, Having a bit of trouble in our relationship and need some advice and help, here goes... Firstly, we have been together for almost a year now, until recently we were very happy and I am over the moon that I am with her. I never want to leave he...

Why does this otherwise nice guy turn into a jerk with me?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - perhaps this is a more general question: I know this guy from work, and I see him talking on all kinds of social networks, and I know some of his friends, and he is a really good person, two lovely children who adore him, but with me he was a total ...

Does he still care for her or am I just being needy and jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I've been dating this guy for about 5months now and our relationship has turned sort of sour because I've been too needy and I am totally aware of the fact. Im too insecure and Im always wanting reassurance however i think this has started because ...

She runs hot and cold. Does she care or is she playing games?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - I've been going out with this girl for a while, maybe a month. And well, we're kinda like real close and we do what couples do, we've done stuff and all. But sometimes when we meet, she seems to like act a bit different like she's not as close as ...

I'm sending him this breakup note. Am I doing the right thing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I need some external advice because i am a mess and i do not want to do anything i regret later. I used to go out with this guy and we were really in love. Then he just pulled back and we decided to stay friends. The problem is even that he liv...

Do I need space? Or am I subconsciously pushing myself away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for two months, after an on-off relationship for two years. I am 28 and he is 26. The timing was finally right for us to be together, and we are so in love. He is the one, we already have plans for the future ...

Why am I attracted to someone I hate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - I'm a 15 year old boy and have discovered I'm attracted physically and emotionally to this boy i hate! I'm not sure what to do about it and could use some advice! I have been bi for 3 years now....

I'm so negative and it's ruining my life. Any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - Hello everyone. So it's time to get this sorted once and for all. I have no idea where this came from, but I have a paranoia problem. I am not very confident to start with, I am a short guy. I have just grown this paranoia, if I see peopl...

We've been married a year and it's not working out. Any suggestions on how to fix this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - my husband and i are separated. we meet up every couple of days but nothings changed. he is still nasty to me. treats and talks to me in a horrid manner. its the main reason we separated. weve only been married just over a year and things have never ...

My BF teases me about not being as worldly as he is, and it make me feel inferior.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I feel inferior to my boyfriend coz he is very much social. He has got a lot of girlfriends, and he goes out with them. I feel hurt when he is doing this. I have discussed the problem with him,but he says that it's all coz am not social. And also he ...

Is this true love or true guilt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - How do you know when you cheat on someone after being with them for 4 years that you really love them? The fact that one could cheat on their partner after being with them for so long, makes one question if it is really "love" you feel for them. ...

Have to see Ex-BF tomorrow and not sure I'll be able to control my anger. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - Your Open Question: How should I act when I see my lying cheating ex boyfriend? ? My ex boyfriend lied to me, cheated and dumped me. I knew something wasn't right cos he said he doesn't want a relationship. I found out he was sleeping with s...

Boyfriend just can't seem to get the hint. Any suggestions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - my boyfriend is very quiet and shy, i ask him by text if he wants to kiss me and he either does not answer or reply's 'dunno' i really want to kiss him so bad! he doesn't even get the hint when i lean forward, what should i do?...