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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes: I noticed theres a girl that my boyfriend works with and he "likes" a lot of her photos on facebook. Should i ignore it or ask why does he always like her photos and tell him i dont like it? (even though it may start a fight) I dont "like" or comment on any guys photos so i dont see why he should. Whats your opinion?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (23 February 2013):
Do you not like pictures of boys you know because you don't like them (the pictures not the boys) or because you are trying not to upset your boyfriend or because you are trying to SHOW him what to do.
IMO, only the first reason is valid.
IF you like a picture that someone put up... let them know.
if you are concerned that your boyfriend liking a particular girls posts/pictures on facebook is indicative of him not being true to you, then you must talk to him about it.
to be honest I use the like button as an acknowledgement that i've seen something.... not much more...
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2013): Try also to like the pic of your male friend. Then observed what his reaction. Choose those handsome. Then if he react bad...tell him that's also what you feel.But honestly don't be insecure . Because if he has bad intentions, he don't let you know.
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female
reader, Intrigued3000 +, writes (23 February 2013):
I think you are being insecure and controlling. Has he given you reason to believe that he and this girl are more than just work colleagues?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2013): I personally don't like it.
My ex used to do it a lot, and it drove me crazy!
I would tell him that you don't like it.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2013): Personally, I think you should ask him about it and tell him how you feel. Communication is one of the most important things in a relationship!
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female
reader, Pr3tty_in_pink86 +, writes (22 February 2013):
Hmmm, from a woman's point of view this is annoying. I think it's an incompatability issue, some people will say you're insecure, others will say he is wrong. I personally think he is wrong, for a start he knows you can see it.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2013): Facebook can cause issues. My boyfriend and I found it better to not have facebook anymore. I believe honesty is the bedt policy. If it bothers you, then have a talk with him.
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