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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i started talking to this guy from my old school that i have a crush on well used to now, we texted And inboxed each other on facebook. i started saying i had a crush on him he said he did too , then i started sending him naked pics of my self he wanted to have sex.i agreed with him we were going to, but i could never find the time to do it. so i started dating this nice boy, who actually likes me for me AND doesn't want sex as a first priority . My fwb who was my bf and I - I couldnt do anything with him anymore. Then it started he guilt tripped me into having sex with him by saying things like you wont be with him forever i wont tell no one, so you just used me then!! AND i wish you were mine (HA!). So i dumped my bf cause i didnt want to hurt him by doing that. so my fwb nd I have been having sex for 7 months there have been many times i tried to get him to go, but he will notI got back together with my ex:that nice boy i made a stupid mistake When I cheated on him with my fwb AND i cheated on him he forced me into having anal sex which freaked me out now he keeps inboxing me saying he wants to have sex soon AND I feel guilty if i leave my bf If I do my bf will never ever speak to me again but i dont blame him i woulndt either . so yeah im stuck between loving or "lust" i need advice on how to make this creep i mean my fwb leave me alone :(
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (19 July 2012):
 OK you need to learn how to say no, girl!
STOP having any contact with FWB-boy, delete him off Facebook, block him, his cell number and his e-mail. You can if you are polite, tell him it's over you are done, and to not contact you again.
Stick with the decent guy.
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reader, Angel S  +, writes (19 July 2012):
 This is a no brainer.
Stay with the guy who wants you for you. The friends with benefits guy won't stick around, and you are risking losing a great relationship just because of him. I think you have taken the situation far out of hand by cheating with this guy who is only interested in sex.
Cut off all contact and move on.
Xo xo
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