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writes:I'm 19 years btw (don't know if that matters to anyone)I love my "boyfriend" so much and will do anything for him, he is my home, my heart and my other half..but.. we're together for one year, and this has been my 1st very serious relationship. But on are one year he broke up with me because he said that he doesn't trust me any more. He had found old text messages that were a joke with me and my friend to another guy. I understand 100% that I messed up. I said sorry numbers of time but he isn't very forgiving. We have had fights about how jealous I am and How he is and I understand that the joke wasn't funny because I would have been hurt too. I got that and I'm trying to show him that I only want him in my life and that I'm not a bad person. Even if were not together like as boyfriend and girlfriend I still feel as if I am. We talk every day, call each other, I go over his house and we still say I love you etc. Just like if we were together. But there is a lot of things he won't do because were not together. Like, If I tell him "I miss you" He might say it and might not or if I talk about how I love him a lot he might say he loves me a lot too or he might not. I have asked him to go back out with me once and cried tons of times about how much I need him. and even he cries as I do but he still won't get back together. I don't understand and this is really hurting me. I cry every night because I have no idea were I stand and this is really breaking my heart. I'm scared that I keep falling in love and letting my feelings grow deeper just to get hurt in the end..Its really hard for me not to call him because I feel like I need to talk to him. It's got so bad were if he doesn't call me back or call I freak out and cry because all I can think of is that hes leaving me. He's also my only friend so it's not like I have anyone else to talk too and I'm not at all close to my family. I keep thinking that he might be talking to his ex girlfriend because that was the 1st girl he ever really love and I found an old birthday card in his room and a box full of letters from in by his bed and I think that maybe there going to get back and that's why he doesn't love me. I have NO idea what to do. I can't just get over him, so what else is there? PLEASE HELP! because I feel like I'm going insane!
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reader, hername +, writes (9 April 2009):
hername is verified as being by the original poster of the question I don't want to be like "were not together anymore:
because I want us to be together..
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reader, princess09  +, writes (9 April 2009):
well if you both act like your together then tell him to his face that your not together anymore and hopefully he'll understand
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reader, Tma[ii]  +, writes (9 April 2009):
![Tma[ii] agony aunt](/avatars/49019154-9257-4e7f-bda9-714a02a3f12f.png) You could try writing him a letter and just telling him that it was a mistake and u love him and your worries and how much you love him.
i had the same problem and now im back with my boyfriend.
hope this helps xx
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