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Archived questions from: 4 March, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How do I get my husband to look at me and not naked pictures??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - my husband loves me dearly but will not stop looking at porn, but will not look at me. what do i do? weve been married for 17 years. ...

Has he lost interest? my boyfriend is ignoring me, not texting me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5017 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - my boyfriend has been acting mean to me lately. We've been going out for one year and two months now. He doesn't seem to care about me any more. At school he barely talks to me and he doesn't Text me. We don't hold hands or kiss much. He tal...

My friends say leave my husband of 8 years. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - i have been married for 8 years to the love of my life, he changed jobs 18 months ago and had to move on his own for 3 months, until we could find a home together. i moved in with him last new years day in a flat above where he worked. i list...

How do I deal with losing the love of my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - I met this guy two years ago when i was at the university and he was working. We dated till last year that is dec 12 when we decided to give our relationship a break after a misunderstanding. On 15 dec he sent me an sms inviting me to his place ...

In my 50s, never had a gf or intimate relationship, and am looking for guidance.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

4 March 2011 (M) - I’d be grateful for some advice. I’ve posted this on a couple of forums to get various opinions. I’m a heterosexual man in his 50‘s, and I’ve never had a girlfriend or had any intimate relationship with a woman. I was an adopted only child an...

My roving childhood makes it hard for me to form relationships. Will it ever get easier?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5017 days ago

4 March 2011 (M) - I've been to 7 different states. My life has been composed of trying to make some friends and leaving my friends. Still to this day, I have a hard time with all of it. Why is it so hard on me still? Most of my life, I've been on my own aside fro...

I like a girl who's taken!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

4 March 2011 (M) - Hello. I like this person for a few years now, despite she's been taken before I met her. I would feel bad if I made someone I like realize that her current relationship may be wrong. At the same time, it's kind of helping as if it would be say 5 ye...

"I'm working on it"...I'm not sure what she means

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

4 March 2011 (M) - I was/am (you see, I don't know) together with my partner for one year. She is 39 and I am 41. I have a child from a previous marriage, a lovely 12 year old girl while my partner is childless but wants children. We live 2 hours from each other, me ...

I just don't know what to make of her behaviour!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

4 March 2011 (M) - Pls help me. I am really upset. Please :'( I have loved her like crazy for 4 years. We started uni 4 years ago together. I was a Pakistani and she was too. I fell in love with her. She did not love me. I made her say yes to me after a lot of effor...

How can I get over him ASAP!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - Hi, Mkay so basically I've posted before. I met this guy and fell in love with him. he had problems with me because he wasn't my first. He tried to solve this by constantly having sex with me when i didn't want to. we eventually broke up because...

Sick of his lies over smoking, porn, and just everything. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - Well, where do I start? My boyfriend is constantly lying about everything. About what he's doing and who he is with and smoking and porn. The smoking is not your everyday cigarette, it's pot. And the porn I wouldn't mind so much if he would at least ...

I have somewhat of an existential crisis. Please help

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - I have absolutely no idea where to go from here. I recently broke up with my boyfriend for probably the sixth time after finding him have cyber sex with random girls. I want to stay broken up for good, I really do, but it is almost impossible for me ...

How do you deal with a partner's ego/pride?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

4 March 2011 (M) - One thing I have a hard time dealing with other people's pride, particularly when I am in a close relationship. It gets me so frustrated when a person can't admit they are wrong, or they see themselves as always good, and they never feel remorse. ...

A married man at work wants my attention. I am attracted to him, so I'm struggling with this. How can I stop these feelings, and how do I get him to leave me alone

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - I am a pretty young woman. There is this man at work who is always trying to get my attention but he has a wife and family. I really find him attractive and think he is a nice person. But I do not want to get in the middle of a marriage or caus...

I cheated on my boyfriend, and he is contemplating revenge cheating. How can we get past this?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

4 March 2011 (?) - My boyfriend is trying to get pass the fact that I cheated on him and lied about it. The situation is that I kissed a coworker about 6 times and we ended up touching on each other. I lied about how the kiss happened and how many times we kissed. ...

We were engaged, broke up, I contacted him, he sent me a Valentine's gift and message. I rejected him, but I still love him! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - I had a boyfriend. After a year and a half he proposed. We were engaged for 4 months and we broke up because he started a business with his family and told me nothing about it. I didn't like it because he was totally invested in it and practically ...

He told me he didn't want a relationship, which is fine. I just want him to be like he was when we first met! What's his deal?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - Hi there! I met a guy at a bar in December and it was one of those "wow! I feel like I already know you" type things. The sexual chemistry was totally there, we were chatting, he was very affectionate toward me, and saying really nice things to me. ...

I want to move with my best friend, her family, and my brother, but she doesn't want me to go! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - My best friend and I were very close until she started to date my brother. I lived in England with my friend and her family, and then we all moved back to Ireland. Her mam wants to move back to England. The only problem is that my brother is going ...

I'm 15, pregnant, no parents of my own AND my baby will be without a dad! Please advise!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - Hey guys. Please don't judge me I have enough on my plate as it is without other people adding to it. I am 15, 16 in November and I got pregnant when I lost my virginity. But we used a condom that split and the pill but.. you know, it happens...

My girlfriend broke up with me twice. She's receiving counseling and takes full responsibility. Should I give it another shot?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

4 March 2011 (M) - My girlfriend broke up with me, twice. The first time was like a weekend, I agreed to get back together. The second time, I was tired of being taken for a chump and that was that. It's been 3 months now. We've been talking a lot. She's been ...

The man I am dating and planning to marry has a fetish for shemales. I worry about my future. What should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - Hi I have read some similar subject as mine but I need some advice, or get some idea of what this is or not? It is important for my future. My friend now for a couple of years has an interest in shemales. In fact, after four years of marriage -so...

I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 19. We don't want to hide our relationship. How can we approach my parents about this, and what should we say?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - Hello! I am 16 years old and the guy I love is 19. We met a year ago at my youth group (church). We hit it off as soon as we met. He saw me at my worst and still thought I was beautiful. We will have dated for 4 months on March 14 2011. We ha...

Why? I get get left out of dating, kissing and my friends houseparties.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - hey guys, i was just wondering. you see, i'm fifteen and i've never been on a date nor kissed a guy before. my friends are all starting to go on dates and be kissed now and i feel left out. it's not like I am huge or have an ugly face or somethin...

How do I tell him I just don't want to be with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 and a half years. I do love him, but I'm not in love with him. Sense about a year into the relationship I have wanted out. But we already lived together and have a dog, so its hard. Everyone probably thinks ...

I'm gonna guess a 4th date is a no?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

4 March 2011 (M) - 3rd date we've gotten allog great then we have sex twice and I pay for an expensive hotel .....our personalitys click and we both laugh and enjoy each others company ....she was attracted to me and she liked me all the way up to this point.... ...

Boyfriend doesn't respect my hobby and career decisions...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - I feel my boyfriend doesn't take my passion for art or the career path I want to follow seriously. I've explained to him is part of who I am, drawing means everything to me as it's not just a hobby, it's something I hope to be into within my career ...

Is giving her space all she needs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

4 March 2011 (M) - Ok, I have posted a question about my girlfriend before who wouldnt introduce me to her kids, her parents or her friends. I can accept the situation with her kids becuase I have kids of my own and I can see you wouldnt introduce them until you where ...

Violence...What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - Okay, I'm in need of some help. For about a year now, like clockwork, once a month, me and my partner have a massive row, brining everything up at once about everything that has pissed the other one of in the past month even if it is relevant or n...

He can't get over my sexual past....and his behavior is ruining us

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5017 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - Hi, Mkay so basically i've posted before. I met this guy and fell in love with him. he had problems with me because he wasnt my first. He tried to solve this by constantly having sex with me when i didnt want to. we eventually broke up because...

He's not at my level career or education wise!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - So I don't know if I'm wrong to be concerned and feel bad about getting more serious with him simply because our future career views are different. I currently have a Bachelor's degree in Alternative Medicine and want to continue my educatio...

I found out my boyfriend of 2 years was having a long distance relationship! Should I forgive him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and I just found out today that he's had a long distant relationship with another woman for the last year, so I wrote him an email to end our relationship. I found out by making a fake profile on a social ...

I'm 31, have 2 children, and I'm divorced. I know I'm a lesbian, but how do I convince others this is who I am?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - Please help me... I am 31. I have 2 older children, and was married to their dad for 10 yrs. Ok this is where it gets complicated... I always wondered why I seemed as a 9, 10, 11, 12 and 13yr old that I had thoughts about other girls, I even went as ...

My boyfriend tells me he would be happy with or without me! We're supposed to marry next year. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - Please give me advice! My boyfriend who wants to marry me next year is telling me he is happy with me or without me. Why would he say something like that? Is it because he doesn't love me? I can't get the answer. Please you might have good answer ...

Will lose my home and my car if I continue dating this boy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - Hello, So my problem is that my grandmother(with whom I live with) absolutely hates the boy I'm dating. I am 17 years old, he is 18 and as of the moment she doesn't know we're dating. We've been dating for about 6 months now without her knowing ...

We argue a lot, and I feel like I'm his slave! I don't want to leave him, but I need to know how I can make this relationship better. Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - Hi everybody. Please advise me. I really need it. I'm afraid my future husband and I will be breaking apart. We have been together for 3.5 years. The first year went pretty good we had a bit of fight but not too big of a deal. But the past three ...

What's the best way to get us communicating better together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

4 March 2011 (M) - I'm seeing this girl at the moment. We were dating last year for a month or so, when she decided to cool things off. After about 2 weeks of her being cold with me and not knowing where I stood, I called the whole thing off. A few months later, we ...

I love this woman, but she has lost her feelings for me. I'm in emotional turmoil! How do I get her back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

4 March 2011 (M) - Hi. So... where to start. About a year ago, I met a girl online, and we started talking via IM. We grew closer and closer as the conversations got more frequent, to a point where we'd talk for hours on end every single day. It was obvious to both ...

The whole time he seemed like he wanted a relationship too but then just changed his mind..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - I was dating a guy for 2 months on a regular basis and he kept persuing me for more dates and everything was going great. He invited me to meet his parents, I hung out with his friends but we both never really spoke about what we wanted we just wen...

If your partner smokes weed, what effect does that have in terms of your daily life and sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5017 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - Someone I like smokes weed does what does that affect in terms of everyday life and sexually? I really like him and he feels the same but I feel turned off by him smoking weed and his friends do to, I have read many times how it stops them getti...

My dominating boyfriend who thinks he's "Gods Gift" is making my life miserable...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - hey, so im about to turn 17 and my boyfriend is about to be 21. we have been together for a couple months and things are getting very complicated. im becoming scared of him. he keeps pressuring me about falling in love... he always says "i dont thi...

I'm abusive to my boyfriend, help!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5017 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - About 8 months ago, I got into a relationship with an amazing guy. He's sweet, caring, funny, and he'd never do anything to hurt anyone. Unfortunately, I have emotional issues that have never been resolved, and a couple months ago, I began ...