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Archived questions from: February, 2013 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

I want my ex husband back after he's cheating and my surgery. I seem to want him more now that he's been with someone else!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - This is a long story, but i will try to shorten. This began 2 yrs ago, i had been having some issues with fatigue and depression also had absolutely no desire for sex! During this time my husband of 14 yrs found someone who did like sex( 12 yrs...

I need help overcoming my addiction to prostitutes

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4264 days ago

28 February 2013 (M) - Hi I've been seeing prostitutes for 15 years. It started off out of boredom. I have always had a strong sexual appetite, I started masturbating from a young age. Every time I use a prostitute I beat myself up about it. At first I had protecte...

I think I'm in love with my husbands older cousin.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - I've been with my husband for 5 years, married for 1. Even before we got married I was having doubts. I still love him and would never want to hurt him, but I don't love him the way I used to. But now we are staying with his cousin. His cousin i...

Should I accept being the messenger between my divorced parents or should I just put my foot down and refuse to get involved? And how do I deal with my fathers behavior?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - I'm going crazy. My parents divorced (not officially yet) a month ago, and they both expect me to be the messenger between them. When they separated, my mom told me some things that I felt were very hurtful, so I didn't feel the need to talk to ...

Married 15 months. Yet without telling me he's resigned his job and left me. How can I get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - please help me !!! We have been married for the past 15 months. For the past 6 months we have been facing a lot of issues in our profssional and personal life. He started beating me abusing and so did I One morning he told me he is leaving the...

I'm so scared we made a mistake. Yes we married. But was I his "last resort" choice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - I met a man two years ago during a year long course. For the year he would follow me out for breaks, chat, flirt. I gave him my number and he called and invited me out. First night he told me about his drinking, drugs, problems with his dad, ch...

Is this relationship salvageable or should I move on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - My husband and I have had a bad marriage the last 2 years. We've been married 14 years. He turned into a workaholic and I was lonely. I started hanging out with friends. A few were guys. He avoided me by working all the time. I developed an add...

He leaves me goes to ex..rinse, repeat. How can I trust him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - i feel so lost. i was married and very unhappy, i met a guy at work and at first site it was as if i stopped breathing, i instantly loved him! butterflies fireworks everything! it signified the end of my.marriage as i felt if i was in love with my ...

Did I taint my husband's image? He is cross that I confronted the married woman who's been sending him love texts

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - I received love texts in my hubby's phone which were replies to a married woman's txts. The last one states that 'soon we shall be together darling' When i asked him he denied and said he has no affair with this particular woman. We decided to bl...

I'm pregnant and my husband isn't interested in sex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4255 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - My husband and I are expecting our first child. I'm five months pregnant. The last couple months, since I've been showing, my husband hasn't been as interested in sex. Most of the time we do, I have to ask for it or he initiates early in the morning ...

Why won't my amazing, lovely wife have sex with me with the lights on?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

25 February 2013 (M) - My wife is amazing in bed,even after 20+ years together,3 kids I still think she has a fantastic figure,the only problem is she still won't have sex with light on,let me me see her naked or have sex in daytime,I keep telling she's got a lovely ...

I don't want to divorce. Yet what can I do? Since retiring my husband likes to behave like a bachelor.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I am a 55 year and a working adult. My marriage was never and easy one because our was a arranged marriage. I have been married for 35 year. My spouse is a highly egoistic character. Since day one i was not able to communicate with my husband....

Should I forget about my wife's past with my friend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

24 February 2013 (M) - When my wife and I got together she just come out a brief relationship with a friend of mine,he was known as a bit of a player i was relatively inexperienced at sex where my wife was very experienced and very good at sex,when I asked my wife about ...

Need advice on being a wife of a minister

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

24 February 2013 (F) - I know this is going to sound like a stupid question but I married a minister and hes not real into his ministry as of yet. Its not as settled as he would like but I need help. Ive always hated secrets and hate that he has to keep things from me ...

Getting married in May but fiancee called another girl beautiful on the phone.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

24 February 2013 (F) - Dear cupid friends, help! I have been dating my fiance for 7 years. We are supposed to get married in May. He knows I already have trust issues with him. Well the other morning I looked at his phone and to my shock he had texted some other girl and ...

How can I get out of this unhappy situation? He says a divorce will be worse on the kids than us being unhappy.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4287 days ago

24 February 2013 (F) - I have been married for 14 years and have 3 kids under 10. My husband and I dated for 6 years before getting married. I am absolutely miserable in my marriage. My husband is emotionally abusive...a true narcissist. It has taken me too long and ...

I love my husband but he loves his money and freedom more than he loves me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

23 February 2013 (F) - My ques: myself and my husband got married 12 years back. We have 2 daughters. I love my husband more than my life. He 2 loves me. But he a very practical person. He is away from me for 9 months due to his work in ship. But when he is near to me he ...

I really want a baby. I'm trying IVF. But have personal troubles with my new man, who is critical of me. Is it a cultural thing? What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for three months, getting on really well. We both currently live in Thailand, working together and spending all our time together. Up until now it's been great. Feel very relaxed around each other and open about everythi...

What's your opinion on his actions on Facebook? we are dating but he "likes" girls on FB.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - I noticed theres a girl that my boyfriend works with and he "likes" a lot of her photos on facebook. Should i ignore it or ask why does he always like her photos and tell him i dont like it? (even though it may start a fight) I dont "like" or comme...

I know my wife has never cheated on me,so is my curiosity normal behaviour?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

21 February 2013 (M) - We have been together for 26 years. My wife was much more experienced than me, sexually. We got together when we were teens, my best friend had just been in a sexual relationship with her when we met. Since then I have become obessed with the...

My father in law creeps me out. I spoke to him, but what more can I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

20 February 2013 (F) - My father in law is always staring at me and gives me long hugs where I feel he tries to get a grab. I've told my fiancé I don't feel comfortable being alone with his dad so he really tries to stick around. Yesterday though they were both outside ...

Why would my 62 year old husband start looking at porn on the computer?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

20 February 2013 (F) - Hi, My husband is 62 Years old and for the past 2 months he has been looking at naked women online. He confessed to me last night. I was so hurt. What would cause this? I feel like I have nothing left. Donna...

My lover asked me to marry him but I'm already married!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

20 February 2013 (F) - HI! I’m 27years old and I'm a married woman with two kids. I'm in a relationship with a white guy, but I love my husband and love this guy so much more than my husband. This guy asked me to marry him and I said yes to him. Now I don't know what to ...

Why can't my husband get an answer from his doctor about him having erectile dysfunction?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

19 February 2013 (F) - How common is that, that a man cant get an answer from his doctor why does he have erectile dysfunction? My husband has a bad case of ED and total lack of desire. He went to the doctor, and he dint find anything wrong with him, from medical per...

I overheard my husband saying he wish I would lose weight. Now I feel sad and like absolute crap!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

19 February 2013 (F) - I don’t know what to do. It all started New Year’s Eve, my husband and I were at his company’s party and I went to grab him another drink. As I was walking back, I saw my husband and one of his employees talking, when I walked up behind my husband ...

Husband wants me to become friends with strange women because he likes them

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

19 February 2013 (F) - My husband seems to always want me to be friends with girls that he "gets a kick out of" but it always feels like he wants it so he can have an excuse to be close and flirty with them. I have said I am happy with my current friendships and don't ...

Husband's phone has a name as "buddy" who turns out is a girl! Should I be worried?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

19 February 2013 (F) - So the other day while my husband was in the shower, he asked me to find a number in his cell phone (a friend of his that we were meeting later) and call him to confirm the time. When I was doing that, his recent call history showed up, and I ...

Is it possible to forgive after spouse confesses to being unfaithful

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

19 February 2013 (F) - I need help and don't want to unload on family and friends, so I am turning to my dearcupid family. Does anybody believe that it is possible to forgive after spouse confesses to being unfaithful. The betrayal happened long ago, and he lied to me ...

My husband as an actor has to simulate sexual scenes onstage and I don't like it at all! How do I cope?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

18 February 2013 (F) - I'm going through a really tough time just now. My husband of 19 years is an actor- 8 years into our marriage( we married very young) he trained in acting and has done lots of fairly small screen/stage productions. He's a good-looking guy and ...

My wife confessed that she cheated and our 4 year old daughter isn't mine. How do we proceed from here?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

18 February 2013 (M) - I'm 32, and my wife's 31; been together for 9 years now. We have a 5-year-old son and 4-year-old daughter. Last night she told me she had something to confess; I asked her what it was, and she admitted to me: "Our 4-year-old daughter isn't m...

Husband can't preform because of pornography!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

17 February 2013 (F) - Frustrated at most, I've been married for 22 yrs and I'm still young early 40s ,however have hit a rough patch in my marriage which entails my husband can't preform the sexually act because he is busy watching porn ... We do have opposite schedules ...

How can I make my husband love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4294 days ago

17 February 2013 (F) - i love my husband more than anything. i am very possessive for him. i do not like when he take very interest while talking to any other women. when v go out he always look at other women admiring them. i just hate this about him. he always dress up ...

My wife doesn't know I'm cheating on her with men. I don't want to upset her OR live a lie!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4294 days ago

16 February 2013 (M) - Hi I am married in a straight relationship and have always been curious of being at least bisexual. About a year after we got married I had a affair with a guy I loved everything about our relationship but upset of being married. I now find ...

Separated husband claims he is always sick the weekend he is to spend time with our son!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4295 days ago

16 February 2013 (F) - Currently separated, heading for divorce. Have a two year old. No formal custody arrangement, we've been able to try to communicate and work out visits with his Dad corresponding with best interests of child. I've been very open to child spendin...

Is there any way to work things out with this cold unresponsive husband?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4294 days ago

16 February 2013 (F) - My husband and I are live in different houses. We have always lived like this due to work and children's schooling but now the relationship is at the point where we would be described at separated. I need love, security and affection and he is very ...

Some thoughts on retroactive jealousy

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

15 February 2013 (M) - I was thinking about my wife's past (again) and experiencing retroactive jealousy. I'm trying to root this out of me. It is the wise thing to do. Anyhow, I want to know what others going through this think of what I'm about to write. Recen...

My wife wants to have a child, I dont. What should we do?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

15 February 2013 (M) - I’m 31 year old man and I’m having a trouble in my marriage. My wife ( she's 32) wants a child, I don’t. We are married for 4 years. We discussed this subject many times before our marriage. I told her I never want to have children and asked whether ...

My husband doesn't seem to want anything to do with me on Valentines Day. what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 February 2013 (F) - Ever since I turned 12, I have always dreamed of celebrating Valentines Day with someone special. I never even had a boyfriend until I was 18. I never thought it would take seven years to be able to spend the day with someone I love. Now I'm marr...

Eight years of marriage and my husband never surprises me with gifts

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

15 February 2013 (F) - My husband and I have been married for almost 8 yrs. He never gets me gifts for anything. Not anything when i gave birth to our child! As a matter of fact this year for valentines day we were at a store and as we passed the cards he tol dme if I...

We've been married 5 years and my husband sends his ex wife a Valentine's Day greeting?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4297 days ago

14 February 2013 (F) - My husband has been loving and generous towards both me and his daughters this Valentine's Day. However, he sent an e-mail greeting 'Happy Valentine's Day' to his ex wife. We have been married nearly five years. How should I feel? React? ...

My wife wants everything but doesn't want to work for it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4297 days ago

14 February 2013 (M) - Is it rong for me to won't my wife to want my wife to work ther no kids at home she wants house she like to go out to diner she wants every thing I told her get a job and we Will work on getting a home I don't no if we are right for each orther any ...

I am married but sexually frustrated. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

14 February 2013 (F) - I got married with 10 years age difference. Usually I get sex mood but he can't do no longer ..he leaves me a month for job .... Now in my mind I'm full of sex mood with another guy but I did not say to him.... What can i do plz help me....

I snooped and confessed to my husband and now he doesn't trust me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4294 days ago

14 February 2013 (F) - I have been married a while and things were good in the beginning. But I have always been insecure and get jealous and so that made out relationship rocky. He has more single lady friends then he has guy friends and he talks to a couple of theses ...

How do I let my wife know its ok for her to have a vibrator?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4297 days ago

14 February 2013 (M) - I am a construction worker in Australia, which at the moment means working away from home. A lot. Recently i came home while my wife was out, and my curiosity got the better of me, and i looked in my wifes' bedside table top drawer where i found a ...

I'm going through a divorce and my 2 year old wants to call her father at night. Is this a bad thing to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4297 days ago

14 February 2013 (F) - Going through a divorce and I have full custody of our two year old daughter. She's very sad, mostly around bed time. Saying she misses daddy and wants to go home, I comfort her and it breaks my heart she's hurting. He doesn't try to see her and I ...

I don't think my wife likes having sex with me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

14 February 2013 (M) - Hey guys. I have some weird problems with my wife. I'm 24 and she's 23, we've been together for 3 years now. We have an almost healthy sexual life. We have sex about 7/8 times a week but the thing is: she doesn't seem to love having sex with ...

Why would my husband say that sex isn't fun?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

14 February 2013 (F) - I really enjoy personal time with my husband. Especially when it leads to making love. I'm the kind of girl who would be just fine with doing that every day with him. I thought he enjoyed it too, but today after showering together I asked him if we ...

I am doing something wrong and I can't figure out what it is.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

13 February 2013 (F) - Hey folks, thanks for taking the time to give me some advice on helping my husband-like boyfriend. This post is long, but I feel like if you, lovely helper, are going to give me some great advice you might need some details first. My boyfriend a...

Why does my husband have no interest in sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4295 days ago

13 February 2013 (F) - My husband and I have been married for almost 20 years, two teens, good life, great sex......until about 2 years ago. In the last 2 years our sex life has dwindled to nothing.....literally nothing. He has not touched me in 8 months. He is a ...

Un-Happily Ever After

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

12 February 2013 (F) - At first glace it would seem that things are fine, however, I have never been so lonely and miserable in my life. My husband is not home very often and goes to his friends’ houses, his dad's house or fishing after work most days. When he is at home ...