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Archived questions from: 16 March, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Two months till my wedding and my bridesmaids suck

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

16 March 2011 (F) - Okay guys so my bridesmaid suck! It's two month till my wedding and my bridesmaids haven't told me anything at all..... I told them rbe my vbridesmaid like 5month ago.....I had to go and buy them their dresses that's how uninterested they are....I ...

She misses me, then gets a new boyfriend, but still wont let me out of her life! What is going on here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5004 days ago

16 March 2011 (M) - Why do girls tell there ex they miss them of they got to gether with a new guy three weeks into the breakup? My ex told me she found some old pics of us and they made her sad cuz she misses me, but she knows I want her back and she has a new bf. I ...

What have I done wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

16 March 2011 (F) - Hi, So i am a 16 year old girl in my last year of school, it is extreemly rare for me to fall for boys thease days and get hurt because i am to focused on my grades at the moment, only a 4 boys have upset me in the last 3 years including the one ...

I broke into his house, got arrested, kids won't forgive me but I need him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

16 March 2011 (F) - Hi My boyfriend and I had a huge fight over someone saying I said something about him that i didnt. he is feeling a little off right now and paranoid as his x wife and him are fighting custardy after his 13 year old daughter saying she wanted to ...

Body isn't quite perfect after childbirth

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

16 March 2011 (F) - I am a 27yo F. I have a 6yo daughter. I use to have a flawless body pre-baby. Post-baby, is.... jus.... terrible. My skin on my stomach is saggy... no matter how much I work out it is here to stay. I look and see other women complain and all the ...

Is it wrong of me to feel violated, and absolutely fuming that my boyfriend's colleagues had the audacity to stick their noses into my business and spread lies about me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

16 March 2011 (F) - Hello, I don't know whether I'm just being silly here or whether I'm right to be as upset as I am. I've been with my boyfried for two years now and I love him and he loves me. Recently at uni there has been a guy who I just consider a frien...

She is making me suffer, I want my identity back! Please help me, I'm depressed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4730 days ago

16 March 2011 (?) - Hi guys... I had changed schools and when I came I had the respect and all and I was friends with a girl everyone hated very much at that time. She was alone. Yet, I told myself that it dint matter. Then she never ised to let me talk to anyone. ...

After 7 years I still pity his ex-wife

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

16 March 2011 (F) - ive been dating to a guy for 7 years. now we are both seperated. The problem is that he still feel guilt about what he had done to his wife and still pity her. Sometimes he wants to be alone to choose between his wife and me. He cant have the ...

The way these guys talk about me is hurtful, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

16 March 2011 (F) - hi..i speak friendly and socially to all my classboys..but in front of me they speak as a friend and behind me they speak like they love me..this hurts me a lot..do i need to ask them directly or leave that way till they say directly to me or i ...

How long should I wait before I am sure that I have made the right decision to finally divorce my husband?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

16 March 2011 (F) - I have asked my husband for a separation due to the fact that I was hurting so much as a result of his words and actions. We have been married for 13 years. He had 2 emotional affairs; 3 years into our marriage and another one 6 years thereafter. I ...

Have I made the right decision in love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

16 March 2011 (F) - I have refrained from any kind of sexual relationship with my "boyfriend" if I can call him that. We have know each other 27 years. Both went off and had children for other people and rekindled again in 2000 and now have an 8 year old. However s...

I love him and want to forgive him but how can I, and should I?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

16 March 2011 (F) - I was with a guy on and off for three years, I went away for school and we broke up because we couldnt really deal with long distance, however in the past week we were planning on trying again, then this weekend I find out he had sex with another ...

I want to have a casual relationship but I always end up getting attached!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

16 March 2011 (F) - I have been screwed over in a couple of relationships all the time mostly got cheated on, or guy leads me on or simply just being used and I'm sick of getting hurt. I was naive then but not anymore. Now I just want to go the route of casual dating ...

Why is he waiting to propose to me? Would it be wrong to leave him over this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5005 days ago

16 March 2011 (F) - Okay me and my boyfriend have been together about 7 years off and on. I care about him alot and love him. During our years of being together I have cheated once during a time that we were not doing to good. Now, we have moved past that which was ...

He always keeps me waiting!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

16 March 2011 (F) - When my boyfriend arranges to pick me up when we go out he is ALWAYS late. If he says 7.30 then its usually 8.00 o clock. He texts and says 8.00 then he will text at 8.oo and say make it 8.15 or sometimes he just turns up half an hour later and says ...

Dating a European guy and confused.....is this normal in his country?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

16 March 2011 (F) - OK, It is my first time to have dates with foreigner, and i am a little confused. 1,He said he never married and then i decide to have dates with him. But later he told me he has girl friend in his country and she lives his house with her two chil...

Please help me decode him........

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

16 March 2011 (F) - i know him since childhood .. he is 5 years elder to me and I used to call him Anna (brother) .. thats how any girl here calls a guy who is elder to her .. anyways .. after he finished schooling and left school in my 5th grade we hardly ever met or ...

What is he doing on facebook?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

16 March 2011 (F) - Help. My boyfriend of 5 months is constantly adding 'random young girls' on facebook. Since January he has added 100 girls. As soon as he adds them he removes them from his wall, so it looks like he never uses facebook. He never writes on his wall ...

Threesome gone wrong.....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

16 March 2011 (M) - Recently my girlfriend has been talking about a threesome with another girl and I wanted to let this happen because it was one of her fantasies. So by chance my birthday was last month and we final had our chance. She was not happy with the o...

How can I stop being so jealous?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

16 March 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, I have been dating my boyfriend now for almost a year. Started going together last April, but I moved away in August. We decided to keep things long distance. Hard. Anyway, back in December his friend that is a girl asks him to kiss...

He thinks I fake it in bed, when he is actually the best I have ever had! How do I get him to realise this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

16 March 2011 (F) - dear cupid my boyfriend and i have been dating for a month. i could count on one hand how many times we have had sex and i feel it isnt normal because my past relationships i'd usually lose count after the first week. he tells me he is really ...

How do I be there for him and take everything he says with a pinch of salt so I don't feel so let down?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

16 March 2011 (F) - I've been occassionally seeing my ex (datin for 6 mo). we broke up a few wks ago (I broke up with him because he didnt make enough time for me and promised he would but always had excuses some valid but sometimes i felt he was too lazy aswell).It ...

I was really affectionate and caring towards her, but why did she hurt me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

16 March 2011 (M) - I'm trying to move on, but it's just too hard and it still hurts. She is with her bf for almost 5.5 years, but it was hard for her. She went through a lot of emotional hurt, cried and is with a possessive guy. I fell for her 3 years ago, and I ...

Why are guys such pigs?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

16 March 2011 (F) - Why are guys such pigs? Ok, so I've recently started talking to a guy from high school. I've been out of high school for about four years, and it's nice to be able to reminisce with him. So we've been talking. And suddenly, he starts telling m...

I feel confused, bitter, angry and yet I can't seem to stop wanting contact with my ex...even though I'm married

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

16 March 2011 (F) - I'm obsessed with my ex-boyfriend and I'm married. How do I get over this? I dated my ex for 7 years saw that it wasn't going anywhere and wanted to marry someone who shared common values (faith, kids, family). I communicated this to my ex on many ...

I told my boyfriend my family has money problems and that my siblings might want to borrow some money from him...and now he finds my family disgusting.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5005 days ago

16 March 2011 (F) - I've been dating this boy for a few years now, and so far, everything's been wonderful. I'm planning to meet his family this December, and we've talked of marriage and kids. The problem is, I'm not so stellar of him meeting my family. My sibli...

I'm falling in love with him but I'm worried he only wants me for sex! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5005 days ago

16 March 2011 (M) - Ok, so I know I have asked for some help regarding to this situation before...anyways, i need more help. for those who didnt saw my other questions, well this is the thing. I met a guy like a month ago. and well we have been going out as "friends". ...

I'm not satisfied with the amount of money he sends me each month, but I am pretending to be ok with it. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

16 March 2011 (F) - Hello everyone, My hubby working as a truck reloader (permanently), 34 years of age, American guy.I'm filipina 26 years of age. I'm processing my papers already to move soon. He sent money to me every month almost 500$ if needed so I have ...

Am I doing the right thing by not talking to her anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5005 days ago

16 March 2011 (M) - Well ill try to keep this as simple as possible but its gets alittle weird. So this girl starts texting me because she wants to go out with my best friend (who keeps on rejecting her) and wants my help. So i tried to help her out but my friend just ...

Its not normal how insecure my boyfriend is!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

16 March 2011 (F) - My booyfriend doesn't clean! He doesn't let me do anything. I can't even gooo to the drs wyen I'm sick. He's very insecure. Thinks I'm cheating even thoo I'm with him 24/7. He makes me stay up all night cleaning then ay 6 am he makes me stay up with ...

Can I record nasty neighbors racial slurs and take to the property manager?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5006 days ago

16 March 2011 (F) - hello i have a ongoing problem with my neighbor who lives upstairs from time to time she yells out her window, bangs on her floors, yelling out racial comments to me. all because of my daughter playing inside the apt. she used to have a pro...

He smokes, does drugs and is from a lower class family. Is it right if I try to change him to my ways or am I not the right person for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4740 days ago

16 March 2011 (F) - To start off with Im gonna say im in a long distance relationship, have been now for 3 years but I met him for the first time in January which is when we made things official. Im gonna be honest and say I have many many issues (but i am not ge...