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Archived questions from: 1 March, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Help. He's texting his ex. I don't want to lose what we have

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - Please help. my boy friend and I have explosive arguements when he tells me he doesn't want me and wants to find someone else. He really makes me feel useless. we usually make up in the end. we've been together two years and i've found that when...

If someone starts ignoring you., what do you do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - There's this guy I met last year in April. And after we met, he asked me out a few times but I said no for 2 main reasons ; because I was still getting over my ex- boyfriend , and because I knew the guy was a bit of a flirt. But I wasn't nasty or...

I'm afraid I will regret losing him forever

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - Maybe this is stupid, but I just can't seem to let go of him. We have so many issues, and yet I'm worried I'll never share anything special with anyone like I did with him again. How can you will yourself to believe you will find better after the...

I'm 38 and I still feel immature...advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - I really need some help: I am 38 years old, and I am still so immature and hurt, and I don't know how I can appeal a decent man. After a lifetime of running after bad guys, in the last years I completely reformed and spent a long time into my own...

Should we keep seeing the therapist?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for three years and recently began having some serious problems in our relationship. We began seeing a couple's therapist two weeks ago. My problem is our therapist. Not only did she tell me that it's my fault ...

Friends vs. Relationships

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - Have you ever been in a situation where you want to be with someone, but another person isn't happy about it, and therefore is standing in your way? Perhaps you've liked a sibling's friend, or a friend's relative, or someone your friend likes as ...

I don't want her to fall in love with someone else!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (M) - I am currently 21 i just broke up with my gf (27) We have had a long distance relationship for 7 months we talk and see each other on skype everyday or on the phone. I only seen her psychically maybe 1 month. We just broke up since valentines day o...

When my boyfriend says I love you, I think "Do you?"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - help.. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. It's been a bumpy 2 years, and we still have feelings for eachother. Recently, just last month, he was moving out of his apt into his condo. I've went out of my way to help him clean ...

Do I throw away 6 years for someone who rejected me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (M) - Hi, I'm in a relationship of 6 years with my first girlfriend. The problem is I'm still hooked on a girl I've been in love with for over 10 years. She also happens to be a really close friend. When I met my current girlfriend, I was living...

My Girlfriend seems like she is starting to get interested in someone else, what do I do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (M) - Ok so I have been dating this girl for about a year and lately this kid keeps posting stuff on her facebook about how awesome she looks doing her sports and how he wants to go watch her all the time and occasionally asks her to go to a party or ...

Have I blown it and should I give up on him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - Hello, A boy in my school - who I like - has been texting me recently.. It started with my friend texting him on my phone saying "Get in my bed" or something like that. When he texted me back, i explained that it wasnt actually me. After this, he...

Will we last if we get together??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - So this guy and I both know we fancy each other and have been friends for just over a year. We used to talk for hours, and get along ridiculously well and flirt every now and then. But it wasn't until recently that we both admitted that we liked ...

Why do I like them some days, then the next day I don't!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2655 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - Why do I keep thinking about this guy all the time? I never used to be able to think of him as more than a friend until recently, what's going on? Also what confuses me is I know I like him, but then some days I wont like him as much as I did be...

He criticizes me and sends mixed signals, should I stay with him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend a year now... I am in love with him and feel so low when im not with him.. but I feel as though he is mentally torturing me. He doesnt liek me wearing make up and the other day he gave me an ultimatum betwee...

What do women think of a 28 year old guy who has never had a girlfriend?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

1 March 2011 (M) - Hey i was just wondering what girls think of a 28 year old guy who has never had a girlfriend (yes, a virgin aswell), do you consider it pathetic? I dunno im a sweet guy, i'd dare say attractive, im just a lil shy, i guess it's true what they say: ...

My girlfriend's sense of humor.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (M) - My girlfriend has mesmerizing sense of humor which can bring out something funny even of the most tense situation . Some time I feel jealous that why I can't match her sense of humor . Though, I'm proud of her having this natural gifted thing but I ...

Am I just his second choice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - I reconnected with an old boyfriend I dated 25 years ago. When we reconnected at the time, he was dating someone from another country. He ended it when we started dating. We have been living together for 6 months now and I have been raising his 3 ...

I am getting tired of this hot and cold situation!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - My SO and I have been together for almost 3 years. When we saw each other in December, he was going to propose but we had some issues and ended up fighting most of the time. In other words, he didn't propose and said I was holding back from him ...

I checked my boyfriend's phone and now he is furious!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - Hi everyone. Me and my bf have been going through a tough time lately, my behaviour has not been great and I have been suffering from anxiety and depression which I am trying to deal with by going to therapy. Anyway, last Friday I did something ...

If he doesn't want me as a lover can I still be his friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - Well its sumwat about luv and friendship. I met a person through net chatting and we were seeing each other and mostly into each other and had a great time 2gethr. He proposed to me too and I was taking my time to know him though I was in love. At ...

I feel as if he's just chewed me up and spat me out!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - Hi guys, just looking for some advice... I've been living with my boyfriend who is from another country about 3 years and everything (I thought) seemed to be going smoothly. We have talked often about having kids in the future. However last night he ...

His drinking is ruining my relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of 1 year is a heavy drinker - most days 1 bottle or more of wine (on his own, I don't drink) and worse at weekends. I didn't know this initialy, only after we started living together. He has a good job. I suspect he is a high ...

His actions don't match his words!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - Im in a relationship with a guy who is older. He is 7 years older than me. We have being 'dating' for the last 4 month now. It defo just dating still as I only see him a couple of nights a week.He never takes me out through the day and ive never met ...

She's playing both me and her ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5021 days ago

1 March 2011 (M) - So this girl I have been talking to for quite some time now had fallen in love. Yet she and her ex still love each other. Turns out for a while she was dating both of us. Me and the ex decided that she has to choose, we will be ok with anything she ...

I want to start our marriage on the right foot with trust!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - I felt hurt when my fiancee told me 2 years ago that if he and his childhood friend were dating, he'd be married by now to her. I didn't say anything considering we were only dating at the time but it has been on my mind now and then. When he ...

If a guy won't wait does it automatically mean he wants to use you?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - ok,so there is this guy-ive known him about 3 months but we didnt see each other for a few weeks and now weve started seeing each other again I tried telling him I want to wait a few weeks for things to get back to normal before we have sex but he ...

I want to win him back, what is the best thing to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - please let me know what you think about my situation - any advice is welcomed. last night my boyfriend of three years broke up with me. he started university the other side of the country last September and we talk three nights a week to give him...

Am I crazy for thinking he has something going on with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - I am insecure in my marriage because my husband cheated on me before we got married. It was with a coworker of his. The last time we was out hanging out with the guys he spoke about her ta ta's. I shrugged it off because thats how men talk weather ...

Is she refusing to answer the question because she has been with someone else?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (M) - Me and my girlfriend broke up 7 months ago but now we are back together.I havent been with someone else during this period and she knows that, but when i ask her the same she gets mad at me, saying she is not going to tell me anything about it and ...

I broke things off with the second man so why do I still feel guilty?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (?) - I have been in a relationship with 2 men 1 15 yrs and the father of my daughter and the other for a year, I have finally come to my senses and ended the relationship with the other man, thing is I feel so guilty for breaking his heart. He knew I was ...

Is there any hope for my friend against her in court?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - Hello all..I'm writing on behalf of a friend of mine. He's run into a mess of problems with his ex-girlfriend. Let me start off by saying that I never liked her, but because he's one of my best friends, I tried to be happy for him. After they bro...

My boyfriend cant handle it when I get upset!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5021 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - I have been involved with a guy for 3 years now. I have noticed a pattern in the past year that when I get upset, he cant seem to handle it. As soon as I start to cry, he reacts, by saying he is completely stressed as it is and he cant handle any ...

He was cheating on me for 3 months and even took her to meet his parents! I would leave but I am pregnant......what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - I have been in a relationship for the past 3 years, me and my bf/ fiance have a 2 year old together, we live together. He bought me a ring we just haven't really planned a wedding yet! Here's my problem I really love him he's great to me so ...

Should I dump her or take the risk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

1 March 2011 (M) - Hello helpers, In a nutshell, this is my first serious relationship, and I have been unhappy with certain parts of it for a long time. Yet, I don't feel like it's bad enough to end it, and I'm pessimistic about finding another girl any time so...

Should I move in with boyfriend in a rocky relationship or try to make it without him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - The situation here is a little complicated, so let me explain. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years. We are both graduating college this year, and he will be moving across the country to take a job. I have no job lined up for next year...

Boyfriend seems possessive! Should I worry?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - Should I be worried that my boyfriend seems really possessive lately? Does it mean he's done something he knew he shouldn't have? When we first started dating (we have a long distance relationship while he goes to school) he seemed jealous but not ...

Our relationship status is not public on my boyfriend's facebook account...he had modified the settings so that only I could see the "in a relationship" status!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - So its been almost 2 years that my bf and I have been together. We've had our ups and downs like any other couple, but what separates us from any ordinary couple is that we learn to work with what we've learned from our past arguments, however, a ...

I feel driven to do rash things. How do I find the strength to get through this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 March 2011 (?) - I've asked for help before regarding ending a relationship with a third party but i never let it get easier for myself. the pain drives me to do rash things and today is one of those days. I still need a bit of help, he arrives tomorrow and today ha...

I'm insecure because of past relationships, but I don't want to ruin the current one

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - I have a real issue with trust. In my three previous relationships (in fact, my only three serious relationships) they have cheated on me or left me for another woman. I have done much soul-searching as to whether it was something that I did or ...

I love him, but I'm still insecure.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

1 March 2011 (F) - I met a guy online over 2 years ago...I fell in love with him and he me. I met him for the first time in real for 2 weeks in January and well im even more in love now than I ever was, we get along soo much better in real than what we do online a...

We don't have sex anymore.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

1 March 2011 (M) - Me and my girlfriend don't have sex anymore and I don't know why I treat here great. She never has to buy things as I give her everything or do any house work and cook as I do it all i run her baths and give massages and take Her out for meals every ...