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Archived questions from: July, 2012 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

We had a very emotional and nasty breakup and haven't spoken since.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

31 July 2012 (M) - My ex-girlfriend and I dated inconsistently for over three years. We also lived together for most of that time period. Throughout that time period, we had some rocky times, but also some amazing ones. However, the major problems were her twin ...

Why do I get excited thinking of my b/f with another girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

31 July 2012 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over 3 years now and everything in our relationship is really good still. Although lately, for some strange reason, the thought of another girl talking to my boyfriend and complimenting him excites me. I'd ...

I know the truth, still he tries to blame our son!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4486 days ago

31 July 2012 (F) - My husband of many years has been on the internet chat with numerous girls, but one in particular for years.....I just found out this information of late. My problem is he will not admit to it....he blames it on our son...and calls me sick in the ...

Why do girls flirt with other guys and ignore the one they have the crush on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

30 July 2012 (M) - Well i have noticed this recently, it's not only happened to me but to others. Well i noticed that when a girl likes a guy she does everything to ignore him and get away from him, even when the guy just passes her and says hello, the girl doesnt ...

In love with Pisces but attracted to Aries

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4479 days ago

30 July 2012 (M) - I am currently between my sophmore and junior year in highschool. I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend, we can call her Pisces, since the 8th grade, and have had feelings for her since 7th grade, making it 3 years in a relationship this ...

Did he want a threesome or was he testing me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4481 days ago

30 July 2012 (F) - okay so when i was in high school sophmore year i kissed a girl just a peck it was like a dare and i never kissed a girl ever again so 2yrs. after i met my boyfriend i told him about it and now 4yrs that we have been togeather he asked me ...

Tw guys head over heels in love with me.Torn loyalty to each. What should I do? One has been in jail.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4488 days ago

29 July 2012 (F) - I've got a huge dilemma. I have 2 guys pretty much head of heels in love with me. I was with Guy A for 4 and a half years. 3 of those years were spent getting beat up, abused and treated like a dog. Within that time, I gave birth to his 2 childre...

He still hasn't stopped communicating with her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

29 July 2012 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for five years, about 10 months ago he became friends with a girl. I was immediately uneasy about this friendship as he was very secretive and kept everything under the table so to speak. I only ever saw her ...

My boyfriend spends too much time helping another woman through her separation

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

29 July 2012 (F) - Hi. I could really use your advice to help me determine if I am over reacting in this situation. I have a boyfriend. We have been dating for about five months so the relationship is very new. But I am having a problem with his attention on a f...

He chose to be with somebody else, even though he doesn't like her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - He wont go out with me because he says Im too good for him, that he wouldnt make me happy, and Id end up finishing with him. We both like each other alot, and everyone knows it. Im a model and I do get alot of attention. He is unemployed and has ...

What's he on about? Wedding called off, he's moving out, but doesn't want to split !?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - Okay...so I'm feeling heartbroken and I don't know where to go from here? My fiance and I have been together for 4 years and we were supposed to be getting married this September. We've lived together for the last 3 years and we bought a new hom...

Why ask? Should I comply? My married lover wants to know about any other women I sleep with

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

28 July 2012 (M) - I have been sleeping with a married woman for over a year now. She has an open marriage (within some limits) and we get along great both inside and outside of bed. She and I were talking and I asked her if she'd be upset if I slept with other...

To me he is perfect. We plan to marry. But do you think he is gay? What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years. He told me approx a year ago that before we got together he had two sexual encounters with another male. He said these two occasions happened within a few weeks of each other. They didnt h...

My wife likes acting flirty sexy with other men. Should we consider the threesome offer my friend has made?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

28 July 2012 (M) - My wife has a sexy body and a real cute ass , she loves going 2 pubs and clubs with me and sitting fully clothed on other mens laps. She gets really turned on feeling their erection sticking into her private parts and we never make it home afterwar...

Seems the same guy is trying to steal another girl away from me. How should I handle this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

28 July 2012 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for nearly three months now, and lately, a guy has started trying to steal her away from me. This same guy has already taken one girl away from me and I know that he's heartless enough to do or say what...

Sex only 4 times in 5 years? But no affection? Gives his Aunt more affection. Should I leave?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - My bf of five years has only had sex with me four times He also only shows affection to his aunt I'm staying with him but his aunt is the one to get the kiss when he comes home Is it normal he does kiss hold or touch me and I sleep in his bed I c...

I was so mad to see her laughing and talking with somebody else, I punched a door!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4491 days ago

28 July 2012 (M) - Hi everyone, Ok. So I have two problems. Hope you can help me... 1) See I'm a natural flirter, I don't mean to brag but I can make a girl smitten by me in a couple of seconds,not literally but you get the point. But when it comes to my crush. I...

I told my lover's wife about us but it is as if she doesn't care!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - I am so hurt right now, I decided to tell my married lover's wife about our affair, because I knew that would be the only way to stop it. I am 35 yrs old and he is a 43 yr old man. It started out as a friendship with casual dinners, and no sex. ...

I think my husband had gay sex with our dinner guest!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - I have a bigger problem than my last one now! I think my husband of 4 years is having a gay affair! Ive talked to him, but to no avail, we just end up arguing, let me start from the beginning, 3 weeks ago, he kept making excuses to go out, 2 weeks ...

Now I'm in this predicament. But does he still love this other girl? Or is he just a player?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4488 days ago

26 July 2012 (F) - My boyfriend (21) has told me he has had 3 past girlfriends (N, G, M) and that he's had sex with only 2 of them and he doesnt even remember who he fucked G or M. Those supposedly are the only girls he has had sex with and also the first girl he lost ...

Should I consider this other man? My husband is not intersted in me. Does this other man only want sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

26 July 2012 (F) - Hi, iam 25 years old married and have a kid,my husband is not interested in doing any sex with me... Nor will he discuss any matters to me. I saw some SMS in his mobile , which is related to a girl. I think he has another affair, if i ask him, he ...

Do I continue to put up with his behaviour? Or not? He's Flirting, but not to me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

26 July 2012 (F) - hey :) small question i hope, so my boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 10 months. Urm.. hes never been much of a flirt but we've both had some trust issues however i had a reason not to trust him because he betrayed me before, not ...

I started sleeping with my best friend but think she is more interested in my house mate. I don't want to lose her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4492 days ago

26 July 2012 (M) - Me and probably my closest friends of the last 6 months have just started sleeping with each other. It just sort of happened. We have slept with each other twice in the last week and I am really staring to have feelings for her. However, I really ...

We broke up. How long will it take him to relent and text me back? He thinks I don't trust him any more

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

25 July 2012 (F) - A month ago, my boy friend and I broke up beacuse of a fight we had. Got back as friends and were coming back into our relationship and two weeks ago I went to his place for a movie. I was lying on his chest him cuddling me and everythi...

I've known him for years My female friend likes him too. He asked me out. How do we tell my female friend without her getting mad at both of us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

25 July 2012 (?) - My friend and I both like the same guy. he has known me since the 2nd grade but he has only known her for a couple months. He and I have been talking for a long time and he has liked me for years now and i really like him too. he asked me out...

How do I choose between two loves?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4494 days ago

25 July 2012 (F) - I just broke with my boyfriend of over 3 years about a month ago. He was very afarid of commitment and took me for granted.He would always put me down saying I wasen't skinny enough or I didn't waer enough make up...he is also very wealthy and his ...

I slept with a friend but I have a feeling she fancies my housemate!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

24 July 2012 (M) - I slept with a friend the night before last and am not sure what to do. We have been hanging out for the last 6 months and there has always been something there but I've really liked her personality and feel very close to her but because she is is ...

I think she is cheating again .....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4495 days ago

23 July 2012 (M) - I have been with my girl for about 7 months now. She cheated on me around april of 2012 with my best friend. Now she is ating quite strange. She makes conversations short, always has to go, never tells me anything about why she had to go, stuff like ...

I have a secure marriage and a satisfying affair!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4495 days ago

23 July 2012 (F) - I am very torn, and I need advise not criticism pls. Anyways I have started and an affair with one of my husbands friends. It isn't purely physical, I had some feelings for "Bob" for a few yrs prior. And now they have intensified.. My husband is ...

Please help...I am deeply in love with my baby's father

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4496 days ago

23 July 2012 (F) - I am 23 years old and so is he. we've had a 5 year relationship.. after finding out i was pregnant our problems began.. I left him when I was 7 months pregnant because of cheating suspicions . after my baby was born, he moved on dating an older ...

I lost my bestfriend to his girlfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4495 days ago

22 July 2012 (F) - I had a Friend who was one if my best friends. In fact he was more like the little brother I never had. About a month or so ago, he got back with his ex, who had cheated on him in the past. He said at the time, he felt like he was making a huge mis...

Influenced by his new friend, he has filed for divorce!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4496 days ago

22 July 2012 (F) - just over a month ago my husband of almost 12yrs left me we had been together 15yrs.the main problem for me was the fact that my husband had a new friend who would do everything he could to seperate us when we was out on a night our other friends ...

He seems distanced from me since he met her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4495 days ago

22 July 2012 (F) - My bf and I have been together 2.5 years now. We both in our early to mid 20s. He lives in a houseshare and I live with parents. Around 3 weeks ago my bf was sent to work 100 miles away and the company has put him in a hotel. He works 5 days and...

I feel like the third wheel in the relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4495 days ago

22 July 2012 (F) - This is kind of an awkward situation for me. My boyfriend has a four year old son. Well anyways, he brings me his ex's house with him to visit his son. I find it rather awkward to be hanging around an ex of his all of the time. I don't really talk ...

He is willing to give me up if I want a more secure relationship ...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

21 July 2012 (F) - A person who doesn't like expectations and commitment in a relationship but tells you he is in love with you and the love is real and pure. Is this love or just playing games? I am in love with a person who tells me this and my relationship wit...

Is it for the thrill of it all?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

21 July 2012 (F) - Hi Aunts, I have a question i would like to ask you all,as i can't seem to make any sense of it. I have been having a affair with a married man for quite some time,years actually,so please if any of you are going to preach to me that i'm doing wr...

My complicated love life? Or is it Lust? I need help please to sort this out.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4499 days ago

19 July 2012 (F) - i started talking to this guy from my old school that i have a crush on well used to now, we texted And inboxed each other on facebook. i started saying i had a crush on him he said he did too , then i started sending him naked pics of my self ...

What am I to her? Is she playing me and her BF? How can I make this situation better?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4500 days ago

18 July 2012 (M) - Hi, I'm confused and I need some good advice from you people I will explain everything thing in a bit of detail so that I could get some good and satisfying help! I met this girl in an exam center through a mutual friend of mine.. She was my frien...

Please help, I'm in a love triangle and don't know what to do!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4495 days ago

18 July 2012 (F) - Hi i am 23 years old and im Bisexual and im a relationship with a Girl but she has a husband she has a girl and a guy and i cant quit cheating on her cause i feel left out shes got both and i only have one i dont think its fair please tell me what i ...

I'm loving 2 men and not able to decide between them!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4500 days ago

17 July 2012 (F) - I really, really need advice because I'm desperately unhappy and hopelessly confused. I used to be in a relationship with a guy (say X) two years ago. It was an intense, passionate relationship but there was trouble from the beginning. I did...

My boyfriend Jake or the new guy Brad?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4501 days ago

17 July 2012 (F) - I don't even know where to begin with this one. It's gonna be a LONG read, sorry guys. I guess I'll just jump right in.. So I have been with my boyfriend (Let's call him 'Jake') for a year and a half. I'm turning 23 and he's turning 24. We h...

I'm getting sick of him still getting angry at his ex. Should I continue to endure this uproar on his part?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4501 days ago

17 July 2012 (F) - In a relationship 5 months both of us are one year out of a marriage, both still going through a split of property etc... My problem is that we ask each other for advice and we give each other advice, but he doesnt use it and just keeps getting ...

Went out with a colleague who has a girlfriend just as friends, and I got upset with myself for enjoying it so much! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4502 days ago

16 July 2012 (F) - i really like a guy i work with. the other day we went out as friends for a pizza and movie. he treated me so well that i got so upset and he ended up hugging me for 2 hours. im ashamed to say i really enjoyed it. i was feeling extremely low as i ...

My boyfriend's best friend is coming onto me, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4502 days ago

16 July 2012 (F) - I have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend but he seems to still put effort to get with me. Ask me for dinner, trying to get my attention, chat asking about me and my boyfriend etc. He's also my boyfriend's best friend. How he could still tryi...

I'm jealous and insecure of my boyfriend's childhood female friend. He admitted that he once loved her!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4502 days ago

15 July 2012 (F) - I am feeling insecure about my bf and his female friend. My bf and I have been together for a couple of years and we live together, mostly quite happily. He and his friend have known eachother since they were small children. They have went on out of ...

I dated a liar, how can I trust anyone ever again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4503 days ago

15 July 2012 (F) - HI All. Thank you in advance for reading and for your response. I guess I writing about what I am going through in order to get a hold of my emotions and receive advice on what I should do next. I was dating a man for over 7 months and I just...

Should I continue to give her support? Or is she using me? Should I distance myself from her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4502 days ago

14 July 2012 (M) - Hi there, I m male 42, married. Couple of years back, we came across a divorcee (46, self employed) and now she is good friend of us. We used to visit her home once a week for drinks or just chat, go movie / restaurant together once a month. ...

I'm getting married in 2 months and I've been thinking of a woman crazily

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

14 July 2012 (F) - I really need help! I'm a girl who's going to get married with a funny loving man. I haven't ever fancied women at all. But there's a woman whom i've been working with on a project. The way she looked at me and smiled at me was not like the oth...

Is this relationship worth all the pressure he is putting on me to have a baby and move in with his parents?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4504 days ago

14 July 2012 (F) - Here is my story. My bf and I are in a slump and a lot of crap has happened between us and now I'm being pressured by him. I feel super lost right now. I have been dating my boyfriend for nearly 2 1/2 years and before all the trouble began, we had ...

How is it possible to be in love with 2 people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4505 days ago

13 July 2012 (F) - How is it possible to be so in love with two people?? I always believed that you could only love one other person at once (as a partner) but Im in love with two. Its officially a HUGE problem. My ex dumped me a year and a half ago because we w...