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writes:I've become concerned about my mum and wife recently, as whenever me and my wife go down to my parents some weekends, my wife starts flirting with her and doing faux-lesbian behaviour, much to me and my father's disgust.Me and my wife have an 11-year-old son who's doing well at school and is blithely unaware of his mum's behaviour.I spoke to her about it, and she promised to stop, but she then broke her promise.She and my mum flirt whenever they're out the room - and it's painfully obvious.I tried speaking to my mum, but she dismissed it as nonsense.My dad is getting stressed out over this, and says he believes me, but he publicly wouldn't admit to it in case it upset her.The situation is becoming untenable - souring relations between me, my mum and my wife leaving me and my dad stressed and unhappy.Me and my dad have decided to go for a weekend away on the coast to get away from it all and chill out - have we done the right thing? My son's staying with my brother for a week, he likes being with his cousins. I didn't tell him why - just said that me and my dad had some friends to go and see as an "alibi".Have we done the right thing?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009): You just gave your wife and mum an invitation to fulfill your wife's obvious lesbian or bisexual desires. I would NOT go away, or if you do, leave your son with your wife. If it's too late to change your plans with your dad, hire a private investigator to plant some listening devices in your bedroom, maybe even a few hidden cameras to capture any sexual encounters between your wife and mum.It sounds as if your wife has definite lesbian desires, which you will need to deal with. Perhaps your mum reminds your wife o her mom or another female authority figure. Or perhaps your wife s bisexual, which could actually work to your advantage, if you have ever had any sexual fantasies involving a threesome with your wife and another woman. It would probably be easy enough to find another bisexual woman with whom your wife would share a mutual attraction, and have another partner to cause your wife to lose interest in your mum.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2009): i think you just opened a door to your wife and mum if indeed they are really engaging in some sexual activities. with you and your dad out of the way what is stopping them from going further with this. your son should have been at home with your wife.this is a very unhealthy situation, your wife and mother are disrespecting you and your dad. perhaps trying not to visit them for a while may help. but this is too close to home - meaning how do you separate them?your wife and mother seem tempted, just gave them an open ticket? go home immediately.
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