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*NothingLasts4ever-
writes:I wrote a couple of weeks ago about me and my boyfriend because we were having problems. We decided to go on a break type thing but still see each other.Recently, we've been getting on fine. We haven't argued or had any real disagreements. I really thought we had sorted our problems out and we were fine. But I asked him on Tuesday if I could meet him after his plans were over and he said "sure, it'll be pointless though." In the end he never told me when he was finished and so we never met up.Yesterday I told him how much it annoyed me how I'm always the one who makes up plans and he just follows along and how I'm the only one trying to make us work out. I didn't get much of a reaction from him. Not even a sorry. and today, I asked if I could meet him on Saturday as it's his day off work. He said no.I don't know what's going on in his mind, one minute he wants me, the next he doesn't. Do you think I should ignore him for a while and not make any more plans and let him do it or do you think I should keep trying?
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reader, -NothingLasts4ever- +, writes (9 April 2009):
-NothingLasts4ever- is verified as being by the original poster of the question That's exactly how it is with me and him. I don't want to say sorry when I'm not, but somehow I always do. The thing is though, it used to be the other way round. He used to make all the plans and he used to say sorry and kiss me first. Somewhere it changed.
But thanks for the advice, I'll have a word with him about it.
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reader, Alanna.. +, writes (9 April 2009):
Hey, I feel the same.
My boyfriend thinks he is helping outand trying to make it work
By hes not.
I am the one who has to say sorry after a fight- even if its not my fault.
I am the first to say I love you
I am the first to give him a kiss.
But without him i dont know what i would do
So my advice for you is
Try and talk to him about it
And if he still doesn't react in a way you would expect
I would end it
Im sure there is far better men out there for you.
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