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Archived questions from: 3 March, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My boy friend has Alcohol cravings. Can anyone give me any tips on dealing with this and the meds given to help him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has finally gone to the doctors on his own accord to try to suppress his alcohol cravings. Once he starts he cant stop. Its not all the time but its definately more frequent these days and he definately needs help. I can't push hi...

My husband's gambling is out of control. How can I deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - Well where do i start? Ive only been married for 8 months, you'd think it would be bliss still.... far from it. Everything has been fine, with ups and downs that have been delt with but now its just seems like its all falling down around me. ...

He broke up with me, so I deleted him from Facebook. Now he's upset with me! What is going on here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - I've written about a million messages on here for help and now something else had added to the story.. So to sum it up, everything was cool with a guy I was seeing, really well actually, to a point where he wanted me to open up to him about my feeli...

How can I trust my girlfriend? I'm convinced she's hiding something from me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - Hi, I hope someone can help me. I'm a 21 year old girl and have been going out with my girlfriend for 6 years. Recently, she has become friends with a guy at work who she told me has sent her texts saying he wants to sleep with her, keeps askin...

Does he really care? Am I being too insecure? His actions say he cares.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - This guy fell for me really hard, actually we fell for each other. But he found me. From day one I knew he wanted to be with me. It took me a little longer. I wasn't ready for a relationship because of what I had been through and certain circumst...

How can I break free? I know I will not get stronger unless he is not in my life.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - I've let my relationship consume me. I let him abuse me for two years now, and now that I've distanced myself from, he's decided to start changing. I know he can't change over night, and I'm starting to get back to my old self. I broke up with him...

Marriage, security, trust, boredom vs. Lust, freedom, excitement?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - I Have been in a relationship for 5 years. We are total opposites. I am outgoing social butterfly he is a hermit. I love being the center of attention, talk non stop and love to laugh. He hates crowds, very quiet, and has few friends. Before him, I ...

Shall I move out and hope that it wasn't really a 'drunken mistake' for him or shall I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - Hey, this is an extended version of what I asked before - please give me opinions on this!!! The question is do I stay or go?? I met this guy a while ago through the place I live - he works here. I always had fun with him in meetings and we ...

Is it normal for a man to say he does not want to hangout with his girlfriend cause he wants "me time"?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - Is it normal for a guy to say he does not want to hangout with his girlfriend cause he wants "me time"? I would think its okay but I guess I just wanted to question it just to make sure I feel okay about him not wanting to spend time today.Well ...

Why is my boyfriend doing this? Should I call him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me, and he said he's not the guy for me, he doesn't deserve me, I could find someone better, and he wants to be alone without a girlfriend. But he said he still wants me and loves me but he doesn't know if we'll make it to ...

We've been dating for a couple months, but he won't tell anybody he is seeing me, or call me his girlfriend. Need advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - Hi there, I'm wondering if anyone can offer advice on the following problem I'm currently experiencing. I've been seeing a guy now for a couple of months and it's only within the last few days we have been intimate. He arranged for us to spend our ...

My husband drinks, lies, and hides things from me. Should I stay? And is there hope that he will change?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - My husband is a big drinker that hides his alcohol and drinks in private. He started lying to me a lot as soon as things were not so good between us. He hid things from me-even a phone call he got from his friend-simple things basically too. He ...

I'm trying to be more old-fashioned, so that he will be more interested. How do I get through this experiment without going crazy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in our early/mid 30's and have been together several months. I could easily fall in love and being around him just makes me happy, but he is less into me. We both see dating as being about searching for a marriage partner, ...

He lied to me about going out with friends, and now I feel like he wanted to get rid of me. What do I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been a couple for almost 2 yrs. We love each other very much and we trust each other and we're getting married. Thing is, we went out last night and he told me he needs to be home earlier than usual because he's tired. Plus...

Wife has banned her husband from talking to me!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - There is this married man who has a huge crush on me. Everybody knows it. He used to see me everyday and we would talk within our group of friends and sometimes on our own. I have been told by other friends that his wife did not like that he had a ...

He's cheated on me, now what?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is telling me he has practically cheated on me, and he told me the reason he was telling me because he didn't want me to get upset by hearing it from someone else but i wish he had never told me. When i see him i just can't get mad, so ...

It feels like he's just not committed to us...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - Hey all, Why are some guys so afraid of commitment? My boyfriend and I have been dating for close to 3 years now and we're both still early 20's. My ideal marriage age is somewhere between 24-26 but recently, he just told me he thinks anyone wh...

Enoughs enough, but how do I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - I have been dating my girlfriend for almost two years now, living together for one. During this span of time she's done A LOT of pretty awful things that have really hurt me. About a year and a half ago, she had a hickey on her neck - that wasn't ...

My team mate and girlfriend are close, is it all in my head?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

3 March 2011 (M) - Okay, I don't really know what to start but its a very long and complicated problem between me and my partner, mainly around me struggling with trust issues. I have been with my girlfriend for 2, coming on to 3 years now. Everything was p...

I can't help but worry about an up coming stag do..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - Hey, I'd love some advice, especially from guy readers, on what really happens on stag nights. I've been with my bf for 5 months. Everything's going great, he's told me he loves me and that he's really happy we're together. We've planned a weekend ...

How do I get my model girlfriend to listen to me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

3 March 2011 (M) - hey everyone, my girlfriend is a model and shes doin nightwear stuff like dresses for party and stuff like that. and sometimes she has to do photos with guys. im a model too but i hate it when my gf is doing stuff with other male models. i only do ...

Does my gym instructor like me or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - Guys Out of curiosity as I am confused about it. I went weeks ago to this gym class for the first time. As it was my first time I didn't know all the exercises the instructor(who btw is cute) was showing me all the time and paying no attention to ...

We're not official, do I have a right to feel like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for 3 and a half months... we are exclusive but not official... there are a number of reasons why we can't be official but if circumstances were different we would be... as you can see the status of our relationship is a ...

He says I'm crazy and insecure and I need help yet he is the one who cant get over his ex...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - I don't even know where to start.:( My boyfriend has this ex who he can't let go of. She has been a big problem in our life. She lives far from us but that doesnt seem to matter. When I found out I was pregant he promised me he was done talking ...

Why do I miss someone who I was allowing to tear my life to bits?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 March 2011 (M) - okay so i broke away from a girl a couple months ago who was a liar, entitled, promiscuous and bloody selfish. finally my life is getting back to normal. but then....why do i still miss her??? i mean, i know in my mind that i am conjuring up an ...

He gave me hopes of a future together and a lot of love...and now its all zilch. Have I been played?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - Long story short. I met this guy last year in an airport, we connected and didn't see eachother for 8 months but from time to time facebooked. Then in January he found out I was visiting his home town for a friends birthday and suggested he take ...

He's always looking out the window!

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3 March 2011 (F) - He's always looking out the window. He read the paper, did his paperwork, chatted on the phone and would played games with friends, while stood at the window. He used to jump out of bed at the weekend to start washing up (in the sink in front of the ...

My ex-fiance suffers from depression and is hot and cold...but I feel like I want her back.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 March 2011 (M) - Hi all, We been together 4.5 years in a distance relationship. We got engaged and we planned a wedding next year. I noticed lately she has been talking much about the distance and told her my plan was the original, me going there. Unfor...

My bf says I'm the "one" but acts uninterested in me. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - Hello, I've been with my boyfriend now for 4 months and I love him more then ever but I'm confused. He tells me that I am the "one" always and that I'm different from all his ex's because there something special about me. Both his parents also tell ...

Now he's blocked me and it looks like it's all over. First I dated his friend then him. How can I resolve this. Heartbroken.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - I am totally confused and have never had to deal with anything like this. The story is sort of long but let me break it down for you. I met X, a younger guy, through a friend. I was going through a break up and while X was never someone I wo...

Should I just cut my losses? He makes so little time for me. How can I get him off the computer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 years is increasingly emotionally distant. I am one that needs bonding time, and he is a robot. He prefers to spend his time with video games and other electronics, rather than with me.I have told him countless times that this ...

He calls me mean names, says I do not love him. What should I do about my married lover?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - I'm in love with a married guy. He has been married for six years and we have been having an affair for five years. He has two children with his wife. but he says that he loves me a lot. i also love him a lot.. i need him. i really need him and ...

He only wants to be friends. He's angry with me. What is the best advice for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - I hurt Him - in a talk, he got angry..he thinks we better stay as just friends now He thought l am not mature enough for a relationship, that it will not work out So even though it is hard but he only wants to be 'just friends' now He doesn't want...

I feel like we're Romeo and Juliet. How can we prove to each other's worlds that we really do love each other and want to find happiness together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

3 March 2011 (F) - I met this really sweet wonderful guy who is alot older than me. We met about two months before my dad passed away and he was absolutely wonderful and supportive. My mom liked him. His daughter liked me. We had some really bad events occur in the r...

The girl whom I fell in love with online was a liar and cheated on me. Its so hard to move on now...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

3 March 2011 (M) - Okay guys let me explain. Back in january I got on a teen chatting site as I used to for about 4 or 5 months and met a girl (who I will call M from now on). I didnt take M seriously, she was just fun to talk to. She stopped getting on because she ...